How can I fake an orgasm?

my boyfriend is ugly at sex but i love him still and don’t wanna upset him
i don’t have high sex drive so i don’t really care at this part i need him and i love him apart from that but he doesn’t make me enjoy the time we get into each other and he felt it because i never orgasm and now he’s upset

how can i fake it?
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7d
update you all made me tell him so i did still haven’t heard from him yet

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  • It's so easy. Just start breathing heavily and get louder and louder with time with the moaning before you say "I'm gonna cum". Shake a lot and open your mouth a little whilst tilting your head back and roll your eyes and us on hand to grip on the bed sheet or head board. Or just watch the diner scene in the movie When Harry Met Sally that's were I learnt even though my man is very good in bed he constantly excepts positive feedback and I don't like to let him down, sometimes I'm just not feeling it.

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  • I’ve never faked it, but I guess like thrash around and moan a little.

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  • that's both sweet and a lie. basically you are using him for now... that's just a recipe of poison. How about encourage him to do some work to be better, he gotta learn one way or the other, might as well learn.
    and I would not get preggers... that gonna be a mess for all 3. personally, I think relationship should end, but I know you have your reasons so won't listen. but no way around it... this is mating... nature has it's way.

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  • Do you not trust him enough to handle the truth? Do you not respect him enough? Because that's what you're saying by faking it. You're saying that he cannot handle knowing that he is not good at it. You're saying that you do not respect him enough so that he can know what he is doing.
    You are also condemning yourself to this pattern for the future. If he doesn't know what is wrong, how can he improve it? How can he grow and get better?

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    • 7d

      if we broke up im gonna tell him but as long as he’s with me i can handle it

    • 7d

      So you value his feelings more than the status of your relationship?

  • Make some subtle weird faces using your nose, eyebrows, and mouth. Your eyes should look lost most of the time, but slip in some intense eye-to-eye stares. Moan of course. But build that part up from really soft to moderately loud. I say moderately because you don’t want the dude to think you are faking. As you get moderately louder, move your hips more and grab onto his back or whatever nearest body part of him. Encourage him to either keep doing what he’s doing, go slower, or go faster/harder. When you feel like you finally want to get the fake climax over with, breathe a little faster and let out a long moan/cry/scream. Act tired after that and hug the dude.

    In a nutshell, coax the fuck out of his ego and he won’t suspect a thing.

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  • Do you think he would genuinely prefer that you fake it? Please don't fake it. It wouldn't be fair to either of you.

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  • Ooooof. Why not tell him what he’s not doing right so you can actually cum..

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  • By “ugly” do you mean do you mean “bad”? If so, let him know and educate him. Faking it is the worst thing you can do. It can lead to low self-esteem.

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  • You say you love him so for how long you'll keep faking it!! Just be honest with the guy and talk to him

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  • Why don't you fix the problem instead of faking It?

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  • Fake moans it worth

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  • You think he cares if you fake it or not? Once he cums that's all that matters to him. (Satisfaction)

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  • you dont love him. you're a low class bitch

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  • honest suggestion :

    You talk to him how to make you feel better and cum.

    if he is willing to , great !

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