If the sex is trash, would you stay in the relationship, or would you leave?

If the sex is trash, would you stay in the relationship, or would you leave?
If the sex is trash, would you stay in the relationship, or would you leave?
  • Hasta la vista, bye boo.
    Vote A
  • Stay and try to improve our bedroom skills.
    Vote B
  • Try to improve but if it doesn't get better, I'm out.
    Vote C
  • stay because I love them...
    Vote D
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  • I also feel sex is not trash, if there’s no connection anymore and it’s just a mundane task and there’s no intimacy at all between you two then it’s best to part ways. if there is any level of intimacy give it your all to work on it to see if it can get better! But if the sex just sucks and it is just lacking in an area, spice it up work on it, there is porn , master bate at least try!!!

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  • Well, both have to have a chance to get to learn each other and what they like or dont like. Id try to show them, if they wanted to learn and they did learn i would stay. But if they continued to be trash in bed id leave asap.

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  • I believe that ANYONE can have great sex. If you're not having great sex with the person who you love, or at least care about, then sex is not the real problem, it's just an indication that there's either something wrong with your relationship or with your partner. The sole exception to this is the (hopefully) rare case where one partners sex drive is far different than the other's, or where one or the other came to realize that they simply felt differently about sex than they thought they did.

    A couple (or more, if you're so inclined) should be able to discuss what they want or feel they need sexually, and make some sort of accommodation that meets everyone's needs. This does however, presuppose that they took the time to understand the other, and that both parties were honest with the other.

    If your partner is asexual, then it's up to you to have recognized that, and up to them to have been honest about it. If you tried to assess the other person's sex drive, and it was markedly lower than yours, and you figured, "it'll get better" that's on you. If they pretended it was high, and it wasn't, thats on them. The same goes for kinkiness, sexual shyness,
    homosexuality, etc.

    In the event that you or your partner LATER came to realize that they are gay, or asexual, or greatly more, or less, sexual than the other, then no accomodation can be made, but otherwise both have an obligation to try to come to an accommodation.

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  • Sex don't make up the relationship or even love. Just look at it this way for a moment.
    Sex = boy/girl
    Love is feeling with the awareness that it exist.
    Now you want to leave a person because there sex is good or bad. Here you can answer your self on this with others opinion.
    What did you feel when you 1st started going out with that person and if you had sex with that person more then 3 times and you did it a fourth time it wasn't as bad as you thought. If you had it less then 3 times you should think about what made you get with them in the 1st place. If you say love is there then is really wasn't because you are asking about others opinion about this and that love you thought was there is only LUST , lust isn't love at all when you are worried about is sex is good or bad.
    IF LOVE WAS THERE ANYWHERE YOU WOULD OVER LOOK WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE AND love would allow the relationship to pull through what ever it is you are going through as far as that sex stuff. REAL LOVE IS LIKE THAT... lol..

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  • No if somebody leaves because of that, then they sorta made the relationship about the sex.. If you love somebody, or even care a lot about them then you will find ways for the sex to be good.. In fact it's a given that eventually the sex will become good..

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  • This depends whether the relationship is a LTR one (marriage) or a May-September romance. Sex is usually one the main factors that brought you together in the first place. If it suddenly goes sideways there's issues.

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  • in my opinion unless he’s physically hurting me or doesn’t give a shit about me- sex can’t be bad. There is always room for stuff you both like. If anyone cares about it. If they don’t care - sex isn’t he problem. If it’s logistical aNd he’s just too big - we’d figure out a solution that works for both IF we both care and if not- again sex isn’t the problem.

    i know caring doesn’t necessarily make you sexually a perfect match but sex isn’t the most important thing to me so I don’t care as long as we care about each other.

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  • Sex is by far not the most important thing in life or in a relation.

    More important is the intellectual compatibility. If sex is good, then it is a good asset to have on the side.

    How much time in the life of a couple is spent having sex? 1%, perhaps 2%? and how long do you spend with your SO/partner in another activity than sex? more than 25% (6 hours) if you remove the time that you are working in a different location, are separated from each other or sleep.

    I have my doubts that couples have sex more than 28 minutes every day for 60 years. 28 minutes correspond to 2% of a single day.

