How do I get my boyfriend to stop with his daddy kinks?

[Anonymous]

We've just started having sex. He had a girlfriend before me but before him I'd never had sex with anyone before. So when it came to losing my virginity he seemed really excited about it. He was really sweet, romantic and gentle with me during foreplay but once he put it in he started getting a little rough with me and saying stuff like "I wanna make that virgin pussy bleed" then he choked me and kept calling himself daddy and saying I was his little baby girl. I felt really uncomfortable and it was starting to hurt really bad and I couldn't stop bleeding so he stopped. My heart was pounding like crazy, I felt so embarrassed with myself for freaking out and bleeding everywhere so I started to cry a little.

He made me a cup of tea, helped clean me up and we cuddled in bed watching TV and told me he was sorry and he should have waited till I felt more relaxed and comfortable before behaving that way in bed with me.

Times gone by and now I feel a little more comfortable with his kinks. He started role-playing with me whilst I'm sleeping. He'll wake me up and tell me I've been a bad girl and need punishment from daddy. He literally gets me to deep thoat him and tells me im a good girl. He likes when I'm completely shaven down there and dressed up all girly and pink. I do like some aspects of it but sometimes I just feel really uncomfortable and tell him stop because I feel it borderlineing role playing pedophiles, he gets mad and says he's knows I think he's a sicko deep down but I think he needs to stop with this fantasy of his, I don't know we're he gets it from, porn I'm guessing but I just want him to be real with me. I dont want to have put on a show for him any more, I like him for him.

[MatinBrumeux]

Well then...
For starters he screwed up big time for your first time. You openly told him you were a virgin and he proceeded to be super rough, chocked you and made you cry...
If you are uncomfortable doing things, DON'T DO THEM. You need to tell him you are sick of all the role play shit and if she doesn't want to stop, dump him.
He's borderline super creepy.

[MatinBrumeux]

Update: RUN

[SarahVanRensburg]

That just sounds so wrong. I'd either speak to him about it and how it makes you feel or I'd just leave. He needs help. I would NEVER want my first time to be like that...

[thebigc]

Agreed. That's not cool if it isn't agreed upon before

[Anonymous]

Probably you break up.

These don’t seem like nice to haves for him but required and for you they are not all comfortable.

His approach is really not okay either - these things should be discussed not just introduced.

[DarkFunction]

Omg that sound horrifying. If you didn’t consent to him treating you like that, it is really not right at all.

[DarkFunction]

After your update I can honestly say get the hell away from that guy! He likes abusing so he can comfort you? What the actual fuck, no, this is royally and unquantifiably wrong. If you were one of my cousins, nieces or friends I would like to have a quiet word with that guy.

[aa180]

Normally a guy who engages in those kinks is a dream come true for a girl.

[DanoMR98]

OP, I don't want to distract from the question at hand, but your boyfriend sounds pretty toxic. I would seriously think about what you want out of this relationship vs what you're getting, and where you think it's going.

Again, I don't know your life -- this is just how it sounds to me, the reader.

[Danny_dan92]

Crazy bastard 🤣🤣🤣

[outside_Toronto]

So... Stop having sex with him

[thebigc]

Welcome to the dark world of ddlg. Leave while you are still sane and not a zombie

[thebigc]

Update, that's the worst kind of dom. A sadist. Someone that feels satisfied by hurting other people.

[spaghettiyumyum]

Aaww ure gonna break his little black heart huh?

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

If you are uncomfortable with it then it needs to stop.

[EDWINDUNDEE999]

He is your Daddy

[Anonymous]

Ohh he's fucked up but i think he needs to slow down about it a little bit... Calling himself daddy is ok but any other shit like calling you a little girl and wearing all pink and the roleplaying shit is just gross...