Most Helpful Girls

  • I’d have a conversation with him.
    Express my concern & invite him to share why there’s been less intimacy.

  • Ask him why he stop and we will search for a solution.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Initiate myself or talk to her about what she wants in order to have more sex

  • ask them why and try to work it out

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Not care. It's their choice, sex isn't everything.

  • I will be the one initiating it then. But if he never initiates anymore, I will have a talk with him about it.

    Good thing with my partner, sometimes he is the one who initiates it and sometimes it is me.

  • I'd initiate it myself... do what i gotta, seduction, libations, aphrodisiacs, etc... toys..
    BUT if i get turned down after that, im having sex with someone else.

    • @Tdieseler I missed my fellow Villian

    • @Wowgirl30q and he missed his wicked witch lol

  • Get her a girlfriend.

  • I pretty much always initiate it anyways

  • See how he is when I initiate it, if not too eager, would need to have a talk.

  • Ask her whats up

  • Find another s/o.

  • Try to stop initiating myself and see how long it takes for them to initiate

  • Communicate with them and see whats going. on , express my feelings and. concerns and try to understand why they all of. a. sudden didn't want sex anymore , if. they didn't give. me. a straight answer then i would probably tell them i am leaving and going. to find someone that wants to have sex with me , but if its a logical reason why they stopped i would stay and support. them

  • I would talk about it with him. Having someone who doesn't show desire decreases my confidence with this person and my horniness. So I would talk and if it doesn't change, I'd probably leave

  • Seduce him until he doesn't have. If he still dosent initiative then gotta talk to him about it.

  • Will ask if there is problem in this aspect

    • I'd rather tell you already if there are any problems other than hiding or ignoring it

    • Yeah better 🤗

  • Initiate it myself. Sometime that happens because they’re tired of doing it all the time.

  • When I'm in the mood and would like to have seks I would take the lead.

  • depends on the situaation. You know if he's tired, sick or stressed - i get it.
    But if it is something else then...

    If your s/o stops initiating sex, what will you do?

  • Well you go fuck yourself. Go flick your bean.

  • are ye not dead yet

  • Initiate for her. Everyone needs to take a turn reminding their spouse they are desirable.

  • I'm a straight forward person so I'd ask why? Her response would be a big determiner in what happened next.

    • what if she says, she doesn't like sex anymore... what are you gonna do next?

    • Does she really not like sex anymore? Or does she just not like it with me. And is that that, or can we work that out? Because what's the point of being together anymore if she's essentially saying " i don't find you attractive"?

    • I mean we'd just roomates at that point wouldn't we?

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