Everyone wants to fuck my girlfriend, what am I expected to do?

[descendent]

My problem is that every single guy in existence is trying to fuck my girlfriend of four months. What really bothers me is these people stare at her ass, her tits, they flirt with her, and she acts like it isn't happening. Like it's totally normal. She traded her vape juice for cigarettes with an 18 year old (we're 15) who constantly, CONSTANTLY eye rapes her. Every second I'm not with her he's standing over her. Some of you may say "oh man up and fight the guy" Yeah, I've tried. Guys 18 and has about 2 feet on me. Ended up with me in a chokehold, and everyone mad at him, except, my girlfriend; she "felt sorry" for him: the pedophilic, perverted greaseball, rather than her boyfriend. She was talking to two guys she "had a thing with" and send nudes (which she lied to me about) to. One of them kept sending her bulge pics, and she didn't even tell me, just ignored them and talked to the guy like it was normal. After she opened one in front of me, I told her; this guy just wants your nudes. She got mad at ME. Luckily this time the guy proved me right lmao. The other guy she's been talking to, she sent a nude to, as they "had a thing" right before me and her got together. She lied and said she had only sent one nude in her entire life. You people are right, it doesn't matter that she sent nudes to them; it was before us, and she had every right to. But the fact she wants to continue talking to guys she sent nudes to, who see her as an object, who still flirt with her and even mention the nudes she sent them, makes me wonder what the fuck is going through her head.

Every time I try to talk to her, I can't get a single word in before she snarls something along the lines of "SORRY FOR BEING A WOMAN",, "GUESS I'LL CHOP MY TITS OFF." Maybe if she took a second to listen to me, she'd understand all I want is for her to maybe not talk to people that want to fuck her.

TL;DR: My girlfriend enjoys talking to guys that wanna fuck her. I don't even expect an answer.

[JaneandJune]

That does not sound like the kind of relationship I’d want to stay in. Guys are always going to harass girls, but her talking to guy she’s sent nudes to definitely falls into the category of emotional cheating. Doesn’t sound like she’s ready to be in a committed relationship at all which is normal at yalls age. I would cut my losses and try to find someone who isn’t always seeking attention outside the relationship.

[descendent]

wise advice

[Mir95]

What do you do when men hit on you when you're in long term relationship? It must be really frustrating and emotionally draining I suppose. This is probably the only benefit of being a man, I don't get hit on like crazy. I've seen some situations where bosses of a girl's boyfriend were shamelessly hit on her Infront of the boyfriend during office parties etc., but guys usually have to tolerate it. One more thing is some race fetishists who keep hitting on girls of some particular race even if she says no and even the ones who are in relationship. As a man I am disgusted by the behaviour of some men, like they've no shame in harassing girls, and these guys are in every society and class, doesn't matter if they went to Wharton, still act like pigs, lol. Long term relationships are already a lot of work and these guys aren't making things any easier for women.

[JaneandJune]

Ideally I’d either ignore it or just try to politely brush them off. Unfortunately you do have to pull the I have a boyfriend card to get them to back off a lot of times, but some will keep at it even then. And that’s when you have to bring out the bitch face lol.

[Mir95]

Yeah I used to be offended and take it personally when girls have their guards up but after seeing what they've to endure I love women who are strong and can get these disgusting guys to back off. Some younger girls are too naive and timid to deal with these jerks, but they quickly learn the benefits of 'bitch mode'.

[JaneandJune]

It is very hard because most women are natural people pleasers and would rather avoid conflict. I learned how to use my bitch face/mode pretty young in school because guys can be pretty gross. A serious stare down glare can keep a lot of guys away lol.

[Mir95]

Yeah the stare thing works. RBF also works. I always kinda liked RBF, now I appreciate it even more. They should probably teach this stuff to girls in school.

[JaneandJune]

Lol yes they should. RBF 👍🏼

[descendent]

All that's good, thing is I'm pretty sure she likes it.

[JaneandJune]

It sounds like she does. You can try to talk to her and tell you how all this makes you feel, but it sounds like she will just get defensive, which kind of tells me that she knows what she’s doing isn’t right, but she just doesn’t want to admit that.

[SarahsSummer]

If you’re so disappointed in your girlfriends behavior, why don’t you break up and find someone more in line with your needs?

[descendent]

are my needs too much to expect?

[AustinMan]

It sounds like a couple of things need to happen. First and foremost, you need to find a good therapist and get more secure. I love being with the sexiest woman in the room, knowing that I get to handle what all those other guys are just fantasizing about. She's clearly playing for it and so maybe you can talk to her about that part.

Who's the more dominant sexually? You or Her?

[descendent]

sexually dominant? if you mean like kinky shit, it's always been me. but lately over messaging she's tryna be a fem dom.

[AustinMan]

Then get with her, yank her over your knee and just blister her pert bare bottom. Take charge and enjoy!

[descendent]

best advice i've gotten

[JohnAlaska43]

Dude she craves attention. She likes they love her body. regardless if she is 15 she is showing them her nudes.
I think since your young find another suitable girl. You dont owe her your life. You got the rest of your life to live for. Dont let her slutty ways drag you down. You dont need the heartache.

