But here is what I want to know: how much should I ever allow ANY person I might date to touch, grab, grind on my body? Where does the line draw? When am I being prude and when should I say yes or allow it? I don't know where to draw the line.
Personally how I FEEL is that I wouldn't every really want someone to grind or grab at my tits and butt (some soft touching here and there is totally welcomed) when I'm doing normal stuff in the kitchen. I'd want to feel emotionally connected and for it to have a little more romance. I'd want to start off by kissing and slowly lead our way to more intense stuff like grinding etc. Is it weird that I don't like it unless I am already doing stuff with the person?