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Ever had an orgasm that scares you?

This happens to me sometimes, if I have an orgasm and then soon after, if I masturbate or have sex again ,if I feel myself starting to orgasm (and it's almost always harder the second time to do that), I start to shake uncontrollably and sweat, and sometimes I feel like I'm going to pass out or I feel ever so slightly sick. It's weird because, I still want to have the orgasm, but I feel like something bad is happening to my body and I can't explain why. It's kind of scary. Also the orgasm in the end isn't all that great, it's more like my body is just relieved it's over with... This only ever happens if I'm orgasming a second time in say a day or two... Sometimes I've had to stop just before I orgasm because I get too weak and I can't carry on. Does this happen to anyone else? Do you think an orgasm ever could be dangerous for your body? Do you know why it happens?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Oh, that used to happen to me.

    The first time I had an orgasm, it was just too strong and intense for me to handle, so I freaked out. I thought something bad was happening to my body.

    After hours of research and at least 5 more masturbation sessions, I realized that there's nothing wrong with it and it just can't harm me. I just started letting myself go.

    In fact, the oxytocin, endorphine, adrenaline and other hormones secreted throughout the orgasm make you healthier than you were a minute ago.

    Genghiz Khan, a Mongolian leader, used to have sex with random women every day to lengthen his lifespan.

    Anyway, back to the topic. We fear the unknown, and such a strong orgasm is unknown to your body, so your brain misinterprets everything. After a couple more strong orgasms, your brain will realize that there's nothing to fear, and you will no longer be scared.

    Until that day, good luck!

    • Genghis was a sex vampire.

  • Nope never had that, orgasm isn't bad for your body really unless you're already unfit, then it can cause issues related to heart trauma. Shaking uncontrollably and sweating is normal, my ex used to do it every so often. She never told me it felt scary though or bad. Guess it's different for different people. Perhaps it's uncomfortable for your body, sort of like you're more sensitive after the first time, that the second time is just more than your body can cope with.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have had orgasms like tht, I love it but I no what you mean how it can be a little scary... I think they are good for you and thts what happens when you reach the greatest amount of pleasure... I mean when all is said and done, if you love it then it probly isn't dangerous foryourself it problly better, and stopping before is cus you get to the level of excitement tht you can't control your boday anymore... thts what having someone else do it may be helpful cus they won't need to stop and ull reach a great orgasm:)

    • but these orgasms are never that great compared to others, it feels more like a relief

    • hmm, well for me.. I love it, but idk.. just try to relax..

  • Ive experienced many orgasms in my life time, but when I started dating this new guy everything felt so MUCH better. It was an early morning and we ended up screwing and after I started to cry, not out of pain but pleasure, it was unbelievable! We recently stopped being intimate because we're both going through our own stuff, but I can't wait to have sex with this man again...he makes feel so amazing!

  • those random contractions are weird I agree. I feel like a zombie when I do ha ha its like you lose control over your body :O

    always wondered how guys manage to stay serious when they see that :)

    HOW DO YOU GUYS DO THAT? it must look hilarious...

    oh and do guys shake uncontrollably too when they orgasm, or is it just the chicas? (virgin here)

    • loool

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  • I don't know about scary but I've had those shaky legs and

    unable to walk right and some dizziness lol... its amazing

    feeling though.. on the verge of a numbness or super relaxation haha.

    • Woow thats amazing... Have u ever orgasmed with ur clothes on

  • The very best orgasms will leave you passed out for a few minutes. You know you can have a better orgasm if you have never had one where you actually blacked out for a bit.

    • but like I said, these orgasms I'm getting are never as good as the ones I have first... the orgasm becomes more like a relief then actual pleasure.

  • Never scared, but I've had a few "who is that guy screaming?" orgasms.

    I wouldn't worry about orgasms. If they were dangerous, we wouldn't be built to have so many, and they certainly wouldn't be so much fun.

  • No, I barely feel my orgasms at all :(

  • Yes been there

  • When I had my first orgasm yes but after that no

  • I've had a few scare me but in a kind of positive way. Like o shit my life is changed forever now lol

  • Never been scared but for me the more intense the better

  • I have had ones that scare me with it's intensity and emotional shattering. My husband has found a spot that he says he finds deeper than my G spot near my womb that he puts constant pressure on and it makes me flip out. My whole body seizes up, shaking, reaching the peak and staying there until he lets me go. I need LOTS of snuggles afterward because it leaves me emotionally defenseless.

  • The same thing is happening to me. You explained it really well. What's going on? I stop before orgasm because I feel to faint. Then I get soft really quickly.

  • i've never had one for myself. but I gave an ex a few orgasms in a row and she started crying it was so intense. it was scary but really hot at the same time.

  • sometimes because it's like you have no control over your body

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