Is it slutty that I slept with someone 5 days after my breakup?

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My ex kept begging me back and wanting to work everything through. So I sort of rubbed it in his face what I did and then he got super pissed.
Didn't know what to make of it all

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  • I don't Point fingers, Good you Stayed, Bae, ANON.
    No, Not 'Slutty," Just your Way of Trying to Move on from the Hurt that Broke you Both UP. xx

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      Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore.
      Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did

  • Damn, I read that shit like you slept with five guys after a break up. Anyways, sleeping with five guys or just one after a breakup would make you a hoe. Anyone who says otherwise do it themselves just trying to downplay it

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      Why does it?

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      so you wouldn't go back to the girl?

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      Pretty much.

  • Certainly 5 days is not sufficient to work through your feelings about your ex. It doesn't seem the wisest thing to do, to have sex with someone so you can rub it in his face. It does seem petty with a willingness to hurt someone to get revenge. However, I don't know the circumstances of the break up or what your normal sexual activity is, and I don't know how hurt you were or how lonely you were. I'd understand that better than sex for revenge.

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      Well about 3 weeks ago he told me that his family didn’t like us dating. And as long he lived with them he can’t be with me. So we took a step back. But we still talked everyday. And we did kiss 2 days before we stopped talking. So I don't know if we were really dating

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    • 3d

      If you are going to have a relationship with your boyfriend, then you need to drop the guy you slept with. Drop him completely.

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      Well I am dating the guy I slept with
      It has been 2 months now and recently he found out about me rubbing in my exes face

  • Slutty or not, who cares. Your life, do what you want with it. You aren't hurting anyone lol we all have different needs and different coping mechanism so maybe that was your way of coping with a breakup. You do you.

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  • It's not slutty per se but you should definitely consider if you only did it out of loneliness or not. If this isn't normal behavior for you, it might affect you mentally to jump in with someone so quickly. Just be safe.

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      Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore.
      Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did

  • I don't think so. If I broke up with someone, it's not working out, but I love her and she immediately has sex with another guy, that would bother me, but some people just deal with their emotions in different ways. A slut does it just to do it, very little morality.

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      Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore.
      Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did

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      In hurts, but he brought it upon himself if he treated you poorly and abused you. It's different when it just doesn't work out no matter how much you care for each other or you just break up in the heat of the moment. When you abuse your partner, you bringing that on yourself.

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      Exactly and he called me abusive for rubbing it in his face. And also wanting him to block female friends as well as making him take his calls in front of me.
      Don't you think he was wrong?

  • To rub it in his face is pretty petty but no, sleeping with some even if it was an hour after breaking up is not slutty. Only time it is slutty (or what i would consider as slutty) is if you have a line of people waiting to fuck you like a sex train or something. Even then. It's your choice and you shouldn't be shamed for it

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      Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore.
      Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did

  • Typical woman. And people say I’m just a hater when I say girls are actual trash, even the girls on here are cheering you on. I guess guys don’t wanna marry or even dare anymore for a reason. Girls are garbage when it comes to relationships. Like girls are fine just as friends or whatever, some are amazing... but dating or entering s relationship with a girl in 2019 isn’t worth it because girls are SCUM when it comes to dating and stuff.

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      That isn't true at all

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      Still a trashy move. I wouldn’t stoop that low and a lot of men wouldn’t. What you did isn’t even as bad as what a lot of girls do, such as cheating and stuff so I am still right when I say that girls are just horrible for relationships nowadays. Girls are cool when it comes to being friends with them and stuff and women in general can and have done amazing things but it comes to sex, relationships and family > girls are scum and should be avoided in that regard. It’s just shocking to me how terrible girls are.

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      He prolly thinks I cheated on him cause the guy I slept with was the guy I told him not to worry about

  • well, no , the word slut is for pussies. but rubbing it in his face makes you a "C U Next Tuesday" I'n not being nasty, but to do that was basically cruel no matter the excuse. walk a way, let it end. he will never forget you did that to him..

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      He wouldn't leave me alone so I had to

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      And rightfully so. Sweetheart, don't look for revenge, don't be bitter.. treat others as you would want to be treated, find out what is hateful to yourself and then don't do that to others. You life will be so much simpler and happier, I wish you peace love, I do.. Taking the high road, it will pay off more, but it takes a bigger effort,,, At first anyway,,,,, You will get it, I promise.. love to you !

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      Thank you that was very sweet
      But we had a rough patch cause he also saw that I liked a post of my exes mother recently. I never knew her and met her briefly long ago when my ex and I were just friends.
      Anyways he saw that and I went to go block them but I saw they already blocked me
      What does all that mean

  • I think it's totally okay. You need to get it out of your system, you do whatever it takes, hon.

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      Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore.
      Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he would continue. Till I just rubbed it in his face.

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      Well fuck everyone, they don't know what happened. Only you know what actually happened and if you believe he deserved it then he probably did. Forget about all that and move on, and please never let anyone call you a whore again!

  • PFFFT... That's nothing... my ex did it before breaking up..

    Ahem... no it is not slutty. But it's important to keep yourself in check. By that, I simply mean to keep your head and heart on the same page, (which is very difficult to do). There are inherent dangers to avoid.

    For example if you are an empath... you attract narcissists. If your ex was a narcissist there is a good chance you will attract another. Particularly after a breakup when you are vulnerable. Don't make the same mistakes in a rebound relationship.

    If it was just a moment, and you didn't catch feelings well... who cares. You were officially single and it's your body and life.

    Would I do the same? No. But I'm not you.

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      Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore.
      Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did

  • Much healthier to meditate, pamper yourself, go for a massage, do some exercise, start new hobbies, or go into stillness and reflection.

    However, this culture appears to have successfully brainwashed the majority of women into seeing sex as something that = empowerment or finding themselves. It's used to barter, as revenge, as promotion... so many different things when in reality it's none of those things.

    To go beyond this, one would need to sever the brainwashed link between sex and self esteem... sex and perceived value of self and all of the other crap society has drummed into females. It's similar with men too.

    The question you need to ask yourself is ''has this made anything better?''

    Concerning your OP. The answer doesn't matter unless you are willing to learn from the question.

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      Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore.
      Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did

  • Nope, that's not slutty, unless you started sleeping with a lot of guys.

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      Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore.
      Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did

  • Why? Do you just need boyfriend to sleep or to care to you? I think what you did is bad, but that's really up to you

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      No just really liked the classmate of mine and we just sort of did it

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      Nope, they didn't block me. Cause i never done what you did. I think from now on you should move on and don't ever do that again...

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      I guess
      He thought it was fucked up that I introduces both of them to one another days before we broke up. But at the time I didn't really care for that other guy maybe we lightly flirted but that was it

  • Rebounds are normal. After a break up you are very vulnerable male and female.

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  • yes it is

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      why is it

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      Good Moral values do you know what they mean?

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      Yea but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore.
      Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone

  • If you enjoyed the sex it doesn't matters

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  • no..

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  • Nope not at all

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  • not really

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  • Yes..

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  • No, it´s understandable.

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      Everyone here has made me feel terrible but he was pretty abusive. With bringing up my past. I used to sleep with my cousin’s cousin and godbrother and he kept bringing it up. And the last fight he called me a whore.
      Also I had to rub it in to make him leave me alone. He would call me on blocked then I would unblock him and tell him to stop but still he did

  • You fucking whore, I wish so had you had been born with the body of a shitty incel.

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      Daaaaaaamn, gotem! Well, you guys enjoy yourselves. 👌

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      @ravagesavage thanks lol I find the stupidity of these people quiet enjoyable

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