Why does he want to kiss me during sex?

[Anonymous]

This guy and I that I use to date. We were on and off for a while. As time goes on, when we would have sex. He would always kiss me. When we fell apart, he still wanted to do things with me. Which it is something I can do because I had a friends with benefits for a long time. I know how to block my emotions.

These are where the questions hit. I know I should ask him, but I want to at least expect what he might say. I'm debating about asking..

When we have sex, he is kissing me. Mouth-to-mouth. Whenever I would back away for the kiss to actually breathe when "things are happening." He continues to kiss me more.
When I "got on top of him", and I was tired. He told me to slow down and to kiss him.. Which, I did.
I moved back to finish, and he told me again... to slow down. We continued to kiss each other.

Also I know it's risky. We have sex unprotected. When we dated.. and when we are not together. He always went unprotected. We never wear a condom. I AM NOT BRAGGING. I just know I'm at risk.

Go ahead and call me stupid. I get it..

But what does this mean? The whole going unprotected and him kissing me.

My friends with benefits and I never did that. We never kissed or went unprotected..

[jessture]

So if someone can put their dick and cum in you, how is kissing rocket science? It's part of the benefits.

I've had unprotected sex with friends with benefits, but only in the case when we've known each other for a long time (several years) and just decided to have sex for awhile. In all cases they were on birth control. If I just meet someone and we become friends with benefits I will always use a condom.

[Asker]

Maybe I should have been more clear. When I talked to him, he told me that he couldn't do a friends with benefits when we got to know each other. He just told me that he has to have sex with somebody he generally cares about. The thing is, I don't talk to him every day. We fell through because he works more than 2 jobs.. He goes to school also. I knew not to get in the way of any of that.

[winterfox10]

It adds intimacy. He wants to be having sex with YOU. It's definitely a compliment.

[Puppylover_129]

Kissing is just another way to come t do your partner during that time. Kissing is very ta tactile and bonding with your partner. Its just stimulating. He could though, miss you.

[Puppylover_129]

Wait thought he was an ex, scratch that last part. But, he could always want to be more than sex friends. Thats always a possibility. But, kiss, g is just another stimulator

[Asker]

When things fell through, it sucked. He told me that he wanted to have sex with me for the last time.. Which that was a total lie. Once we did things "for our last time," he came back.. wanting more. He told me once I got to know him that friends with benefits is not his thing. That his feelings fall through, and that he has to have sex with somebody he likes. We don't even talk every day. I know that he is busy with work and school. It's all understandable.. It's just confusing still.

[Jaysonava]

Why do you think?

[Pejtu]

protected sex is for pussies

[DanOh2018]

If you're not into it get him to eat you out instead :P

[SEXslave1]

He doing it because you are a lovely beautiful woman!