Why are men so attracted to hot moms/MILFs?

[weysally]

according to what I have been told by a few men, they like the idea of taking someone else's woman, and also they think we are more experienced

[the_imperfectionist]

I guess they assume you have a vast knowledge on all things sex and is really mentally advanced in that sector.

[mlgjamz]

It's probably because usually mom's aren't as good looking so it's surprising when there's a hot one

[Anonymous]

where i'm from if you're 22, you're not a milf... you're just a bitch with a kid

[MrOracle]

It's a porn thing.

Porn producers are always trying to expand into new areas of interest by catering to (and if not inventing, then at the very least commercializing and mainstreaming) fetishes. Interracial porn and MILF porn were the new hotness 20 years ago, and incest and cuckold porn got big about 10 years ago.

Regarding MILF porn, another reason for that (as well as the incest porn) was to be able to employ porn actresses who would have otherwise "aged out" of mainstream porn. By justifying their age via the storyline and fetish category, they can keep those women working AND cater to (and grow) a market that might have been marginal before.

Anyway, porn has set that trend and kind of defined it, and I guess the guys approaching you that way are fans of the genre.

[Jjpayne]

I think it is a real thing

I honestly could not tell you what makes moms attractive, maybe it's experience or maybe it's a greater softness to their bodies or maybe it is the forbidden fruit

Who knows, but there are sure some attractive moms out there, I think they call it the hot moms club and I guess you belong to that :)

[Berethor]

MILFs usually cougars, usually it mostly an age thing than a maternity thing, some attractive looking women in their 40s are called MILFs even if they don't have children, you on the other hand is an mom, as you are 22 years old, are guys really constantly calling you an MILF? and not just an single mom? you likely also didn't have most of the things that guys who are looking for cougars, I doubt that you have much experience and confidence, you might as well got knocked out from an one-night stand, especially if you are not married to your kids dad. Anyway I doubt that many men are attracted to single moms, most guys are not interested in dating single moms, as far as know, especially when it comes to serious relationship, and many of those men might be lying, because they just desperate to get laid.

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[Dallsimo]

Older women are just marvelous! They know what they want, they know how to get it and they know how to turn on any men or so. They're usually more confident and less "competitive" towards other women.

One thing is sure : a pregnant woman's body is far different then usual. It's exciting, beautiful and the feeling isn't the same!

[Anonymous]

I agree with the guy that mentioned the Freud dude stuff. It might be because men deep down want someone that can take care of them and a mother by default is showing the ability to take care of someone already, with obvious exceptions of course. Same reason lots of girls like older guys. They want a guy who's already been through the struggle of finding a career and crap so they can be able to take care of them. But then they gotta make it weird and sexual. lol

[Mitch-french]

Maybe we think you can take more than a couple of fingers in?

[MackToday]

Not sure, I always liked the older women even when I was young. Something smooth and confident about them. Foolishness though, a young man belongs with a young woman, older women are less fertile or not at all, so I think it's a defect in me.

[Anonymous]

In my opinion, sex with a MILF is much more fun compare to girls of our age group.
Young guys have more energy than older ones, that's why it is usually easy to get a milf rather than a girl of our age because every women wants a great sex, which they can get from younger guys.

And even for a guy, we can have sex with milf without any worries about having kids or marrying them. It's just have sex, and go back to your normal life, move on. In this way both are happy.

[Nik1hil]

Subconsciously..
This is justified by freuds logic of Oedipus and Electra Complex..
The boys with mommy issues and Girls with Daddy Issues..
Today more than half our generation has it

[Red_Arrow]

I am guessing that it is the idea that her body has been through aging and having kids, ad is still hot.

[andy_59]

Milfs are classified more like a lady who is 40 years or older. When you see one that is still really hot then they are a milf. At 22 you're more just seen as an attractive young lady

[imredheaded]

Before American Pie people would just call you hot. You just happen to be a mom so you are therefore a milf. I don't think it has anything to do with the fact you are a mom for MOST guys. Though some guys I am sure it adds to the hotness.

[311WasAnInsideJam]

To be fair, I am too. It shows maturity and priorities.

[chriscdi]

it can just be cause of the maturity, kinda like a psychological thing, they are responsible to have a kid then they must be mature but honestly im not sure and it can be many things

[DanOh2018]

Probably men like women who are known to be fertile, seems like a good primal instict to have.

[hornyoldguy]

1) difficult to say if you are a hot mom/MILF
2) just because she has kids does not make her hot or not. i find kidless girls and mommies hot, as long as they are indeed hot. nice boobs and good looking body.

[Ripper_E]

Mommy issues maybe? I'm attracted to older women, not necessarily because they are moms. If they are moms, they are moms.

[Anonymous]

Well, these guys get excited over women they assume ae more likely to have sex with them and really rock their world.

[Straight_Shooter]

What makes moms hot is when they look as good as they did before having kids. A woman who had kids but takes care of herself and gets her pre-pregnancy body back is very hot.

[Summer_9193]

a lot of men are... I had sex once with an older woman and it was amazing!