Oh no... Im pregnant? At age 15?

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AHHHHH I'm freaking out!!! I think i'm pregnant!!! I'm only 15!!!
I am not ready for this, I don't want to be a teen mom!!
It was my first time having ya know... sex. And it was his first time as well... I don't think he put the condom on properly... and a little of his sperm may have escaped into me. We did this at school, so no one knows. Well, i'm not sure if these are symptoms or not, but I have noticed a lot of change in me after we had sex. It's been about 2 and almost 3 months after we had sex. And i've noticed that I haven't had my period. I mean my period cycle is really messy, so it could be normal for me to skip my period for a few months. But then I also sometimes feel like puking when eating, like as I swallow it feels like my body wants to puke it back up. I'm always tired and can't focus in class, my grades are going down. Anddd my boobss, they're superr tender and hurt. I've had depression, but it basically went away, and these past few weeks it's like depression started all over again. I'm not sure if this is certain i'm pregnant though. It may just be me freaking out that I will get pregnant as it was my first time having sex. Someone please tell me if i'm pregnant or not.
I have really strict parents... They don't know I have a boyfriend. I'm not allowed to go places, so I can't buy myself a pregnancy test. I want help, I can't have a child at this age...

sugarchateau · Accepted Answer

If you skipped your period for more than 2-3 months, that is not normal. You need to speak with your parents. They are financially responsible for you and your actions, they NEED to be involved in your decisions that you made because you clearly cannot even take care of your own healthy safety properly. This is involving the potential life of an actual human being, this issue is bigger than your pride and punishment. Go face the consequences, since you want to be an adult and do adult things- go take responsibility like an adult and go have that adult conversation. Welcome to the real world, it's not sweet.

ScholaryTeen · Accepted Answer

Do you have a trusted friend able to buy you a pregnancy test? You could take it at school.
Maybe ask the boyfriend to get it for you?

You need to act quickly, as if you were to decide to terminate the pregnancy you don't have much time before the cutoff.

If you are not willing to terminate the pregnancy, you should consider adoption. There are a lot of people who want to be parents but can't.

Assuming you are in the USA, you are also able to give the baby to any police station, fire department, or hospital, no questions asked.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Chances are, you aren't pregnant, and these symptoms are either a normal part of your irregular cycle or just in your head. But, even a small possibility of being pregnant means it's time to grow up and take some responsibility and that means talking to your parents (your mom at least), and getting a test. Until you know that you ARE pregnant, you can't decide the next step, but time works against you, so do it NOW.

Losalt · Answer

Hum... Talk with him about this perhaps? If your parents are strict then perhaps it's easier for him to get hold of a test?

ThinkerShell · Answer

As @Belan said... Go tell your mom

Belan · Answer

Okk... tell to your Mom.

ROCKS128 · Answer

Karma.😝👍

Thatsamazing · Answer

1) Gross 2) Nice trolling. Go away.

Swimmerdude2013 · Answer

Did you feel any of his cum go into you? It would feel really warm. Has your period been regular?

beckygehh · Answer

Steal a pregnancy test and take it

vald9inches · Answer

get a pregnancy test and then look at your options. hopefully your parents will be understanding and supportive

NovissimumVirorum · Answer

Abort

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Hmm you're not suppose to have sex at that age nor take sex for granted. Anyways there's still a chance you're not pregnant tho. "and a little of his sperm may have escaped into me" Cervical fluid is acidic so it kills like I think 90 percent of sperms. I don't think that little sperm in you can get you pregnant but take a pregnancy test if you want to make sure. You got yourself into this and I'm not concerned about you. How ever I'm concerned about your child if it gets born. I'm open to abortion but remember the side effects. It's your choice.