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Girls who sleep around: How important is penis size?

My girlfriend left me to "experience life". We were each others first. I heard from mutual friends she started sleeping around, she blocked me everywhere. I think because she feels guilty and because I'm very hurt by all this.

It has been 6 months and I haven't heard from her. I am confused. Why is she doing this and how important is penis size because if she just wants sex, she can also come to me but she does not.

Please help me out if you ever left your boyfriend for "excitement" "to experience life" "to be single for a while" etc.

Please be honest. I want to know why she does this and if she just wants to sleep around, why I can't sleep with her too.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Penis size is important regarding sex because it determines what sex positions are required/recommended, the level of pleasure experienced, whether or not the sex can hurt her, etc. However, other factors exist that are more important than penis size such as stamina and being able to last long without cumming too fast. Personally, I can't speak for all women, but I prefer anything six inches and bigger. Anything less than six inches requires us to only have sex in very specific positions, which I'm not a fan of. I prefer to be fucked in all positions. I classify penis size as follows:

    2 inches and below (Tiny) – Anything 2 inches and under is a medical condition called micropenis. Due to the fact that I know I wouldn't be able to feel it, I wouldn't allow a penis of this size to penetrate me. I'm not saying this to be mean or bitchy or anything either. It would just be a simple waste of our time.

    3-5 inches: (Small) – With the 3-inch range being the smallest a penis can be without having a medical condition, the 4-inch range being "medium-small," and the 5-inch range being "big-small." I actually had sex with 4 and 5 inchers before and it was pretty decent. However, the only position that truly worked for us was me lying on my back with my legs in the air while being fucked hard. To get the most out of it, I had to have been fully aroused and rubbing my clit too. Personally, I'm not a big fan of that because I prefer doing other things and I felt like I was more responsible for my own satisfaction. I won't turn down sex with a guy that I really like within this range, but honestly, I would want something better.

    6-8 inches (Medium) – With the 6-inch range being a "small-medium," 7-inch range being a "medium-medium," and the 8-inch range being a "big-medium." Personally, the medium range dicks (6-8 inches) are perfect for me. Six-inch dicks might not look too impressive, but they feel great. Unlike the small range, I can actually take 6 inches in any position and it usually can hit the G-spot too, mainly if he knows how to work it. Seven-inch dicks are slightly better due to the fact that they reach my most sensitive spots more often and I can still get fucked how I want from any position. Eight-inch dicks hit the G-spot more often and feel great, but I often have to take just a little bit more time to have my pussy adjust to this size. Thankfully, it doesn't take too long to get accustomed to 8 inches, usually around three minutes.

    9 inches and above (Big) With anything bigger than the 9-inch range being huge. However, in my experiences, dicks over 9 inches are extremely rare. Sex with big and huge dicks can be great, but only if done right. First, you have to get your pussy accustomed to taking dicks this size. Personally, it takes me a while lot of time to get adjusted for these sizes. If my pussy doesn't get accustomed to it, then it will hurt. However, if it's ready, then the sex could be amazing. Next, the guy has to be able to last long. If he cums before the pussy actually gets accustomed to his size, then the sex can be disappointing. I've had that happen a few times. However, if he lasts long, the sex would be amazing. Sex could pretty much be had in any position when your pussy is ready for it and it would always hit the G-spot. However, the thing about big and huge dicks is that even though the sex could be amazing with them, they're not required for amazing sex. You can have amazing sex with the medium-range too. In fact, I personally prefer the medium range because it doesn't take my pussy much time to prepare for it.

    Hopefully, this answers why penis size is important. I am mostly speaking from my own personal experiences because each woman has her own preferences and not ever woman's vagina is the same. However, if I had to guess, I would say that many women probably would agree with me. Which size range are you? Maybe it did have an impact on your break up, or maybe not. Only she knows the answer to that.

    • thank you for your answer. I'm in the medium range, but due to lack of experience I became insecure. She wasn't to deep either, I hit her cervix every time I got too excited and she said it hurt a few times. But maybe my girth is too thin? I looked it up, I am average but maybe that is not enough? Her leaving to have sex with others made me insecure.

    • Isn't the average 5-6 inches?

    • 8 inches is pretty big. Not "big-medium" It's big.

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  • Size is definitely important. I don't care how hot a guy is if he's not bigger than 7 inches I won't go there. It's just a waste of time. Honestly as much as your situation sucks, she obviously wasn't feeling fulfilled so best to try get over it and find someone else

    • You better watch out he may up being bigger then you.

    • I would love to meet you!

    • Why? Lol

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  • not a penis size matters...
    its the face and body 1st and if there is an attraction penis size wouldn't matter, but if it will be big that will be a good bonus, not more

Most Helpful Guys

  • It may or may not have to do with your size, but clearly she does not want to be with you. The way you phrase your question seems to suggest that you're hoping, or even expecting, that she'll come running back to you after she's tasted some big dick, or that she should be fucking you too, in between brutal cervix wounds.

    But dude. She blocked you. She wants nithing to do with you or your tiny dick, and she has every right to pursue her happiness with monster dicks plowing her holes from every angle until her legs don't work and she needs medical attention.

    Or maybe it has nothing to do with size and she's just tired of your desperate whiny drivel. Either way, she will most likely slow down and settle down again, just not with you.

  • Give up on her and find a good woman. She either doesn't want to be tied down or she doesn't want to be with you. Either way she is not the girl for you. Stop viewing her as your girlfriend, move on, meet new women, if she comes back to you then turn her down. Given what she seems like, she will probably cheat on you if you get back together with her.

    I dont think penis size is that big of a deal to women.

    • thanks bro, solid advice. It just hurts bro, hard to move on from somebody you would die for.

    • I know. Been there before. It's not easy but you just gotta endure it, time will heal the wounds.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • she can't sleep with you because you have feelings for her. Or she's tired of you and "living life" was her excuse.

  • a long c**k implies that a guy is dominant

    • I am finding that more women actually want dominant men.

  • She simply became tired of you, nothing more, nothing less.

  • She left you because she didn't want a relationship with you and a mix off guilt and disinterest is why she blocked you

  • Bro, you only live once. I know what you are passing through, and is difficult to manage, only remember you "had" a relationship with her, you "had". That's in the past. Enjoy the present and look after your future.

  • me like big

    • Me like you answer

  • Forget that chick bruh and go get u some pussy and some jump offs trust once u start u not lookin back at that ratchet ex who wants to be a slut and switched up just remeber bro pussy got mileage and dick don't u feel me

  • It's important
    Penis Size Matters ↗

  • To me women are simple.
    I go by what they do.
    If she left and isn't fucking you anymore then it is what it is.
    Don't waste any time worrying about her.
    You need to fuck other women.

  • She wants you out of her life, time to pack up and move on.

  • She doesn’t have feelings for you and isn’t attracted to you any longer. Has nothing to do with your small penis.

    • Well, at least I have a penis.

    • Well you have a sense of humor maybe too. She’s just not into you any longer. Has nothing to do with stuff below the belt. Stuff happens that’s the way it works

    • lol you are right, I was trying to piss you off a little by trolling you. You seem to have a sense of humor too. It hurts that she left, I really love her but I also understand that it's what she wants and I want her to be happy.

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