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BISEXUAL/LESBIAN GIRLS - why are there some that espouse hate and then hide behind "Anonymous" when they post their hatred?

BISEXUAL/LESBIAN GIRLS - why are there some that espouse hate and then hide behind

I don't want to say there's a lot, because there isn't, but one "Anonymous" girl (30-35) hiding behind her anonymity just posted yesterday a question naming me, totally against all GAG rules and policies, and trashing me for being bisexual and even posting one of my Youtube links that I put to a question about bisexuality, as if to insinuate that bisexuality is a bad evil thing. If I reported her to GAG, her post would be taken down, but it is a good example of some of the hatred and bigotry that remains in society against lifestyles that the real bigots still out there don't agree with.

I have never tried to hide that I am bisexual, or even that I lean 80% to the lesbian side. In fact, quite the contrary, It has been on my profile forever and I have let many others on gag know that so they could decide if they still wanted to be my friend, or not. I even wrote two myTakes about it shown below.

Why is #MsAnon assuming that I am suppose to be ashamed of who I am?

#MsAnon tried to make an insinuation that because I follow mostly girls, that I am trying to solicit, even straight, girls for sex. One girl in my defense told her that maybe I just like their opinions and that is why I follow them - She hit the nail on the head - 100% TRUE.

The thing that touched my heart the most was that none of the responders trashed me or my lifestyle. A second girl, also hiding behind "Anon" said that she blocked me, eluding to the fact that she doesn't like anyone that posts any questions about "Sexual Behavior". That is fair, nothing wrong with that. I know there are others that have done the same. I respect that, but not the hiding.

So, as demonstrated by #MsAnon , the questions still remain...

Forbidden Love – Will Lesbian Girls Ever be Free of Societal Bigotry?

The In's and Out's of Bisexuality - Can't We All Just Get Along?

Thank you for listening to my rant :) I LOVE YOU!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It is the plague of modern society and the social media to hide behind anonymity to voice one's opinions knowing that there is little to fear in terms of legal action.

    Those are the kind of people that do not have the courage to express their opinions openly and need to hide behind anonymity, regardless on the topic or subject in question.

    I do condemn every attempt by anons to jeopardize the freedom of speech. Yes, anons have that right too and they make a very wide use of it. Only, they misuse this freedom by not playing fair and hiding behind false identities and cowardly anonymity.

    What does that tell me about those people? Right! they rather insult, demean, troll, give negative opinions and false statements rather than to be constructive and ask for the why and how of a situation or fact. It is so much easier to call someone whore, just because this person thinks or behaves differently than what one would think is the norm. What is the norm nowadays anyway?

    It is people like that that fail to understand that society is undergoing a change that cannot be stopped, just like the society in the Roman empire and all the other following civilizations did.

    If you keep a retrograde mind and fail to adapt, you will fail and you reject progress, yet you will gladly accept the best medical treatment should you ever need it.

    Do they even have a minimal of knowledge or understanding of what they deny or despise? Honestly, when I read some of the replies, I have my doubts.

    Only by being open to other opinions and ways of living will there be a consensus. You can still voice your opposition but do it in respect of others' beliefs and do not judge just because you can but because you have the maturity and the knowledge.

    And yes, I am one of those bisexuals and by insulting and denigrating all of us, they insult all those people that have differing ideas on any other subjects that they disagree with.

  • I can somewhat understand why men trash and bully each other for not being straight... but when women do it I am slightly more confused. Women in general do not hold a superiority complex when it comes to femininity. So lesbianism/bisexuality (or pan 😘) is no threat to other women. So this #MsAnon chick must really have a stick up her ass for her own crazy reasons. I think her and others like herself are just mad because they probably find women attractive themselves. Or maybe this one #MsAnon is just a bitch by nature. Either way... I ain’t losing sleep 😃
    I’m sorry that she came for you the way that she did. She’s a nappy haired dick for that.

    • Thank you for your support Ms Ellie! You are very sweet :)

    • No problem hun ☺️

  • Before lesbians "came out of the closet" into society, there were heterosexuals getting slammed for ridiculous reasons based on people's biases. So, of course, any other form of sexuality (natural or unnatural) is going to get slammed for any & every reason. That's the way society works.
    If you're so unashamed & don't care, then why give #MsAnon the power by bringing attention to it & her? You may not know who she is, but you're fueling her energy's purpose.