[DarkxAngel20]

I would just leave her now. You deserve better. You need to find someone who truly respects you for who you are and loves you. Have self respect and stand up for yourself.

[modeve]

If you are not comfortable in this situation, leave her.

[Sevenpointfive]

what do you mean wants? they already have.

[descendent]

she was a virgin before i fucked her; who knows though.

[ENTP_EMO]

your girlfriend is insecure. Very insecure

[ravagesavage]

Let them

[descendent]

May as well lmao

[ravagesavage]

Oh wow, weed definitely captivates a girls heart, even if it's from a greasy slime bag. Oh man, these women are relentless, even when they ignore our demands. Might as well cut the string and call it quits. She'd probably feel the same if you were doing it too, since she'll be in your shoes with jealousy.

[descendent]

bitch is psycho, removed every girl i had on snap who she didn't know, starts having a mental breakdown whenever my so called "ex" (who i never sent nudes to, never even hung out with more than once) is brought up, and won't even let me go out with the boys without a half jokingly "don't fuck any thots". makes me feel amazing to know SHE doesn't trust ME, when i unadded all my old bitches without her even asking, when i don't even talk to other girls unless talked to.

[ravagesavage]

Really? And she doesn't have a problem with guys she hanging out, even not taking your concern to consideration? I'd keep a close eye on her if I were you, cheaters definitely do stuff like that for you to not suspect anything from them if they are cheating. Control you, to make you think she's doing it for your own good. Accusers, slander, checking, and control. Friend delt with a girl like that, then at the end, she turned out to be a hypocrite. A no good cheater. But ay, don't take this seriously right now. All I'm saying keep a close eye on her.

[descendent]

she really does not care; and it seems that she expects i shouldn't. as JaneandJune said, she seeks as much attention as she can get, even outside of mine. this is a long shot but i noticed her leave to "get water" at the same time an 18 year old classmate of ours left class as well, someone who's name she knows, who she talks to, who she looks at, who stares at her constantly, who glares at me. i tried to get something out of her, casually mentioned that he keeps staring at us, and was instantly met with "sorry for being a woman". seems strange how often theyre out of class at the same time.

[ravagesavage]

Well, I hate to say it, doesn't seem like she's the right type of girl for you. A girl constantly gaining attention from other guys, than her man, and using her own gender as an excuse. No man sound put up with a girl like that, to be dimly condition to accepting that. You'd find someone better, than risking your change staying with her. I wish you luck to whatever you choose to do. If it's continuing the relationship, or just ending it.

[descendent]

we'll see.

[Prime_Sol]

Hahahaha. One, you're lame if you can't keep your bitch in line.
Two, stop lying online. I don't even take you seriously since you're lying about your age.

[descendent]

Every word is true.

[Prime_Sol]

Then you're lying in your profile

[descendent]

the fact i lied about my age when signing up doesn't affect the truthfulness of what i said. I mentioned within this question, the only one i have ever made here and ever will, that i am actually 15.

[Prime_Sol]

It sure does. You are a confirmed lair. As such everything you say is suspect. To lie any something like you're age on a public forum suggest you used it it deceive people. Which means this whole post might as well be bullshit.

[descendent]

so, because i signed up with an age older than mine, not even knowing that my set age would be shown with my post, and only to ensure that nothing on this site would be censored from me, i cannot state a fact without it the truthfulness being doubted? how petty can you be. when did i say within this post that i was 20? i made it clear that i'm 15.

[Prime_Sol]

You are liar. Of course you're doubted. That's not petty. That's logical. Why would you trust someone known to lie.

[descendent]

when did i claim that my age was anything other than 15 within the question? when did i deceive anyone? i signed up to this website knowing i was only going to use it once, not to waste my pastime on here being ignorant and arguing with no justification, like SOME people.

[Prime_Sol]

You're profile says you're 20. You're question says you're 15. You're a liar. Everything you say is suspect.

[lernulo]

It's obvious she likes it, so you must accept it or leave her.
If you want to stay with her, best you can do is to practice polylove
And stablish rules to live with it.
If you aren't gonna stand that behavior you must cut.
It's your decision here.

[oncpl]

Let her enjoy life with multiple fuckers because she loves it. If you are not accommodating. leave her.

[crs928]

She might like the attention she gets. Obviously she's allowing this to happen.

[Digglir]

Guys wanting to fuck your girl is normal. Your girl wanting to talk to them isn't. Drop her ass and find a decent girl.

[descendent]

the only reason she's going to school is because i'm there; she's dependent on me. every dumbass 15 year old probably thinks their love is true, but I don't doubt hers. just makes me wonder what the fuck is going through her head, but she won't talk to me.

[Digglir]

She's got guys sending her pics. She's trying to hide it from you. She obviously doesn't have any respect for you. Don't stay in a bad situation.

[descendent]

we'll see. i wasn't expecting an answer i'd be satisfied with. just needed to vent.

[Anonymous]

None of that is true.

[descendent]

every word my anonymous friend.

[Opinion Owner]

Nah, you're just fantasising and this is some sort of fetish.

[descendent]

mmm yesssss, i'm busting the fattest nut reading this right now. talking to strangers online about my romantic problems gets me so fucking hard.