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I never thought someone with a foot fetish would be that bad! What do you think?

Okay so first of all, I am personally not a fan of this fetish at all but when he mentioned that I appreacited him because he opened up about it. I did not wanna act narrow-minded and wanted to give him a chance to explain himself. Because you know, under many circumstances, it is considered to be a mild fetish but I `definetely` do not think it was normal in his case. Anyways, we literally started speaking to each other `properly` last night as we finally added each other on SC. He asked me if I have any fetishes and what I think about them. I mean maybe it would not bother me that much if that was not the second question he asked! He just did not ask me anything relevant, like what is my course at uni (we are going to same uni) and I did, or he did not ask where I was from, you know just some basic information when you are getting to know someone. I found it weird but I thought maybe he was trying to start a convo you know. He asked me if I had any intimacy with a guy before, etc. That made me very uncomfortable, honestly I would not mind him asking that to me if I was speaking to him for like a month or so. But we literally started speaking last night! Anyways, he brain washed me with his love on feet for 3 hours or so, not exaggerating... I tried my best to change the subject, because he seemed like a really nice guy at first but it was getting worse. For one last time, I said I was curious about his accent (he is a British and I am an international student) so we may have a facetime sesh sometime soon if he wants too and he said haha not yet. And I asked him the reason why he is not up for it and he said I am not sure if you understand my foot fetish. FOR THE GOD`S SAKE!

(Please read the rest of my story in update section, I did not have enough space for that lol x)
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I was so done with it and I said you are not allowing me to get to know you more though. Then he was like do you like foot kisses etc. I said I prefer neck kisses and he seemed pissed off when I said that lmao. After that I told him that I am not very used to fetishes but I try my best to respect him, and I cannot make any comments on foot kisses because I never got one before. He started ignoring me then lmao and this morning I blocked him. Do you think that this amount of fetish is normal tho?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not normal because he don't accepts you as a whole woman
    with needs. You're just additional tissue to sexy feet in his mind.
    He seems to be very fixated on your feet , some kind of objectification. If you demand that he takes care about other body parts his response is aggressive.

    Personally kissing woman's feet would show my submission and submissive men aren't sexy ( probably a cultural thing )

  • "Do you think that this amount of fetish is normal tho? "

    Fetishism is a mental disorder so by definition it can't be "normal".
    Of course, there are those who call the smallest of their preferences a "fetish" who muddle up the definitions of the term in colloquial use, as people often like to do, but this is how the actual fetishistic disorder looks like.

    • You are right, I do not know that much about fetishes so I did not think it might be an indication of a disorder. I made a quick search on Google and most people think that its very normal and common for men particularly to like women`s feet. That`s why I was confused but thanks for explaning me :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • You should know that if a guy only talks to you about sex/sex related stuff, and even if it’s not a only sex talk but a lot of it, then it’s a clear sign sex/sex talk is all he wants from you. Of course he disn’t ask questions to get to know you, he never had an intention to get to know you - all he wanted from you was sex/sex talk.

  • Fetishes are increasingly common and are important to the people who have them. I should know, I have my own. However guys especially but also some girls seem to think they an demand fulfilment of them from any girl they meet. It's worrying

  • I think you did right by blocking him, you don't force something you're not into into someone else

    • I think that too, thanks for the support! :) I am not upset but I was quite annoyed when I tried to be open about something that I was not a huge fan of but the feedback I got was horrible. That`s just selfish to me...

    • You're welcome

    • Thanks

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  • That sounds like a catfish to me. I bet it was some creepy Indian guy trying to solicite feet pics from you?
    Why would you even offer to FaceTime?
    That guy sounds extremely creepy

  • Most men with a foot fetish aren’t that bad. A lot of men have a foot fetish, it’s surprisingly common. Most can control it, others cannot, and sadly, having a foot fetish is now deemed weird due to the creeps thatve ruined it like this guy has

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  • I have foot fetish and i am really bad

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