What do you guys think of wife beaters / girlfriend beaters (read before voting)?

[Gopnik]

so today 1 of our classes fell away AKA we had 45 mins of free time, me and a good friend waited for one of our female friends so we could go to the Mcdonalds downtown, since her boyfriend is a jealous faggot she turned off her phone because she has an app that allows him to see where she is with pinpoint accuracy, anyways when we got back they ended up getting into a fight and me and my friend walked past them and the boyfriend immediately turned to us and screamed did you 2 go downtown with her? and he started acting up and all aggressively towards me and my friend, at which point i told him no and to act normal, he tried pushing me but because he's a skinny faggot he couldn't then he tried to punch me but his girlfriend (my friend) got in the way, if he hit me i would have kicked the shit out of him, but i later found out that before me and my friend came he pushed her, hit her and kicked her, which i find to be very unacceptable, the kid thinks he's everything and he can do and please as he wants because he has a few friends, but i put that in my snapchat and i got 3 replies from friends of mine who are over 18 asking what his name was where he lives etc, because they want to beat the shit out of him, i told them his name but told them to wait with trying anything, but the boyfriend made so much bullshit, to the point that my friend went into class crying and ran out crying to get her boyfriend out of his class to talk.
what do you all think and what should i do if the kid tries to act up again which he certainly will.
i really want to kick the shit out of him, but what does GAG think about this?

[sockandshoes]

when you see situations like this PLEASE intervene. most of the time girls can't get out of situations themselves because of the fear, these abusers tend to drill in their head that they have nobody and that they’re all they need (which is why they tend to stay with them). beat the fuck out of him, let him know that she’s got friends that care about her. put him in line. just wait till he tries to hit you again and if the police get involved claim self defense. (though i doubt he’ll want them to, considering he’s the abuser here). invite her out again and wait for the opportunity to come up.

[Gopnik]

he's very controlling, he has all of her accounts pinpoint accuracy location app too, but she's the mentally stronger one, she calls him out n his bluffs, he always says he'll hit someone and during the fight he said he'd hit her again so she screamed at him to do so which he didn't, but yeah he will definitely hit first because he's an aggressive little gnome, and i'll kick the fucking shit out of him.

[sockandshoes]

yes do it. women beaters tend to be the most pathetic sons of bitches. which is why they beat on women to feed their weak masculinity

[Gopnik]

he's the type of person to start shit and then call other people to help him because he can't deal with his own problems, but i know more people that are also a lot more dangerous, so if he does try it i will get my own backup and tell them to just make sure i can fight him one on one.

[Anonymous]

What’s the app? Only asking because I’ve been concerned about someone doing something like this to me!

Anyway, I voted for the first one.

[Gopnik]

the app?

[Opinion Owner]

You said there’s an app that allows him to pinpoint her exact location?

[Gopnik]

oh, it's like friend finder or smth, i don't remember the name just that it could pinpoint you.

[Opinion Owner]

Is it on snapchat?

[Gopnik]

i know snapchat allows you to see friends through the snapchat map, but i know it's not accurate at all, I don't know if snapchat allows you to send pinpoint accuracy positions.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, the only apps that allow you to I think you all need to be on it as far as I’m aware.

[Americanchick87]

Why did you tell them to wait with trying anything? Why would you not do anything?

[Gopnik]

i could have told them to just come to our school and wait for him, but i don't know if that'll just burn the fire even more, they were talking it out and i don't know if she defused the situation.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Very rarely do I feel sorry for girls in abusive relationships.

You can throw the "she's pwobabwy afwaid" argument in my face all you want and all I'll do is laugh.

Almost every girl has her fair share of white knight orbiters and similar people she can whip up to protect her at a moment's notice. So when a girl in an abusive relationship fails to do this.. I interpret it as there being no problem. If she really didn't want to stay, she'd call in the cavalry and high-tail it. No excuses.

[Gopnik]

i'm not throwing the she's probably afraid argument, i just know she's desperate to make it work but i don't think after him hitting and kicking her she wants to stay with him, i'll ask her Monday what's up but if the dude tries anything again i'm not gonna beat the shit out of him for her's sake, but for mine.

[mrbobz]

As much as you want to beat him up... And we all probably feel that way... Nothing good will come of it, he is a low life scum who will never change. The best option is to help her get out of the relationship and make sure she is safe. By attacking him you risk destroying your own life if the police get involved... Is he worth that?

Protect your friend... Get her safe, but don't resort to violence unless he instigates it... Film it all and it will be his ass in jail

[Gopnik]

we didn't instigate anything, if at all we went to great lengths to avoid it, but yet he brought us in, and as much as she tries to uphold the "relationship" the 2 of us both told her that she should just leave him because he will never learn, but if the kid acts up again and tries to hit me i will kick the absolute dog shit out of him, i'll make sure there are no cameras around that area.

[AustinMan]

This isn't up to you but your female friend. She needs to get away from him.

[Gopnik]

the kid's involving us and he's likely to get aggressive again, if he tries to hit me or something i'll beat the shit out of him.

[House5plusforth]

don't put yourself at there level unless he put's his in yours then as quit as it is keep, I would get those three dudes you was talking about then see what's up with his shit talking to grown men and putting his hands on women like he do.

[DDpsy]

If he comes at you again then go all the way for you not for the chick. Don't get yourself involved intentionally though. Chicks that stay with those types of guys are with them for a reason and in the end they will always be on the shithead's side.

[Gopnik]

she's a good friend of mine but i didn't involve myself, i went out of my way to stay out of it but yet the jealous boyfriend involved me and my friend, if he acts up again he's going to get it.

[Anonymous]

Part of me wants to say rough him up to teach him a lesson, but then there's the consequence of assault and the police getting involved.

Don't go giving out his address and stuff to others, that's just low and almost like you're getting people to do your dirty work for you. (Not standing up for the boyfriend or defending him in anyway)

She needs to get out of that relationship... does she have actual proof of beatings etc? Like photographic? Go to the police with it. It's a tough situation, as I know you want this issue solved, but there's a lot of factors to consider.

[Anonymous]

Let a man deal with his property as he wishes

[Gopnik]

fuck off bridge troll, radical muslims are not welcome here.

[Anonymous]

Assholes.

[Gopnik]

i want to beat the shit out of that kid, the way he acts and she even tries to put a lot of effort into their "relationship" but the kid is a jealous faggot who doesn't seem to understand anything. he got laughed at for acting such a fool, one of his friends who was there just laughed at him because he recognized i'm way bigger than the kid and the kid tried to punch me, he gave me a slap but that was at the beginning of it all when i was relatively calm and collected.