Do you have and kinks or fetishes that give you feelings of shame or embarrassment?

Question

So we all have our own kinks, our own fetishes, some are simple and some are strange. We all have them though.

Do you have any that you're ashamed of? Or that you're embarrassed by?

There are many reasons we may feel ashamed of a fetish. Watersports is far more common than one might think, but the topic is embarrassing to bring up. A survivor of a trauma may find themselves turned on by things relating to the event, such as CNC. Or it may be something that just isn't socially acceptable, such as zoophilia or incest related.

I post this, because I have a few, and I know I'm not alone. It's a difficult topic to discuss, especially if you feel alone in your desires. I promise though, you're not alone, there is someone else out there onto the some crazy shit you are.

I'd love to discuss the topic further, and given it's sensitive nature I understand it will likely be a majority anonymous replies. If you're comfortable discussing your fetishes, would you be willing to share with the class?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm a voraphile, I want a cannibal or zombie to eat me alive. The more gruesome the better.
I'm a "little" I think that's the proper term for it. I've not had much experience with it but love it so much. It's basically a form of ageplay. I like to identify with younger people. I'm sure you understand where I'm going.
I also have a bit of a rape fetish. I often fantasise about getting raped and love roleplaying it. I will shamefully admit I have searched out real videos of rape. And even more shamefully, I enjoyed them.
I should probably be shot and put down for most of my fetishes, and I often get backlash for it. It's something I don't openly talk about. I have plenty more fetishes but these are the worst. Most likely.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Me being a frequent user of Tumblr, I have discovered kinks I didn't know I had. I was so shocked and weirded out by a certain character that Tumblr loves to make smut about, and I read one just for laughs, and I did laugh, but after a while, I was like "ok, this is pretty hot" 😂😂😭 I now consider myself one of that kinks' group. And yeah, they have a group name for people who like this kink, that's how Tumblr is. 😂

PrincessGrail · Accepted Answer

I have one fantasy that I definitely wouldn’t want to come true irl. I try not to think about it anymore cause it makes me feel bad.

jiffyjeff1029 · Accepted Answer

Well I will say that I've messed around with dogs before but it has not happened since I was 17.. That last dog I have was Droopy and I never messed with him. When he accidentally got hit by a train I never wanted another dog.. I'm a cat person now

BigBlueGuy · Accepted Answer

I have a few that I am embarrassed about having.

GiventoFly01 · Answer

I do. Its not that they are terrible or anything. For me, its just very awkward because they formed from childhood experiences. Basically, my mom and aunt unknowingly were the cause for the only 2 things I ever am turned on by. I dont necessarily relate them back to my mom and aunt, but there is no doubt that they are at fault.

bill_towers · Answer

Not really. Everything I am into I accepted by the people I know.

asc628 · Answer

Yes, I would say I have a sexual violence fetish. I cannot get off unless I picture myself as a third person 'watching' and occasionally individually being subject to CNC sex or elements of domination in this sense. Regarding specifics, I also have a blood kink. I am so turned on by biting, vampires, knife play, extreme impact play, belt whippings... etc. Another kink would be an older male in a position of authority and being subject to this.