Why am I horny and crave sex at 21?

[Anonymous]

Ever since I turned 21 been really horny and masterbated daily and never had boyfriend but know a guy 2 years and very close to me and good guy. We like each other and have many things we have done together like my partner in crime. Now we are getting more serious and almost like a couple and went on a date few days ago. We never had sex just makeout and bjs. Recently he put the tip or kinda half of his penis in me & knows I’m virgin so he wants to be careful & only do real sex when I’m ready. After that I feel more happier and my. Night anxiety went away and my body is relaxed. I’m on my irregular period and birth control shot and have horrible stomach pain cramps and also super horny and soon would even feel ready to do the real thing and feel him inside me. I really wana masterbate but my moms in the room I just want to pound my vagina on his penis lollll that’s how it feels down there but I’ll do it when we are serious couple

[Anonymous]

Its very normal and healthy to crave sex at that age. When the time comes that you’re ready to have sex, take it slow and don’t overdo it. Have him go down on you for a long time first and if you’re into it, have him give you a massage first because it can help you feel very relaxed and aroused at the same time. Once you move on to penetration, cowgirl is always a good starter position because it allows you to control the speed and depth of it. And it also allows him to spank you or play with your butt in other ways, which usually enhances the experience for the girl most of the time.

[Asker]

Is it wrong I feel this way

[Opinion Owner]

No its completely normal and its very healthy to indulge in your sexual cravings and chances are you’ll want it even more after you’ve had your first time. If you have any more questions to help you better prepare for it, I’d be happy to answer them to ensure that its an enjoyable and pleasurable experience for you.

[Asker]

I hav one question. The guy told me why did I get shot anyways I said to be safe. He said oh lol aren’t u a virgin? I can’t get knocked up til u actually do it 😁 y did he say that

[Opinion Owner]

It was likely just a misunderstanding, there’s often a misconception about girls who use those forms of contraception because so many people go on to assume that they’re very sexually active if that’s what they’re using and it seems odd to them that a virgin would use that, when in reality you’re just being safe like you said and ensuring you’re protected and ready when the time comes for you two to have sex.

[Asker]

Yea that’s exactly y I got it like few days ago he put his tip in me but still I am less paranoid 😂😂 I said who says I’ll be virgin forever and I want my wish to come true 😌🍌

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah you don’t have anything to worry about if it was just the tip lol at you’re well prepared for your wish to come true 😂 are you really excited to have sex with him?

[Asker]

Lol now I got random stomach cramp felt like it was twisting into a knot 😣😣😣

[Asker]

Yea I want to have it with him other guys r jerks

[Asker]

He’s not my boyfriend yet would it be bad? I heard all couples hav sex if not it means u r just friends

[Opinion Owner]

Oh no hopefully it goes away! Side effects like that are the worst

[Opinion Owner]

That’s good you’re having your first time with a guy that you like instead of a random hookup because it will definitely be more enjoyable that way. I also should add that laying flat on your stomach can be a good position for your first time because it usually allows the guy to thrust deeper and won’t be uncomfortable for you, and the spooning position is also a very good first time one as well because it allows him to rub your clit during penetration, which will make it feel even better of course.

[Asker]

He said that’s my wish? To be in pain it hurts first time for girls

[Opinion Owner]

If you follow the advice I gave you in the earlier replies, it will be far less likely that it will hurt for you. What he needs to do is ensure that you are very relaxed and also really turned on before penetration starts. Its probably a good idea to buy a bottle of lube for it just in case and definitely don’t skip on foreplay or oral sex.

[Asker]

I got upset n wrote forget it I hav no wishes

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t think you should be upset, I don’t think he meant anything bad by that because he’s probably worried about it being painful for you. But I do think it was a mistake of his to send that, he should’ve sent you back something flirty instead of that, what he said can just kill the mood and sexual tension that has been building up.

[Asker]

Yea I’m not in mood anymore n upset n he replied n I’ll go to sleep I don’t sed his text

[Asker]

I won’t see his text tonight

[Opinion Owner]

Yep he totally killed the mood with that text, I would not text him again and wait for him to text you and be sure that he apologizes, then you can see how things go from there.

[Asker]

His text said how he enjoyed the other night it felt good with my vagina on his penis it was amazing etc

[Asker]

I’m not in mood n said oh yea me too same

[Opinion Owner]

I think you guys probably just need to take things slow and talk, that way you can make it known that he upset you and you can decide wether or not you still want to have sex with him when you’re in the mood again.

[Asker]

No everything’s fine I just didn’t get what he meant but now we r flirting ☺️

[Opinion Owner]

Oh good! Well hopefully you guys will get to have sex soon then!

[Asker]

I want to fck him hard 😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

Then you should go do that lol, it’s clear that you’re dying to have sex with him and it seems like you’re ready. Didn’t you say in your first post that you already have him a blowjob?

[Asker]

Yea but like we know each other 2 years

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok I can see why you would be really anxious to do it with him then, when do you think you’ll have sex with him?

[Asker]

I don't know like we barely got serious for each other like he doesn’t pressure me

[Opinion Owner]

Well its good that he doesn’t pressure you but if you haven’t gotten serious with each other but have blown him, have you two even seen each other naked yet or have you not gotten that far yet?

