Has a woman ever sexually taken advantage of you?

[Anonymous]

Before anybody says anything, I am well aware of the fact that men commit the overwhelming majority of sexual misconduct at all levels. Still, I do want to gauge the prevalence of misconduct perpetrated by women, as it does exist and often is ignored.

Have you ever had unwanted sexual contact or advances from a woman? This can range from being physically forced to perform sexual acts, being taken advantage of when being too intoxicated to consent, being coerced or guilted into doing things, molested, or unwanted groping, kissing, or similar conduct. Has said experience (s) had significant after-effects on you?

This question only deals with such events involving you (or somebody else you personally know well enough) where the perpetrator (s) was female. Both guys and girls can respond and understandably, anonymous opinions are welcome.

I have been kissed and groped by women without my consent at bars and parties, although I didn't care and mostly brushed it off. Other than that, nothing has happened along those lines.

[Anonymous]

I'm a woman so no. But I will say that there are overwhelming amount of woman who are child molesters! My ex was abused by his mother and its taboo to talk about. Yes I have a guy friend who said womam grabbed him down there at clubs n such. He didn't like it and it made him uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

Yes! I was molested by a woman and my partner was raped as a teen by a much older woman. Sickos dont have a gender!!

[Anonymous]

All except for A and F. B is why I absolutely refuse to get drunk anymore. Haven't been drunk since that night.

[Asker]

Sorry to hear that. Can you vote on the one you consider worst?

[Opinion Owner]

B. If I had experienced A, that would be my answer. And I can also say that it's a good thing for men that it's so difficult for a woman to forcibly rape a man. They are absolutely psychologically capable.

[Asker]

Absolutely true. My (abusive) first girlfriend was older and physically stronger than I was, and one of her favorite things to do was to hold me down and forcibly tickle me, even well after I was distressed and begging her to stop. I feel that it was the same power dynamic, especially given that she often made remarks like "you're my bitch" and "I own your ass" so she probably would have if she wanted to.

[Katebfun]

I'm sorry but that is not sexual abuse! Grow some balls. Haha

[Opinion Owner]

Imagine women being able to rape men, have their babies, and use the courts to get child support. They already get pregnant on purpose "accidentally", imagine if they were physically capable of doing it by force

[Opinion Owner]

Waking up to some ugly slut, who I rejected earlier, riding my dick without protection and then jumping off and apologizing (proving she knew exactly what she was doing)... ... isn't sexual abuse?

[Asker]

I never said it was sexual abuse. She was emotionally abusive, however, just not sexually. It was when I was much younger and I didn't have the self-esteem then to stand up or walk away from her. And when I said "power dynamic" it was being overpowered and her not caring if I was ok with it or not that made it distressing. The thought of "She can do anything she wants to me and doesn't care what I say or feel" was what was distressing. I know the difference between sexual and emotional abuse. She enjoyed making me feel powerless and confused, this was just the only way it involved physical contact (the rest was verbal/emotional).

[Anonymous]

Yeah, unfortunately

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[Jenny4455]

I have been raped by a woman

[Anpu23]

Your statement is incorrect, according to modern studies men and women both rape and are raped at roughly the same percentage.

[1828avaava1828]

not in my experience. thanks for asking though

[prettydamselup]

I wudnt say adavantage but yes i was once overpowered

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

No but I WISH.

[Asker]

No you don't. Key word is "unwanted." If you wanted it to happen, that would not make it unwanted. Your mind on this would change instantly when a tequila-drunk heavy smoker twice your age grabs you off guard and starts making out with you, with tongue, all in front of all your coworkers at the company holiday bar crawl.

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

YEAH I DO!!!

[Asker]

Ok then, be careful what you wish for...

[CT_CD]

A woman has sexually assaulted or raped me using physical force and/or restraint.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I think so. My guard was down because she was a woman, so I wasn't expecting it. It was actually my doctor