    • Great point Ms KS, and I did struggle with that for a day before deciding that the bigger good exceeding her negativity may come by bringing some light to her darkness and some positivity to the subject matter so despised by some, but I do get what you are saying for sure :)

  • Omg yeahhh, I saw her on a couple other questions today being a twat. Kinda sad how a 30 - 35 yr old women is trashing other people in her spare time.

    • Thank you Ms Jessica, for a minute I thought it was just me that she hated. I think eventually they will ban her from the site if she is going to talk dirt on people just for being who they are. It is very sad.

    • Yup 👏🏻👏🏻

  • I am so sorry you had to go through that :( she’s a lowlife and probably lives in her mums basement

    • Thank you for your support! :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • I wouldn't sweat it beautiful, you're a beautiful person no matter what , and their is always going to be someone that judges, we can't please Every one, we just have to live our lives the way that makes us happy , Someone that can take the time tp trash you about the way you are just shows they are jealous and have low self esteem about themselves , so again dont let it bother you , just walk away and surround yourself with positive people.. I Think you're gorgeous and it doesn't bother me you are 80 percent bi , put me in that 20 percent , i wouldn't complain xoxox

  • People just live to hate on others. I guess they get a thrill out of trying to make others feel bad. Don't worry, you're always wonderful. 😘

    • You're the sweetest too :)

    • 😘🌹

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • "I have never tried to hide that I am bisexual, or even that I lean 80% to the lesbian side..."

    And a whole host of young men your age just sighed and said, "Aw damn..."

  • Every woman is bisexual these days. It's nothing really special.

    • Ok, you are quite a fixture on this site and most amusing. Really not as bad as everyone would like to think :)

    • @unKN1GHTed Prove that every woman is bisexual?

    • @MysteriousDarkness Ah, my bad. I have forgotten my formalities. *Almost every woman is bisexual days. As for my proof, well go outside and ask them. I have, and they are mostly bisexual. Usually I don't even have to ask.

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  • Sadly for a lot of people it's so easy to spew hate on others to feel better about themselves.
    So sorry this happened to you.

  • 2 of my long term relationships were Bi and the 3rd Bi was a very short relationship that never worked out but... to answer your question whoever hides behind anonymous to throw crap at someone is pure and simple a coward...
    if they cannot come forward and put their identity behind their assaults then they themselves cannot think too much about their own views

  • well i am bi, i got the feeling i should write something insipiring for you, but i just can't think of anything right now :D

    • That's ok, it's sweet of you to make the gesture :)

  • I bet that it was a grumpy old man with a pink account

    • Thank you for your support, you are so sweet! And it appears that you offended some grumpy old man (down vote) with your comparison... lol

    • Maybe the sane one 😂😂

  • I love lesbians too. I guess as a heterosexual man I really don't get any hate over it though. Wish you all the luck in the world in your endeavors. If you'd like I'm really good at insults if you need a hand.

  • I think you are wasting too much energy trying to figure out why someone else is being stupid, hateful or prejudiced. Why bother? Besides, how you can dislike a girl who likes girls? LOL You're beautiful... I'd be a lesbian, or at least bi, probably, if I were a girl !!

  • I think they wasn’t as accepted when they growing up as much as it’s is now.

  • I don't hate a person for being bi it's how they treat people like my self I judge them on no sexual preference

  • my opinion on this question some people are cowards and they need to hide in Anonymous and there narrow minded and can't handle people not the same as them so they have to hate on anyone diffrent from them

  • Don’t pay them any thought some people are unfortunately still ignorant and cold towards gay and lesbian and bi traits. Maybe it’s better than it was during the last few decades but as the internet keeps becoming accessible more hatred can be spread. Sorry you had to go through that and it means anything I think it’s sweet you are bi or lesbian or even if you were straight and still got hate 🙂

  • Because they are weak

  • I'm afraid it's "just" because it "scares her"...
    You see the same thing with guys who're gay... They're amazing and cool as long as people don't know they're gay..

    And no, I don't agree with this. Everyone has the right to be who he desires to be, as long as no-one is harmed in the process

  • Cause she afraid she be discovered my experience they ones tend to be against the most.

  • Honestly people need to change mentality about bi and i also want to perform bi acts in my life

  • Best thing to do is report them to gag and move on. Anonymous people who ask offensive questions or post negative comments are nothing but cowards. Hiding behind the internet thinking that they can do and say whatever they want because no one can see who they are. The internet is where people's true colours show. She might berate you on gag. But just remember she is the real piece of shit.

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