Girls, is feeling his heartbeat a good motivator for giving blowjobs?

[ForteExe]

Since there are specific parts of a guy's dick where you can get a strong reading on his pulse, it's entirely possible to feel his heartbeat with your tongue if you're blowing him. The concept of "feeling the heart of the man you love beat beside your mind" seems like the sort of thing that'd be written in the erotic novels women often flock to, so I imagine it'd be something they'd enjoy in practice as well. To the girls who like giving blowjobs, is this a reason why you like them? To the ones who don't like giving blowjobs or to the ones who haven't given one yet, would you be more into it if you rationalized it this way? Anyone who is turned off from blowjobs having thought about this?

[Anonymous]

If I want to feel my boyfriends heartbeat I lay my head down on his chest. Trying to feel his pulse by touching his dick sounds pretty alien to me 🤣 like yes, I do give him blowjobs, both as a form of foreplay and also during my period but I do it to make him happy and nothing else. Seeing the guy you love in pleasure is a way more bigger motivator than feeling his pulse.

[ForteExe]

Fair point.

[Anonymous]

I haven't experienced this myself, but I like the sentiment. Didn't really know that was a thing, but it sounds interesting. I would give it a try. It might feel weird to feel a heartbeat on your tongue

[ForteExe]

Good to know. Thanks for the response.

[Ellie-V]

I don’t like giving bjs, and if a dude tried to present this information as a way to persuade me to put his dick in my mouth, I’d laugh in his face.

What you are describing is a cheap manipulative tactic for the use of a damn blow job. Like seriously? 😒

[ForteExe]

That's a fair response I suppose, although it's not meant to be manipulative.

[Ellie-V]

I’ll break it down to you (for fun ☺️) You basically presented an empty rationale based on an empathetic appeal to draw in the interest of a woman’s emotional/sentimental nature so that YOU can get want. In other words, you are exploiting the nature of women to get what you want. Textbook manipulation.

[ForteExe]

That's not what I was doing though. I thought women 'might' like this, but rather than assume they do I figured I'd ask instead. At no point did I say "women should blow guys because xyz". If you don't want to suck dick then don't. Not that big a deal. Don't start pointing accusations at me for being supposedly manipulative either.

[Ellie-V]

I didn’t say you were manipulative. I said your rationale (that you presented) was manipulative. Not every scheme works on everyone so there’s no need for you to assume that it will always work because... it won’t 😂 I understand that you probably didn’t mean for it to be grimy. I’m not calling you a grimy person. I’m just saying you came up with some shitty material 😂

[ForteExe]

It's not "material". I'm legitimately curious. Quit making this out to be something slimy.

[Ellie-V]

The content you provided IS slimy 🤷🏾‍♀️ but it’s okay. It is what it is 😂 I wasn’t making a judgment on your character. You being curious is fine.

[ForteExe]

There's nothing slimy about it. I think it's a nice sentiment personally.

[Ellie-V]

It’s okay that you disagree. I already explained how it’s textbook manipulation. Now you are free to do your own research about how manipulation works if you feel the need to combat me 🤷🏾‍♀️