My ex kept begging me back and wanting to work everything through. So I sort of rubbed it in his face what I did and then he got super pissed.
Didn't know what to make of it all
Damn, I read that shit like you slept with five guys after a break up. Anyways, sleeping with five guys or just one after a breakup would make you a hoe. Anyone who says otherwise do it themselves just trying to downplay it
Certainly 5 days is not sufficient to work through your feelings about your ex. It doesn't seem the wisest thing to do, to have sex with someone so you can rub it in his face. It does seem petty with a willingness to hurt someone to get revenge. However, I don't know the circumstances of the break up or what your normal sexual activity is, and I don't know how hurt you were or how lonely you were. I'd understand that better than sex for revenge.
Slutty or not, who cares. Your life, do what you want with it. You aren't hurting anyone lol we all have different needs and different coping mechanism so maybe that was your way of coping with a breakup. You do you.
I don't think so. If I broke up with someone, it's not working out, but I love her and she immediately has sex with another guy, that would bother me, but some people just deal with their emotions in different ways. A slut does it just to do it, very little morality.
To rub it in his face is pretty petty but no, sleeping with some even if it was an hour after breaking up is not slutty. Only time it is slutty (or what i would consider as slutty) is if you have a line of people waiting to fuck you like a sex train or something. Even then. It's your choice and you shouldn't be shamed for it
Typical woman. And people say I’m just a hater when I say girls are actual trash, even the girls on here are cheering you on. I guess guys don’t wanna marry or even dare anymore for a reason. Girls are garbage when it comes to relationships. Like girls are fine just as friends or whatever, some are amazing... but dating or entering s relationship with a girl in 2019 isn’t worth it because girls are SCUM when it comes to dating and stuff.
well, no , the word slut is for pussies. but rubbing it in his face makes you a "C U Next Tuesday" I'n not being nasty, but to do that was basically cruel no matter the excuse. walk a way, let it end. he will never forget you did that to him..
PFFFT... That's nothing... my ex did it before breaking up..
Ahem... no it is not slutty. But it's important to keep yourself in check. By that, I simply mean to keep your head and heart on the same page, (which is very difficult to do). There are inherent dangers to avoid.
For example if you are an empath... you attract narcissists. If your ex was a narcissist there is a good chance you will attract another. Particularly after a breakup when you are vulnerable. Don't make the same mistakes in a rebound relationship.
If it was just a moment, and you didn't catch feelings well... who cares. You were officially single and it's your body and life.
Would I do the same? No. But I'm not you.
Much healthier to meditate, pamper yourself, go for a massage, do some exercise, start new hobbies, or go into stillness and reflection.
However, this culture appears to have successfully brainwashed the majority of women into seeing sex as something that = empowerment or finding themselves. It's used to barter, as revenge, as promotion... so many different things when in reality it's none of those things.
To go beyond this, one would need to sever the brainwashed link between sex and self esteem... sex and perceived value of self and all of the other crap society has drummed into females. It's similar with men too.
The question you need to ask yourself is ''has this made anything better?''
Concerning your OP. The answer doesn't matter unless you are willing to learn from the question.
Why? Do you just need boyfriend to sleep or to care to you? I think what you did is bad, but that's really up to you
Rebounds are normal. After a break up you are very vulnerable male and female.
If you enjoyed the sex it doesn't matters
Nope not at all
No, it´s understandable.
You fucking whore, I wish so had you had been born with the body of a shitty incel.
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