How do I deal with my boyfriend having a screenshot of a girl in a bikini?

[brya99]

So my boyfriend and his friend were getting high (from weed) and his friend had said he liked this girl that we go to college with. He said his phone was dead and so he asked my boyfriend to click on her VSCO link in her insta bio and they went through it together. Later on, I found a screenshot of her in a bikini (a picture quite far down in her feed) and questioned him. He told me his friend had asked him to send a picture from her VSCO, and of course my boyfriend picked to send the only bikini pic on her feed. When I went on her insta, my boyfriend had liked a lot of her posts. I found the photo in his camera roll 3 weeks after he had screenshotted it. I am not convinced of his story because he also has lied about something small before. A lot of my friends are telling me to end it, but I love him so much and he's never done anything before to make me think he is interested in other girls, nor does he even watch porn. I don't know what to do and I feel so stuck and anxious in this situation.

[GoodEnoughThen]

Guys like to "collect" things, like pics of random women. Then they forget about it and move on. I can tell you with confidence not to overthink this and just let it go. Try not to ask questions that will increase his chances of feeling like he has to lie to you. Sometimes people tell white lies cuz they don't really have an answer to their behavior. And he's a pretty young guy at 19.

[Wharvey98]

I can understand why you might be concerned, but this is just a picture. As long as there’s nothing else going on I’d say your fine. As for the lying bit, I don’t like lies. If it was a little thing I’d let it slide once or twice. But if they ever lied about anything important that’s it.

[AustinMan]

It's just pixels. Figure out why you feel so threatened by this. I feel like you're pretty insecure about all this.

[PrincessGrail]

It’s harmless

[TripleAce]

Its just a picture of a girl
So what. Calm down lol

You young girls are so panicky 😂
He will obviously be attracted to other girls

[the_face_of_god]

You're young. 19 barely qualifies you to have an opinion. I have no doubt you love him, but he is a young man interested in anything that walks. It's probably just curiosity. Don't worry about whether he likes other girls or not. Of course he does. Just focus on enjoying what you have.
If he cheats he cheats, and there is nothing you can do about it. You just have to trust him.

Shit. I wish I was 19 and stupid again.. lol

[Iron_Man]

Why do you involve yourself with the lion pothead smoker that likes other women on the side

[Iron_Man]

Disregard the word lion I mean Liar voice command error

[Anonymous]

Guys are visual and this "means" nothing (to him), especially where you're concerned (your relationship). Girls "deal with it" by not taking it personally, because it's not. However, having said that, if it bothers you, you should tell him and if he has any respect for your feelings, he'll stop. But it's nothing to worry or stress about.

[Anonymous]

Use a strapon on him and tell him to delete that bitches photo

[Anonymous]

19 is too young to be in a relationship anyway?

have you even had sex with him yet?

[Anonymous]

Sorry to say he is beating it to that photo