When you orgasm during sexual relations, how do you feel emotionally?

I read a guy say "I just get disappointed when I orgasm because that means the sex is over."

So, emotionally speaking, how do you feel when you orgasm during sexual relations?
When you orgasm during sexual relations, how do you feel emotionally?
I feel positively
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I feel very positively (ecstatic, etc)
Vote B
I feel neutrally
Vote C
I feel negatively (disappointed that the sexual relations are over, etc)
Vote D
I feel mixed 50/50
Vote E
I've never engaged in sexual relations
Vote F
I've engaged in sexual relations, but never orgasmed while doing so
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  • For me it’s not as simple as your spectrum of answers suggests.

    How I feel afterward is very much tied to my partner’s experience of pleasure and my performance, which are tightly linked.

    She’s usually a one-and-done woman, unable to tolerate any more sensation after orgasming. So once she is thoroughly satisfied, I feel great about finishing. That’s the ideal for me.

    She likes cumming together but I find it’s not ideal because she’s squirming so much it takes away from the sensation for me. Plus I’d rather watch her cum than be distracted from it by my own orgasm. But I don’t begrudge her that; I try to make it happen because I know she likes it.

    My least favorite is cumming before her. It’s rare but it happens. I feel like I’ve let her down even though she assures me it’s OK. It’s not that she goes away frustrated; I’ll finish her orally or with fingers—whatever she wants—but I can’t help feeling a bit disappointed.

    Also, if the sex lasts extraordinarily long, I find that emotionally more satisfying. It’s a glow that lasts all day. The more of each other that we share, the better!

  • it feels like im draining all my energy out of a hose in one shot. similar to pinching a running hose and then letting it go

    • Is that good or bad?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Physically, I suppose you could describe it as a head to toe grin! It's that feeling you get when you've done something so pleasing that your cheeks hurt from smiling and giggling so much!!
    Emotionally, it's a feeling of bonding with my hubby, it is almost like the description of the two being one body or one flesh.

    • Thank You!!

  • Mentally & emotionally I’ve just had my mind blown. At first it’s overwhelming & then there’s a calm.

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  • Is there a “sleepy” option?

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    When you orgasm during sexual relations, how do you feel emotionally?When you orgasm during sexual relations, how do you feel emotionally?
  • Elated!

  • Very positively

  • Ready for round 2

  • I feel like I am in heaven

  • Relieved to know something finally happened.

  • I feel awesome because i rarely get to climax. She gets tired after only one anymore and that ends my chances of one.

  • Drained... but good! Very very good. Emotionally, ecstatic. On cloud 9... 😂

  • I feel nothing emotionally. It's like the only thing that exists is the pleasure in that moment.

    • Yes but the. I realize it’s over and it’s like fuck

  • I don’t see why this is limited to people that have had sex before. I can orgasm on my own and feel just as good about it after.

  • I’m happy but then sad cause like I’m done lol I don't know it’s weird

  • I'm on cloud nine, and then immediately physically drained. All the while I'm still quite happy.

  • Being post-orgasmic with a loving partner is never a bad thing.

  • Like I just came... I am going to speak purely for myself on this question.

    For me I feel I separate the physical sensation from the act. However, at the very same time, the sense of, 'intensity' is magnified with the greater the connection I have with, 'her'. Whoever 'she' is. So on this same token, the less the connection the less of an intensity or perhaps the word is, "heart" is felt in the moment. I mean, physically, it feels great, but the physiological feeling does not augment the emotion whereas the emotion arguments the physiological. If that makes sense. I guess what I am saying is in climaxing I do not feel more close to her because the emotion (s) themselves are what effects the climatic intensity - and not the other way around. Again, if that makes any sense. Still, I think, "damn that felt great! Let's do it again!" Which most often does happen shortly after a brief recovery break.

  • Virgin, just checking in

  • I feel completely neutrally.

  • Excited, more passionate and love.

    • sounds sensual!

    • @QuietRunner 👍🏻

  • I either feel negative/disappointed or positive/energized.

  • With just no emotions attached. no thanks. get more out of it with jerking off in the feel good apartment.

    Apart of that. If it didn't feel mechanical it's better the way to the goal. the brain hits the pause button with most of the brain activities while it feels like okay all the way to super depending on how well she connects on a deeper level and how much feelings that flies from both sides also how much both of us let it go and goo crazy.

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