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I was wet my personal trainer noticed. I need your perspective?

So I sat on a workout machine and we didn’t even start the workout yet, I stood up and there was a VERY obvious wet stain a clear definition of my vagina and butt, I stared at him staring at my stain, I was extremely EXTREMELY embarrassed, it’s probably the most embarrassing thing I ever had to experience. Didn’t say anything and continued my workouts, he was very strange in our session and was very handsy his crotch kept pressing on my sides when I was using the machines and he decided to let me use the lying leg curl machine even though we were doing upper body workouts, he pressed his crotch on my side and pressed on my back as if that’s supposed to do something, then pressed on my legs and then he grazed his hand on my crotch literally my cootch dead centre!!!
So I personally think that staining like that is just nasty and extremely unhygienic for me and everyone else I should have had towel but I didn’t want to give it even more attention. I think that it was a turn on for him because of the shit that happened after... what do you guys think, or are these two thing not connected? I need someone else’s perspective.
i payed $787 for this month with that pt and I refuse to go back 😥 WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
What a waist.
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Update: I got a new personal trainer at a new gym, SHE is Amazing.
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  • When he saw you wet, be probably thought you were turned on by him. However, that does not give him the right to touch you in inappropriate ways. Also, it would have been a good idea to have stopped him from being so handsy, and pressing up against you. Of course, you were embarrassed, and caught in a situation where you probably didn't know what to do. That's understandable. Did you pay through a club? If so, you could tell the manager that you are not comfortable having this guy again, as he was too handsy and touch feely, and pressed himself against you, and even brushed your coochie. He should give you another person to work with, or give your money back. If he's an individual, not connected with the club, you may be out of luck.

  • What happened to you is the result of biology. We are all animals and we all have animal functions. We burp, fart, sweat, occasionally puke, etc. and being a refined and respectable young lady can't change that fact.

    Obviously, he noticed and was aroused by what he saw. It would be no different than you being exposed to a sudden gust of cold air and him seeing your nipples get hard. It's just another biological response.

    You didn't say how you felt about his sexual advances towards you.

    • The way you put it actually made me feel better. I was extremely overwhelmed by the situation and had to gather myself in the locker room. I did not give any attention to his sexual advances as I am 100% not interested and he knows that.

    • Then just ignore the fact that it ever happened and make sure that the trainer keeps his distance in the future.

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  • A tutor to customer relationship should be purely professional. You're there to work out and you ended up in that situation unintentionally. Given how he was acting, it shows he was disrespectful of boundaries and completely unprofessional. I don't blame you at all for leaving and i think it's unfair that you put in all that money just for him to forget his place and make you uncomfortable.

  • He is a personal trainer (aka player) you are one of many he grinds on probably.

  • Well this girl my friend is friends with got up the other day after she was texting her boyfriend and there was a huge wet spot where she was sitting I was like is that a oh WOW in my head

  • It's nothing that he hasn't seen before. If you were wet, then you were wet; it happens.

  • Tell him... complain to management if it persists

  • I'd ask for my money back and/or if not SUE! All gyms should take sexual harassment extremely seriously. Not even because the MeToo movement is going on but because they could lose major face as well as clients. You have a right to how you feel.

  • Go to another trainer what were you wet from sweating or were you excited wet?

    • It’s the “excited” wet but I wasn’t “excited”

    • That's odd. Anyway move on

  • Well...
    If i had a female trainer and had received a super obvious boner and she made it even more obvious that she saw...
    Yes. Embarrassing indeed.
    But I'd go back anyway because i'm getting fat.

    And it's "waste". Not "waist".

  • I mean if you gotta stain then flaunt it

  • Quite impulsive that pt. Other people would ask first or ignore it, rather ghan just act on whst you guess is best... for yourself... i would ask for your money back and if not, tell them whst happened and that you felt really uncomfortable and ate anxious to go there another time.

  • You should go there if you paid that much. Also he probably didn't think it's super awkward. Men find those things usually attractive.

  • go back be proud you pussy gets wet!

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