Much healthier to meditate, pamper yourself, go for a massage, do some exercise, start new hobbies, or go into stillness and reflection.
However, this culture appears to have successfully brainwashed the majority of women into seeing sex as something that = empowerment or finding themselves. It's used to barter, as revenge, as promotion... so many different things when in reality it's none of those things.
To go beyond this, one would need to sever the brainwashed link between sex and self esteem... sex and perceived value of self and all of the other crap society has drummed into females. It's similar with men too.
The question you need to ask yourself is ''has this made anything better?''
Concerning your OP. The answer doesn't matter unless you are willing to learn from the question.
Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore. Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did
PFFFT... That's nothing... my ex did it before breaking up..
Ahem... no it is not slutty. But it's important to keep yourself in check. By that, I simply mean to keep your head and heart on the same page, (which is very difficult to do). There are inherent dangers to avoid.
For example if you are an empath... you attract narcissists. If your ex was a narcissist there is a good chance you will attract another. Particularly after a breakup when you are vulnerable. Don't make the same mistakes in a rebound relationship.
If it was just a moment, and you didn't catch feelings well... who cares. You were officially single and it's your body and life.
Would I do the same? No. But I'm not you.
Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore. Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did
It's not slutty per se but you should definitely consider if you only did it out of loneliness or not. If this isn't normal behavior for you, it might affect you mentally to jump in with someone so quickly. Just be safe.
Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore. Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did
I think it's totally okay. You need to get it out of your system, you do whatever it takes, hon.
Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore. Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he would continue. Till I just rubbed it in his face.
Well fuck everyone, they don't know what happened. Only you know what actually happened and if you believe he deserved it then he probably did. Forget about all that and move on, and please never let anyone call you a whore again!
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No, Not 'Slutty," Just your Way of Trying to Move on from the Hurt that Broke you Both UP. xx
Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore. Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did
Slutty or not, who cares. Your life, do what you want with it. You aren't hurting anyone lol we all have different needs and different coping mechanism so maybe that was your way of coping with a breakup. You do you.
Certainly 5 days is not sufficient to work through your feelings about your ex. It doesn't seem the wisest thing to do, to have sex with someone so you can rub it in his face. It does seem petty with a willingness to hurt someone to get revenge. However, I don't know the circumstances of the break up or what your normal sexual activity is, and I don't know how hurt you were or how lonely you were. I'd understand that better than sex for revenge.
Well about 3 weeks ago he told me that his family didn’t like us dating. And as long he lived with them he can’t be with me. So we took a step back. But we still talked everyday. And we did kiss 2 days before we stopped talking. So I don't know if we were really dating
If he said he can't date you as long as he lives with them, then that sounds like you are no longer dating. But it would be good if he would clarify the situation for you. But you sleeping with the other guy may have ended any chance of it working out. You just need to find out where he is at with your relationship.
He told me that they just hate us being together cause they know about my hoeish He then said he is trying his best but I told him don't worry about it and understood Then he told me about this girl who was screenshotting his snap stories and I made him delete her. I actually told him about the guy I ended up sleeping with and said that he had been hitting on me. He said "I trust you just minimize contact with him" I guess he is done now
Nope not at all
Why? Do you just need boyfriend to sleep or to care to you? I think what you did is bad, but that's really up to you
No just really liked the classmate of mine and we just sort of did it
Do your ex still want to be with you again after what you've done after broke up?
No he said some horrific shit afterwards then apologized for it all and said "I know in my heart I deserve better" I guess he told his family to block me. Cause I liked his mom's post on IG (I don't really know her) and she blocked me
I don't think so. If I broke up with someone, it's not working out, but I love her and she immediately has sex with another guy, that would bother me, but some people just deal with their emotions in different ways. A slut does it just to do it, very little morality.
Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore. Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did
In hurts, but he brought it upon himself if he treated you poorly and abused you. It's different when it just doesn't work out no matter how much you care for each other or you just break up in the heat of the moment. When you abuse your partner, you bringing that on yourself.
Exactly and he called me abusive for rubbing it in his face. And also wanting him to block female friends as well as making him take his calls in front of me. Don't you think he was wrong?
If you enjoyed the sex it doesn't matters
no..
Nope, that's not slutty, unless you started sleeping with a lot of guys.
Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore. Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did
Damn, I read that shit like you slept with five guys after a break up. Anyways, sleeping with five guys or just one after a breakup would make you a hoe. Anyone who says otherwise do it themselves just trying to downplay it
Why does it?
Well, your update cleared it up. You wanted to keep your mind off of the breakup and clicked up with some other dude, and use that shit to get back at him to make him pissed. Your intentions were clear. And that's a typical hoe behavior. No morals.
Get back at him? I just wanted him to go away
yes it is
why is it
Good Moral values do you know what they mean?
Yea but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore. Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone
not really
well, no , the word slut is for pussies. but rubbing it in his face makes you a "C U Next Tuesday" I'n not being nasty, but to do that was basically cruel no matter the excuse. walk a way, let it end. he will never forget you did that to him..
He wouldn't leave me alone so I had to
thats a shame you thought it was ok to do that.
I mean the reason we broke up was cause in a fight he called me a whore He didn't get over the fact that I boyfriend hopped in my past and had a friends with benefits with my cousin's cousin and another friends with benefits with my godbrother I told him I had changed but he never believed me
Rebounds are normal. After a break up you are very vulnerable male and female.
To rub it in his face is pretty petty but no, sleeping with some even if it was an hour after breaking up is not slutty. Only time it is slutty (or what i would consider as slutty) is if you have a line of people waiting to fuck you like a sex train or something. Even then. It's your choice and you shouldn't be shamed for it
Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore. Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did
Yes..
No, it´s understandable.
Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore. Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did
You fucking whore, I wish so had you had been born with the body of a shitty incel.
Get a life
@turnmypainintopower1 Says the ape-behaved animal who can't learn healthy social behavior. You're immoral trash living in tutorial mode with no care for anyone but yourself, no wonder you don't know shit about how's for the rest.
Hmm sure
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