Why does my friend with benefits like to cum inside of me?

[Anonymous]

So, I've been in a friends with benefits for 5 months. I have a few questions. How long does a friends with benefits relationship typically last?

I just found out my friends with benefits has a pregnant girlfriend yet he has been having sex with me and cumming inside of me. I let him because I thought we were just seeing each other but I know different now. I also have fertility issues so I was wondering if I'd have a spontaneous pregnancy in the process.

Why would he risk getting me pregnant too? He's never asked if I were on birth control or anything. He doesn't know about my fertility issues. I also know where he works and lives obviously so if he did get me pregnant I could hold him accountable via court child support which he is aware of. Though if I got pregnant I'd also be ok to raise the child on my own with my family given the circumstances.

But I'm just curious about why the guy would take a risk with me knowing his girlfriend is already pregnant? Knowing he could end up with 2 kids and child support? I'm in my late 30s so maybe he assumed I can't get pregnant vs his girlfriend in her late 20s? He is 39 so he's not young or inexperienced.

[spartan55]

Okay, for him to not clarify the birth control details BEFORE he made an unprotected 'deposit' indicates you are fucking a moron who is either: a moron, or has the immaturity of a middle schooler.
I do have a question: Why didn't YOU step up and say something about him blowing it in you when you had sex... Maybe like "hey Johnny Moron, I'm not on any birth control so you need to wrap the little thing up!"
Why are you acting so surprised he did this? It was a friends with benefits arrangement... What the hell did you expect?

[Asker]

I should have clarified with him but in the beginning I thought he was a decent guy. We didn't start as friends with benefits it was supposed to be a relationship where we had talked about kids etc just not bc. But something changed on his end. Looking back at his behavior I think he might have met the girl he's with now while we were supposed to be starting a relationship. I think he just moved me to the friends with benefits category. I let it continue because I was enjoying sex with him... maybe not the best decision but I'm being honest.

[Anonymous]

He either thinks you can't, or (stupidly) doesn't care. Some guys go with how it feels and nothing else. But I'd end it with him regardless. Do you really want to be "the other woman"? And what if you get pregnant? He's not going to care obviously and my guess, will leave you high and dry.

[Opinion Owner]

And the question should be "why is he risking it?" but "why are YOU risking it?"

[AperolSpritz]

Like the others have said, all guys like to finsh inside.
It's the primal part of them.

Chances are, by your details, that you and his girlfriend aren't the only people he's sleeping with.

It sounds like you might need to stop by the clinic sometime soon.

[AperolSpritz]

The real question is, why are you hoping for a baby with a guy like that? Low standards?

[Lovethedove]

Because he’s clearly an immature, irresponsible not empathetic, selfish, lying, sneaky, stupid jerk. He has some major growing up to do

[AustinMan]

He's clearly a player. I'd dump him or at least make him wear a condom. Are you on birth control?

[Napoli]

All guys like to cum inside.
It's just built into them

[bookboy]

I agree on that haha

[ItsyBits]

Why do you let him?

[boggboss]

All guys like to finish inside it feels amazing he is simply a idiot that d9nt care if you got pregnant or not

[boggboss]

Because he is a fuckboi lol why are u acting like he is some good man when he clearly is not

[helva]

He knows you love to make seks with him and does not feel responsible.

[Danny_dan92]

Idk? How bout you ask him?

[Danny_dan92]

@the update “You’d be hurt if you were his girlfriend” yet you keep fucking him.. have some fucken decency and respect for the poor girl

[Asker]

No, read it again. I never said I was still fucking him. I haven't since I found out.

[Asker]

Then again shouldn't he have had some respect for her first?

[Danny_dan92]

My mistake. Well are you on BC?

[Danny_dan92]

Yes. He should. But what matters is that you stopped seeing him after you found out he had a girl

[Asker]

I do use birth control but because of my fertility issues it's more for hormone replacement therapy... yet apparently in my case if I understood my doctor I could still have a spontaneous pregnancy because my hormones are wacky for lack of a better description.

[Danny_dan92]

Hmmm... well just look at the man he is. Clearly he lacks proper judgment by getting a girl knocked up then cheating on her with another woman and did the same action that caused the other to get pregnant. He’s a dumbass. For all you know he might actually have more baby mamas than you actually know about

[magicInABox]

i will never understand friends with benefits.

[Janenow]

It feels better for him

[oldoldold]

The question I have is why are fucking a guy who has a pregnant girlfriend if you think his actions are bad?

[Asker]

I just found out about his pregnant girlfriend. If I'd known beforehand I would not have had sex with him.

[oldoldold]

Ahhh I c that sucks. Sorry that happened

[anddyyz]

Because cumming inside is one of the great pleasures.. so even if we would to tale it out. can't do it. And end up cumming inside.

[Cristian97]

Well you should tell him that if u get pregnant he’s gonna help the child

[BigBlueGuy]

Enjoys the feeling

[masterkamasutra]

its more natural way to have sex but safety is most, sense in mind needed.

[michaelbernad001]

Guys love to cum inside ( creampie ) .

[newcommer210319]

I think that's what pleser him, its in his mentality. he is toying, why I can tell because I have thought about such scenario a lot,

I prefer you look for someone else as you are toy to him, than he should be for you.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's just his fetish, though sex without a condom does feel better

[Anonymous]

Trying to knock you up, human instincts

[Anonymous]

That’s information that should have been shared from the start. I had friends with benefits back in the day and I knew about their cycles & they were on birth control so I didn’t have anything to worry about.