    So, anyone favoring the 2% over the 25% fails to see the real meaning of being together and caring for someone.

    Sex may be important for a few years when the hormones dictate the daily life but the craving slowly disappears with age. You had your sex for a few year and realize that you set the wrong priority in life.

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    • Totally agree. Plus you can always have extra on the side of you really need them...😉

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  • If everything else was great besides the sex. Then I'd stay and try to find subtle ways to improve our sex life. Then again if everything else is great, its pretty likely that the sex is great too. Provided that she has a decent sex drive. Some people simply don't. Poor souls 😥

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  • Leave because it indicates lack of interest in you or indulgence in you. Yes conversation matters but when that above picture is the norm : you will crush your soul with much difficulty of regaining your worth.

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  • Sex should be the last issue when breaking up. I am surprised that, even in this age of technology, people have this issue. DO NOT abandon your partner. Help him/her. Without pointing fingers, you two can discuss how life can be spicier? Again, sex should be last thing when breaking up and help your partner. DO NOT abandon him/her.

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  • Leaving means you're only in the relationship because of the sex. It shows you don't really love the person. Sure you might get sexually frustrated but why not masturbate instead?

    Have a look at the link below.

    puckermob.com/.../

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  • I'd stay for a while and try to teach her some moves but if she didn't improve i'd be out.✌👉👣👣👣

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  • Tough choice, but if we love each other then it'll work out.

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  • If the sex is bad, that's probably am indication of other (deeper) problems.

    As for stay or go... Depends on what kind of relationship it is, and how much time is invested, etc...

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  • Well, what about the sex makes it trash? A lot can be worked on, lol. How is the rest of the relationship? 😂

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  • Sex can never be trash..
    See its always better than using my hand..
    And I have always used my hand..
    So I would even find trash sex... Amazing

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  • I would try to teach but if he didn't get it I doubt it would be a long term relationship

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  • You can talk to eachother to improve your performance

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  • If I love her enough, I'd stay with her whether the sex improved or not.

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  • I would still try and make it work. If I have someone perfect for me, I wouldn't immediately throw that away just for sex.

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  • Sex is a crucial factor in a relationship... If it's good it can make up for bad things, but if it's bad, it'll make good little things insignificant...

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  • Try to know what sexual kinks you have in common first, then you won't need to worry about any potential leaving.

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  • I would have to break up--sex is a big part of relationship for me at this point.

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  • If she's willing to improve and actually does, great. If sex is just clearly a chore for her bye.

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  • I'd stay to try and improve the bedroom skills however if it doesn't over time then I'm out!

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  • For sex to be bad with someone you love shouldn't be happening , their is just troubled waters /resentments that is putting a hold on things , you should try to bring. that spark back in your relationship instead. of holding grudges against each other and blaming each other , which people. tend to do , it's your fault you did this or you aren't romantic enough for. me., you dont do this and that , when comparing your. partner. comes into play then something is off , if u both can't compromise and allow love. to conquer then it's best to move on. So ask yourself why is. the sex hot satisfying anymore? What is missing

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  • I'll teach her how to be best trashy slut for me in the bedroom. If that doesn't work then it's bye bye

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  • I'd kick their ass to the curb and find me another girl.

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  • I wouldn't want to go for a relationship that isn't open from the beginning

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  • She better be putting it down like a boss or I’m gone 😂

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  • If its trash even after a serious talk, I would leave.

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  • I would stay... I doubt I would find another that would even sleep with me xD

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  • I'd just train her and myself to be better, duh. Any idiot can learn how to screw properly.

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  • Cuddle Buddle. xxoo

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  • I don’t value sex so I’d be fine with that

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  • first try to improve

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  • That won't be a problem for me

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  • Lol. In my case it's oversatisfying.

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  • Nah. I'd leave. Can't handle that. Bye Felipe lol

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  • Pinay tell me more about your shit love life

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  • It takes 2for sex you could be the problem?

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  • Stay until I find someone better.

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  • Spice it up

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  • Teach the guy or leave lol

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  • Stay and try to improve our bedroom skills.

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  • Leave

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  • ummmmm see ya later

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