Do you get the urge to pee while fingering (or otherwise penetrating) yourself, & does it lead you to squirt?

Question

In response to my other poll about whether feel the urge to pee during self-penetration (vote here) a lot of people said that it means you're about to squirt. I was wondering how true it is.

I know it's debated whether squirting is pee or ejaculate, so that's why the poll options put the 2 together.

Do you get the urge to pee while fingering (or otherwise penetrating) yourself, & does it lead you to squirt?

LogicBomber · Accepted Answer

I have taught many females how to squirt. There is a lot of debate but I can tell you definitively that it is not pee.

When the skenes glad is stimulated it fills with fluid. It is stimulated through the clit and/or g-spot which is all part of the same mechanics. The clitoris is actually a tube that forks around the outside of the vagina and goes over the area inside where the g-spot is.

When I teach a girl to squirt, I always have her go pee first to make sure her bladder is completely empty. (So there is no confusion)

The fluid comes out as a clear, tasteless, oderless, fluid. Sometimes as a strong stream, sometimes as a mist, sometimes as dribbles. Sometimes its a lot like water and sometimes its thicker.

There could be a tiny bit of urine in the first squirt because it is in the urethra from peeing earlier. But if you get her to squirt multiple times, the fluid is never urine. It actually has the chemical makeup similar to male prostate fluid.

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

Whether "squirt" is pee or ejaculate, the release of it usually helps the woman to enjoy a better orgasm. Stopping to go pee, or worrying about holding it diminishes her pleasure. I think all couples in which the woman experiences this pressure should get some sheets that are water resistant and put them down when having sex. When the urge to release this liquid comes up, just let it happen. It does not matter whether it is pee or something else. It will not harm anything and since you have prepared it will not mess anything up. And the woman will learn to not worry or be embarrassed by it and enjoy more pleasurable orgasms, which will mean the man will get more pleasure also.

Giuly96lalaland · Accepted Answer

Actually in my experience i don't feel the urge to pee while i'm fingering, i'm just having an orgasm. All changes when i'm with my boyfriend: if he fingers me or penetrates me i feel this thing, similar to the urge to pee, but after i just get really really wet. If i'm on him during sex i could drip a little bit sometimes, but not like in porn. Staying to what we see in porn, it happened to me just once while he was fingering me. Staying at that experience i wouldn't say it's pee because i've squirted all over the bed sheet and once dried there were no yellow stains or smell.

EclipseoftheHeart · Accepted Answer

I would think someone would be smart enough to empty their bladder before sex as having the urge to pee during sex takes away a lot from your experience.

katiesmuff · Answer

I find "A" to be closest to my experiences. If I get the urge to pee while fingering myself, I'm either peeing myself or getting up and going potty and coming back to what I was doing. Can't imagine anyone getting any kind of orgasm when you also have an urge to pee. I believe it basically works the same for guys as well.

Gothd011 · Answer

I go and pee... I mean it just my body natural instant since I was potty train. 2 very hard to hit an O when one has to pee. Even if Im with someone we will stop to pee because it is distracting.

Ankitasingh466 · Answer

No.. only my bae's dick goes in.

Apope16 · Answer

I can only say that I had sex with a woman. When I fingered her she not only squirted clear and odorless fluid A LOT... but she went nuts. Just moaning and orgasming and shaking. It was pretty cool.

OvershareGamer · Answer

99.9% of the time when a guy or girl calls it squirting its actually just pissing at the dude.  Many guys are stupid and fall for it.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Well? It should! That's what it feels like when you're about to squirt. That's probably the biggest reason girls don't allow themselves to squirt when they get the feeling to; they think it's pee and they don't want to pee all over everything.