What are some of your dealbreakers when it comes down to sex?

What are some of your dealbreakers when it comes down to sex?

For example, cleanliness is an important one.
No one should be smelling like a dead walrus washed up on the shore in the middle of summer, right?

So people, what are some of yours?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Deal breakers:
    1. Bad hygiene and smell. You better be clean.

    2. Unprotected sex. If you've STD we better protect ourselves. If a pregnancy can happen, we should also protect ourselves. Condoms, pills... you knows.

    3. Piercings etc. down there. Short trimmed pubic hair is okay if it's not too much, but if you're a female I prefer you completely clean shaven. If you're male, a bit looks nice. Piercings are just ugly.

    4. Anal sex. It's just nasty.

    5. Being penetrated by someone regardless if it's a dildo or a real thing. I don't like something up there. Even not my own fingers.

    6. Face cumming. I don't want someone else's cum in my face.

    7. Going down on a guy. Especially if it's big. I'm okay if he goes down on me though. A girl going down on me or me doing it on her sounds more pleasant. I don't like having large things in my mouth. Even when I eats normal food like hamburgers or hot dogs I always take small bites.

    That's just the main rule. If he's not one of the average guy, but very special and way more likeable where we also connect emotionally; I may perhaps change my mind. I'm a virgin by the way.

    8. Having sex with someone when she's on her period. I don't want anyone to be on the period when having sex. It's just nasty. Not into blood. No vampire fetish!

    9. Sex tape. Sex is a private thing. No pictures or filming obviously.

    10. Unattractive people. I'm only going to do it with nice looking ones.

    11. Threesome. No multiple sex partners. It's only between two people when I'm going to do it.

    12. Bondage. I don't think BDSM or bondage sounds pleasant. A girl wearing a choker however sounds nice. Guys shouldn't wear one. Choker on a woman is a turn on, but on guys it's a turn off.

    13. Guy trying to dominate me. I prefer egalitarian sex. If we're going to try this thing I better dominate the guy. With a woman I'm more open being dominated.

  • Cleanliness and smelling good are important

    • Word.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Have Good hygeine
    No genital piercings
    No pubes
    No one night stands
    No calling me bxtch/slut
    No anal/pee/shxt
    No multiple sex partners
    No cumming on my face
    No sex toys (aside from handcuffs)
    No birth control and prob no condoms
    No hair pulling (bt grab hair/run finger thru)
    No edging
    No taking too long to cum. CUM ALREADY!
    Must be tested first
    Must share dominance (take turns)

    • Sign me up! 😄

    • @xTom98 signed and sealed ;-) :p

  • Really kinky, doesn’t discuss consent or boundaries beforehand, pressures me a lot to do things I don’t want to, and hygiene.

  • Cleanliness is important, no STDs
    No nonsexual bodily secretions
    Rough is good but no bdsm for me

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  • I would think cleanliness is the big thing. We can discuss if either of us has some major kink that won't fly with the other, though I'm pretty meat and potatoes.

  • Must have good hygiene, and I will not do threesomes, anything involving animals, public exhibitionism, golden showers, brown hail storms, or spanking, choking, biting.

  • Lack of hygiene, nothing with waste, blood or violence, no animals, etc

  • I dont mix food and sex. I just can't it's too nasty

  • Not being able to orgasm before ejaculation

  • No rough actual rough sex or choking, no anal.

  • Bad hygiene. Smoker. Small penis. Tiny hands.

    • Tiny hands?

    • That's me out with number 3 lol

  • If they have poor hygiene and an unhealthy diet as well as a closed or narrow mind

  • +1 for "dead walrus".
    Poor hygiene down below.
    Asking for anal intercourse.
    Wanting real physical abuse
    BDSM generally.
    Wanting group sex (3-somes)
    Exaggerated/fake yelping during sex.
    Anything scat.
    Giving or receiving analingus.

  • A woman who isn't nice, A smoker or alcohol drinker, Weed smoker, Drugs,
    A woman who has hair on her vagina, hairy legs or pits, A woman who cusses all the time, A woman who is a narcistist.

  • When one brags and tells their friends about their sex life
    i believe sex life's should be kept sacred between two couples.

    • Breath smells like cigarettes, bad breath,

    • Yeah that would be awful

    • Yeah i agree

  • Alcohol

  • Bad breath.

  • Animal abuse

    • Lol, What?

    • An ex of mine

    • Omg... I don't wanna know if its going in the direction I think you mean

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  • 1. Anything to do with oral or anal.
    2. Tattoos and body piercings.
    3. Anything that even remotely resembles what is homosexual.
    4. A third party or anyone watching.
    5. Any camera, tape, or any such.
    6. The monthly period or any other degrading stuff.
    7. The pillow princess.
    8. Smoking, drinking, and the use of drugs.
    9. Thongs or any such.
    10. If I have not first married the girl I'm about to have sex with.

  • bad hygiene/smell, not shaving down there, and overly obese

    • Liar, I'm all these things and you still love me. 😆

    • @Apple1996 if that is true
      What are some of your dealbreakers when it comes down to sex?

    • Ok ok I'm not overly obese. Just got a hairy coochie and probably smell strange like chemicals from my hair dye

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  • "choke me daddy."
    *Zooooom

    • Lmao

  • Hygiene is huge, and that's just common sense. If they don't wash, chances are they aren't healthy either. For me, the others is effort, enthusiasm, and a willingness to want to please and be pleased. And I know a lot of women say they get off on how much pleasure they give there man! But I think it's sexier when a woman wants to use her man for her own pleasure! Meaning, she isn't worried about making sure he is pleased per say! Fuck cause you really want to be fucked, not because it's something he wants.

  • Tattoos, smokers, drug users, non Christian, has young kids, must be divorced, must be single, never done porn , doesn't curse like a sailor, doesn't drink. Must want to get married. That probably eliminates 90% of the women out there.

  • anal, bondage and pissing/pooping on each other

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