Why would he keep trying to fuck me without a condom?

We met a few months back like January. I didn't give in for sex right away so he was working a little. This month we had sex for the first time I was a virgin but my feelings and the way I treat him didn't change.

The first time we didn't wear protection because we were stupid and naive. After that he tries to get me for a quickie I'm down for it until I realized he was about to raw me, I said no. Today again he tried to go without a condom knowing damn well I'm not on birth control I said no and he kept insisting. Like he isn't bothered that he could literally get me pregnant and I don't understand exactly what is he trying to do here since he asked me why am I so difficult he doesn't "want to marry you or make you my girlfriend the physical attraction you have for me is the same I have for you and that's about it. No love shit" and whenever I ask him why it turns into a fight and I leave with my questions unanswered still.
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He now said that he keeps doing it because our sex is unexpected and when we are about to do it he never has a condom around
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Its feels better with no condom, but always do what makes you comfortable. Me and my guy always used pull out method but that resulted in having two children

Most Helpful Guys

  • Scare him next time in a couple of weeks tell him that you’re pregnant (but you’re not) and that’ll get him to wear them

  • That is trouble waiting to happen you are being smart don’t give in and if he doesn’t listen get rid of him

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  • Doesn't seem to realize the danger.

    • Tell him no sex without a condom

    • How so? We are adults, I keep telling him no

    • Adults can be clueless about this as well.

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  • Because he's a piece of shit. I'd move on to another guy. Even if he's only looking for something casual he should respect you enough to use protection and not try to pressure you into anything

  • Probably because it feels so much better that it is like night and day.
    Condoms removed so much physical sensation for me that when sex with a condom was the only sex on offer, I went home and jerked off instead.

  • Do you want an illegitimate child with a man who doesn’t even love you? Wrap that shit up or better yet dump his ass for a real relationship

  • He is into creampie

  • raw sex feels so good.

  • i'd move on with another guy who'd respect your wishes and he's selfish

  • that's kind of a form of rape, you know

    if you continually say no to a specific type of sex, it's rape

    • like i said, if you dont want unprotected sex, and he continues to, it's rape

  • Selfishness. Simple as that. All he cares about is how it feels. It feels way better without. But I'd never risk it. But some guys (like him obviously) don't care at all, or are just stupid.

  • Because it feels really good and he doesn’t care because it will be your problem in his mind or maybe you will just use plan B after

    • Smh.