Have you ever bought a dildo (for yourself or someone else)?

Somebody said "even lesbians need penis; that's why they buy dildos." I pointed out that it's a myth; most people who buy dildos are men and most women get vibrators instead (source).

He said that those men are buying dildos to give to women. Even disregarding the fact that these female recipients would presumably be straight... I was curious if this is true.

Have you ever bought a dildo? Was it for yourself or somebody else?

Have you ever bought a dildo (for yourself or someone else)?
  • I have bought a dildo for myself
    Vote A
  • I have bought a dildo for myself, AND have bought a dildo for a man
    Vote B
  • I have bought a dildo for myself, AND have bought a dildo for a woman
    Vote C
  • All of the above
    Vote D
  • I have never bought a dildo for myself, but I have bought a dildo for a woman
    Vote E
  • I have never bought a dildo for myself, but I have bought a dildo for a man (but never a woman)
    Vote F
  • I have never bought a dildo for myself or anyone else
    Vote G
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  • First, as a penile-American, I don't need a dildo.

    I voted E but with an asterisk...
    It wasn't a dildo; it was a vibrator.

    I have a beautiful blonde cousin who is 9 months older than me and lives in northern California. In 1992-1993, I was living in southern California but would visit my cousin, her twin brother, and their older sister a few times a year.

    Since I had just moved to California in 1992, I spent my first Christmas there with them and my aunt.

    14 years earlier when we all first met, the elder sister (17 at the time and also a beautiful blonde) used me (15 at the time) as a sex education living male doll to teach her sister (16 at the time) who was very innocent.

    So, my cousins and I were reasonably close.

    Well, in 1992, the younger sister who is very sweet and 30 at the time decided she needed a break from guys having recently split with a very good looking douchebag named Mark. However, she still had "needs".

    So, she and I talked about it and I bought a "special Christmas present" for my cousin. This was before the Internet and you couldn't just run down to Target or Walmart to buy a vibrator or dildo back then. But we both knew that you could go to an adult store to buy such things. She felt highly uncomfortable to go in there by herself since it's almost always lonely and/or creepy who visit such places and she didn't want to be stared at the whole time not just because she'd be the only girl but because she was so beautiful.

    So, we went to an adult store she knew of and we went in together as if we were a couple and shopped comparing things like battery life, length, "ribbed for her pleasure", that sort of thing...

    I bought it and we left and, later she told me, she was VERY grateful.

    About 1-2 years later, she thanked me again, but told me she "needed the real thing" and got into another relationship.

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  • Never. Why would men buy a sex toy, that is made for women? I imagine that they give it to their girlfriend, but I would just get jealous to that toy. I would want to be the only one who has sex with her. I'm born with a sex toy.
    @mladasrpska 🙊😂💕

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  • I've never bought anyone a sex toy, I don't even use toys. My 2 best friends are dating and they bought me the hitachi unicorn vibrator sometime last year (to encourage me to masturbate while I'm single), but I never use it lol.

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  • What if it's a dildo and a vibrator... like, for yourself.

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  • Yeah

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  • I bought myself a vibrator. But my boyfriend is the one who bought me a dildo so that I can have more toys when I masturbate and also we can use it during sex too.

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  • I have bought one, as a gift, for a friend of mine. She's kinda shy and wouldn't be caught dead in a sex shop, or risk someone stealing her mail. I'm a lot more brash than that.

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  • Never bought a dildo, we don't even have sex shops in my country and if we had, i wouldn't buy...

    Imagine a married woman needing a dildo while she have the real thing and or the man having this rubber pus*y, while he have a real one...

    Sex shops are usually made for single people... also for women who lost their virginity before marriage...

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  • I was traveling a lot and so I bought a dildo for my girlfriend. She took it as a joke at first, but then she understood what it was all about. To this day, she still remembers that day 😉

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  • Vibrators are worth the money.
    Dildos I don’t know any friends who bought them if they’re with a husband

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  • I haven’t voted as I’ve only ever bought vibrators but I’ve bought for myself and for a friend

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  • I use a bullet vibe to get off with so Never have I bought a dildo for anyone including me... I might try one (a dildo) someday though.

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  • I have been in a couple relationships were we explore with toy's. It is even better when you go shopping together and are open enough to talk and look at things each of you might like.

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  • I haven't bought a dildo for myself or anybody else, but I did buy a vibrator that my ex really liked.

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  • I have bought dildos for myself and a vibrator with a ring for both myself and boyfriend at the time to enjoy... it was a hit.

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  • I have never bought a dildo for myself or anyone. I did have a an ex girlfriend try to use a dildo on me one. I didn't like it.

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    • It becuase she saw u as a beta male. Women dont respect beta males and try to treat them like women. She was trying to make her bitch shoulda slapped her mate

    • @animus1988 she was an eastern European domonatrix. A very kinky women. She had whips and chains.

  • Caveat... bought 1 for a buddy because he was too chicken to buy one for his girlfriend

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    • And get this he wanted to get it because she was too timid to buy for herself.
      He goes back to another town for school, we see each other a couple of months later... and he goes... I think she likes the dildo better than me! Lol... poor guy

  • I bought one to use on her while licking and sucking her clit.

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  • I prefer the term 'prostate massager' over dildo...👍😔

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  • They should have broken it up by sexual orientation. I bet a large percentage of the men who bought dildos were gay.

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  • I’ve never bought a dildo. And I would never want to use it on another woman.

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  • No but i find it rather disturbing how many women buy these things
    Its really gross

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    • How is it gross? As long as they keep the object clean. I would think actual intercourse is grosser because there's actually bodily fluids involved.

    • I dunno something about the idea of having an object in your house thats meant to go inside your vagina gross me out lol
      I rather her just use her fingers. Lol no toys

  • Lol. I dont need. I already have my bae's original.

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    • Let me guess you "boyfriend" an indian curry smelling penis 😂😂😂

  • I have bought a number of dildos for the women I fuck. None for myself

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  • I never have, but my dad bought me one on Valentine's Day

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  • Never bought a dildo. Got a vibrator for my girlfriend tho lol

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  • I bought one for my wife and myself. I don't think lesbians should own them... they arnt into dick

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  • I have bought a dildo for myself, AND have bought a dildo for a man

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  • Nought for myself

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  • Interesting that more women use sex toys than men.

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  • real vegetable are better than plastic

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  • I hv bought for myself n my friend

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  • Twas a vibrator

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  • Nope

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  • Never

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  • Nope.

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  • Nothing can be compared to the real ones

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  • Yes l have girls loce them

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  • Never

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  • I have gifted it to several so yes

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  • I bought my girl vibrators

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  • I've only ever had sex with a dildo

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  • I didn’t buy a dildo
    But I have a vibrator

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  • I would buy any sex you for my girl

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  • My boyfriend bought one for me last week. It’s coming in the mail lol

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    • What a pathetic move. Why not just fuk your girlfriend with ur own dick instead of paying for a fake one smh cucks these days

    • Good for you. Animus seems to think every boyfriend is available when their girlfriend is horny. And/or they should wait til his magical shaft is present to fill her up and excite her madly.
      Meanwhile he’s jerking in front of the computer daily.

      Let yr boyfriend watch u hun... it’s hot

    • Ok wow.
      I don't know why you’d think it’s pathetic? It’s sweet of him. And here’s some insight, we don’t live together.

  • I never bought a dildo for me or for anyone else, but i know my mom (lesbian) has one.

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