Why are men so attracted to hot moms/MILFs?

I constantly get compliments saying I'm a milf or that I'm hot for having kids. But how is me having kids making me hotter then others that dont. What acutally makes moms hot? It is always very confusing for me to understand this, considering moms and non moms can have the same body. Is it more of a personality thing?
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  • according to what I have been told by a few men, they like the idea of taking someone else's woman, and also they think we are more experienced

    • Very true

  • I guess they assume you have a vast knowledge on all things sex and is really mentally advanced in that sector.

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  • It's probably because usually mom's aren't as good looking so it's surprising when there's a hot one

    • Is it really surprising tho? Those girls had to be hot enough to be fucked to get a baby in them

    • I don't know, just my theory

  • where i'm from if you're 22, you're not a milf... you're just a bitch with a kid

    • Haha thanks

    • anytime boo boo ;)

    • Awh I'm your boo boo😛

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  • It's a porn thing.

    Porn producers are always trying to expand into new areas of interest by catering to (and if not inventing, then at the very least commercializing and mainstreaming) fetishes. Interracial porn and MILF porn were the new hotness 20 years ago, and incest and cuckold porn got big about 10 years ago.

    Regarding MILF porn, another reason for that (as well as the incest porn) was to be able to employ porn actresses who would have otherwise "aged out" of mainstream porn. By justifying their age via the storyline and fetish category, they can keep those women working AND cater to (and grow) a market that might have been marginal before.

    Anyway, porn has set that trend and kind of defined it, and I guess the guys approaching you that way are fans of the genre.

  • To be fair, I am too. It shows maturity and priorities.

  • I am guessing that it is the idea that her body has been through aging and having kids, ad is still hot.

  • MILFs usually cougars, usually it mostly an age thing than a maternity thing, some attractive looking women in their 40s are called MILFs even if they don't have children, you on the other hand is an mom, as you are 22 years old, are guys really constantly calling you an MILF? and not just an single mom? you likely also didn't have most of the things that guys who are looking for cougars, I doubt that you have much experience and confidence, you might as well got knocked out from an one-night stand, especially if you are not married to your kids dad. Anyway I doubt that many men are attracted to single moms, most guys are not interested in dating single moms, as far as know, especially when it comes to serious relationship, and many of those men might be lying, because they just desperate to get laid.

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    • Youd be surprised I get called a milf a lot especially in person. Not so much online. And I'm married to my baby daddy. And also I know non of these guys are looking for realtionships

    • Well if you know non of these guys are looking for an relationship, then it's not surprising, as I said guy usually not want to date an single mom for the sake of serious relationship, but they might want her for casual sex, it also possible that they call you hot even though they not interested in you, it might just be an compliment. The only man who is supposed to find it hot is your baby daddy.

    • Some guys just call me hot without the wanting sex or a relationship. They do it just to be nice

  • I think it is a real thing

    I honestly could not tell you what makes moms attractive, maybe it's experience or maybe it's a greater softness to their bodies or maybe it is the forbidden fruit

    Who knows, but there are sure some attractive moms out there, I think they call it the hot moms club and I guess you belong to that :)

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  • You are cursed with always being hot though.

  • Mommy issues maybe? I'm attracted to older women, not necessarily because they are moms. If they are moms, they are moms.

  • Not sure, I always liked the older women even when I was young. Something smooth and confident about them. Foolishness though, a young man belongs with a young woman, older women are less fertile or not at all, so I think it's a defect in me.

  • Maybe we think you can take more than a couple of fingers in?

    • 😑no 2 at the most

    • Amazing. How can you give birth and then it comes back to two fingers? Fascinating.

    • Both my kids were small and I barely pushed to get them out, no tearing at all. My pussy looks better then most girls with no babies

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  • Subconsciously..
    This is justified by freuds logic of Oedipus and Electra Complex..
    The boys with mommy issues and Girls with Daddy Issues..
    Today more than half our generation has it

  • They are mature maybe. I'm not tho tbh

  • a lot of men are... I had sex once with an older woman and it was amazing!

  • it can just be cause of the maturity, kinda like a psychological thing, they are responsible to have a kid then they must be mature but honestly im not sure and it can be many things

  • Not sure where you got that idea from but most men are not interested in single moms. And guys my age don’t want kids and are not attracted to older women.

    • there's a lot of young guys that love moms

  • You're 22 I would not consider you a milf.

    • Milfs dont have to be old

    • In general MILFs are older women.

  • Probably pornography advertising.

  • Because they are a legend in their own mind.

  • Because they're hot and experienced

  • Having kids shows you like sex and you get horny. Not having a partner, show you have sexual energy building up.

  • Because they don’t have time for games or attitudes! They love with everything and keep it moving.

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