This is sort of an embarrassing question, but I'm wondering what men and women think of this behavior during cunnilingus. I have been in three sexual relationships, two with men and one with a woman (BTW I'm a girl). Receiving oral gets me super wet almost instantly, and I find it hard to control myself as I approach my climax, and am usually screaming, moaning, shaking, bucking and sighing when I reach the big O. In particular, I unconsciously clamp my thighs shut on my partner's head once their face is between my legs and they're licking my p*ssy. I also grab them by their hair to bury their face in my p*ssy once they've started going down on me. Would you like it if a girl did this to you, or not? What about the thigh/leg lock around the head?
In addition, I’m not a squirter, but I am naturally very wet/juicy, especially when I’m about to come. When either of my two male lovers were eating me out, both mentioned that I’d been the wettest woman they had ever been with. My female partner also told me I was very slippery (and butterscotch-flavored, too!) Everytime someone’s pleasured me orally in the past, by the time I’ve climaxed, the giver’s face, mouth, neck, chest and hair, and shirt would all be very wet by the end.
Another thing I'm kinda concerned about is the way that I orgasm. Not only am I very loud/vocal when I cum, but when I’m climaxing, my whole body goes into these little seizure-like fits, where my hips start to gyrate, my muscles kinda twitch, I start having little spasms, and I moan and groan lots.
Basically, I’d really appreciate it if you’d let me know your opinions on these sexual quirks. Do you have any of these yourself? Or guys(girls too), would you be grossed out if a girl did one of the aforementioned things, or do you find it attractive?
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For this, my SO = You.
Sure. Your reactions are how I "keep score". I will say when the moment comes and you do the head burying/thigh squeezing and flooding out all at once, there can be a breathing issue and I will have to back away for an instant to catch my breath before diving back in. You get quite strong during orgasm and I have to hold on tightly "ride out" the the bucking and convulsions. Under normal conditions, you might be embarrassed by the display but, being lost in the moment, you aren't and we don't talk about it..
It is surprising how your Vag will expand at orgasm, allowing pursed (like a kiss) lips and tongue to pass inside and how your cervix will sometimes push out to meet it. That is also when the fluid really floods out and changes flavor. When we do 69-oral, with you on top, the flood borders on amazing and I will have to repeatedly gulp the fluid down...maybe half a teacup full, which is certainly not pee (thicker and now tart flavored, a bit like German table wine (!)
None of this is gross, etc. It is exciting and an intense turn on. You and I laugh when I have to towel my face off afterward. Do not ever worry about this.1