Why am I not able to masturbate?
I've tried fingering, clitoral stimulation, and an electric toothbrush (yes, it was sanitized and is only used for this purpose), but nothing ever works. I've even tried mutual masturbation with a few partners over voice chat and video chat so I can get turned on, but that doesn't work either. It just ends with the guy always finishing and me never being able to get beyond a certain point of pleasure. Plus, I feel like I always disappoint my partners because they insist "oh, I'll get you to orgasm" every time I tell them that it's not likely.
Is something wrong with me? What should I do? I feel like I've tried everything and something's just wrong with me or not working right. I'm beginning to worry that I'll never be able to orgasm or experience pleasure even during the first time I have sex. I can get mentally turned on and really in the mood, but whenever I try to act on it, I don't get any sort of payoff.
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