[Asker]

I haven’t seen his butt lol

[Opinion Owner]

Lol has he seen yours?

[Asker]

Yea lol

[Asker]

But we r just very very close he is good guy , others r really bad 🥺

[Opinion Owner]

Its good that you picked a guy like that to have your first time with then, I honestly think you should do it soon because it really sounds like you can’t wait much longer. Just make sure you tow will have enough time alone for it or even get a hotel room because that way you would have total privacy and not have to worry about any interruptions.

[WannaPleaseMaGirl]

Birth control could actually be messing with your hormones and making you hornier.

Also the fact that he entered you slightly is in a way a tease and an drive a girl insane and wanting it even more.

Otherwise it's normal. The situation and the build up just makes you wanna get closer and closer too it.

[Asker]

I do like the shot but hate the side effects

[WannaPleaseMaGirl]

All birth control can have side effects. Some work better depending on the person.

[Asker]

I have to suffer this to not get pregnant 😫😫😫

[Asker]

I’m even getting pains in my neck

[WannaPleaseMaGirl]

Try new ones. See what fits you best. (Pure estrogens or progesterone mixes) You can also used condoms mixed with pulling out. It also help keep you from going all the way if you know you need to be more careful.

[Asker]

Try new what?

[Asker]

Is it bad I told my boyfriend the shot is driving me Crazy

[WannaPleaseMaGirl]

New forms of birth control. Crazy as in crazy or horny? Either way no it's not bad that you tell your boyfriend

[Asker]

I don’t like pills

[Asker]

Now I’m getting neck pain stiffness

[Asker]

And cramps stoppped

[Chopperdog3]

There are patches that work really good. You change them every Sunday and just wear the little patch all week. There is also a iud which is what most doctors are recommending these days which is just a little t shaped thing that goes up and basically blocks everything from speed gettingnin or other options besides the pill like the implant

[Asker]

@Chopperdog3 my neck is stiff kinda now low breathe and cramps stopped

[Asker]

I liked the shot and feel fine wen I’m not on my period but since I got my period 2 days ago I feel horrible!!!

[Chopperdog3]

I still think that you should go to your doctor and have them change it because your body should not be reacting like that... I would strongly suggest the iud. It’s probably the safest method so you don’t get pregnant and there is a plus!!! You don’t get periods!!! Also it’s not painful at all. It’s also good for five years unless you wanna have a baby the. You just go it and they take it out

[WannaPleaseMaGirl]

@Chopperdog3 eh IUDs actually come with their own issues. Keep that in mind. I've heard this from my sister who got one and my nurse girlfriend

[Chopperdog3]

There are two kinds of iud. If you get the copper one you will have a lot of pain and many issues but if you get the other one that is not copper there are little to no risks with that one or side effects...

[Asker]

@Chopperdog3 I’m normal now but not sure if low breathe is just be being calm or due to the shot

[Asker]

Don’t pills give side effects too?

[Chopperdog3]

Yes everything will have some side effects but ignore you go ask your doctor what they recommend they will say iud. It’s really worth it and you don’t have to worry about it doe 5 years

[Asker]

@Chopperdog3 I was fine but only feel horrible on period

[Asker]

N since I was kinda intamite with my boyfriend 2 days ago n I’m a virgin I felt so relaxed and anxiety free as I used to get anxiety at night daily and now it’s gone but not sure if it’s due to shot or intamicy

[Asker]

Is there many that take the shot? I always only heard of people taking pills only

[WannaPleaseMaGirl]

A girl I was with took shot, my ex did nothing , my sister does IUD and girlfriend does pill.

[WannaPleaseMaGirl]

Hmm what kind of anxiety or what were you thinking about. Yea hormones could get over that but intimiciy also messes with mind chemicals so can you give more details

[Asker]

I think good with the shot cuz I forget to take pills

[WannaPleaseMaGirl]

Haha yea best not to get something too easy to mess up just remember to renew shot then but look into IUD

[Asker]

Yes I remember to renew it

[I_smell_Ducky]

Um, because you are a normal, healthy woman

[djmzes]

Simple
It is normal but what you gonna do about it is more important...

[slatyb]

Horny is the normal human condition. by the way a BJ is sex. You can get an STD from oral sex without a condom.

[Asker]

The shot is driving me crazy

[Asker]

Got horrible stomach cramps now calm but low breathe stiff stomach and stiff neck

[Asker]

Wen I’m not onnperiod i am Normal but first time getting period on shot and going crazy!!

[humanearth]

have fun go at it

[ChooseAusername]

It's normal

[vald9inches]

What you need is a nice thick big one! 😉

[Cowboy6666]

Nothing happened on this Sunday. Lol

[Asker]

This shot is horrible

[HereIbe]

Because you are perfectly normal. Pussy pounding is good.

[Asker]

Why is it good

[HereIbe]

Get your pussy pounded and you will know.

[numerouno85]

That's normal

[Anonymous]

You are young, and a guy you like is playing around with your body, and sticking his dick in you. So of course you are horny and wanting to fuck.

[Asker]

I only trust him other guys r jerks

[Anonymous]

Congratulations you are normal.

[Anonymous]

Why wouldn't you be?

[Anonymous]

If you want id drill your tight pussy:) 😘