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What do you think about marrying a woman who had over a 100 sex partners?

Since I was about 14 up until today, I have stayed with the same 3 best friends. We were all in the same class, we all went to college together and did pretty much everything together. We also did a lot of modelling jobs. I was alway the chubby one. Not fat, but for instance with the modelling, I always had bathing suit shoots that looked good on less skinny women. You get the picture. You can imagine, if we went out, a lot of good looking guys approached us, but they always started to hit on my friends first, but after noticing they were hard to get, they started hitting on me, mostly ending with a quick drunk pump and dump. So yes, I have always been the slut of our group and I never felt ashamed. I thought it was just funny and so did my friends. You can also imagine, this way of living for 10 years of being single, racked me up a sex partner count of about 150. And I didn't even try to count the guys I've just blown.

The last few years I have been engaged to the first guy I actually tried settling down with. He was the first guy who dated me and put effort into me for months before we went to a next level. So I'm really glad I suddenly found someone whit whom it worked out like this. The attitude of other men toward us is getting annoying though. For some reason guys seem to look down on my fiancé and joke about us because other men fucked me before him, and the number of men seems to matter? I just don't get that since almost every woman has more than 1 sex partner. Now I feel like I should almost be ashamed of what I did. Especially the guys who I had something with are so often taunting my fiancé in one way or another. I feel like my fiancé accomplished a lot more for being able to kind of tame me, while these guys laugh at him cause he put effort into me while they got some lip service on the toilet and din't have to do anything for it. That's just a ridiculous way of thinking to me. And why is my partner count so important? What do guys think about this?
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  • *Extremely* unattractive.

    Unless he has a comparable sexual history then I'd probably see as pretty pathetic and gross. I'm sure there's people out there who are outside the norm who can tolerate things like this -- there's people who get sexual gratification from eating excrement, so there's always going to be a subset of people that are into just about anything you can think of. Maybe he's a cuck or has an extensive sexual history, whatever. It seems like this guy just doesn't care and if that's true then... good for him I suppose?

    For the rest of us, the number of dicks you've had inside you is a common concern and it's hard to get away from that imagery when kissing or having sex. I don't want to think about grinding dicks with countless other dudes who have been in your vagina or tonguing with a mouth that has lapped up a bunch of guys cum.

    Now if I actually had a fling with a girl and then I'm actually spending time around her and her partner then yes, I feel very much superior to him. I don't think I would give him shit about it since I don't really want to be mean, but there is a satisfaction that comes from having "been there, done that" and then it seems quite loser-ish to invest such a girl.

    I would assume he has some peculiarity about him that makes him compatible here -- such as being a cuck -- or he feels like he can't really hold out for better and this is just better than the alternative of being alone.

    Although I'd be inclined not to be mean, their might still be some jokes flying around especially if she was open about it and just talks about it casually, I feel like he would be having it inadvertently rubbed in his face.

    I wouldn't want to be around anyone my partner had been with.
    Nor would I be with someone with such a body count.
    Put those together and that's a hard no from me.

    • Thanks for your long answer. Although I think differently, I appreciate the way you explain your opinion and don't just think I'm a slut or a whore. You do know that just because I lapped up a lot of different guys' cum loads, you can't actually taste it when you tongue my mouth, right? I brush my teeth lol, and that's years ago. I do kinda understand I guess that you feel superior to a guy who invests in a girl that you just kinda, well, blasted your load in and never called again. Cause that's how it kinda goes. Honestly, when one of those guys is around us, I admit that I think back about his dick, and yes I feel naughty and get hot and bothered by the fact that my fiancé is next to me then. That's human nature. But like you said: why bother bringing it up or giving anyone shit about it? It doesn't matter!

    • "You do know that just because I lapped up a lot of different guys' cum loads, you can't actually taste it when you tongue my mouth, right?" Yes. It's not the taste nor any real presence of semen. It's the thought that counts. "why bother bringing it up or giving anyone shit about it? It doesn't matter!" I wouldn't say that it doesn't matter exactly. I just don't want to be mean. You said you can get hot and bothered by being around these guys and your fiance. To me that sounds like something noteworthy that very much matters. But all I can do is take his word for it that he's okay with all that, but I'd probably always have some doubts tbh.

  • For me. pasy sex history doesn't matter, but a woman who is ready to serve her pussy to such a number of men is no less than a slut to me.

    You say every woman have more than 1 sex partner, so first correct yourself, there are so many girls who have not let anyone else than their husband to have sex with. Plus having some sex partner in that fucking pleasing years where flesh means the most to some is understood, but with hundred s of dicks blown by you shows how much you have respect for yourself. You too have said that when guys find your friends hard to bang, they bang you easily.

    And those who said your past doesn't matter, are either joking, trying to show themselves overly open and broad minded , but in my opinion you are no more than a person who has no respect for the most beautiful creation called a female body.

    • I don't get it. Why do I not respect myself if I served my pussy to hundreds of guys? Why does it matter if those guys fucked me easily? I don't get how you think.

    • If after such a long explanation you didn't get it, then don't try to puzzle your mind. Before too you have used your body more than mind, so continue doing so. think highly of yourself and take pride. Just hope that your current partners dick will be your last and you won't complete double century. Else spread your legs and serve your body like there is no tomorrow.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If I found out a guy was inside 100 pussies, I would not even reply back to his text, let alone want to date him. You are better off finding someone who shares your values and also has messed around with many women. You will have a hard time finding a man with good morals and values now.

    • euhm... I already found one and we're gonna marry. So why would I have a hard time looking for what exactly?

    • It may be fine now but maybe at a later point he may be unhappy with your past. Once the honeymoon phase is over. But who knows, you may have gotten lucky and found a right fit. I just know not many people who sleep around end up with someone who is fine with having opposite sexual values as their partner

  • Congratulations on finding such a man. It is not often that a man could look over such a past, such as yours.
    It's one thing for a guy to say he doesn't mind his woman's past, it's another to actually do it. Treasure and treat him well.

    • Thanks! I will!

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  • I think my answer is going to be a ,"it depends". mostly on if she had safe sex with all theses men, and her motive for having sex with them. Is she having sex with somany just for the passion and sexual pleasure that comes with the action or is she just a romantic hopeful, who just happens to be, easily swayed to have sex or at least give a quick bj to thoses she think my be the one. If she just likes to fuck and has no incurable stds, then sure why not. But i will amit, that the possibility she may cheat on me, just for a little more sexual fun will most likely be in the back of my mind, for the first 5 to 10 years of the marriage or till i spend enough time to be sure she won't. But, if it's that she's just easily swayed, than i my have to pass on the marriage, but would probably be willing to have a friends with benefits relationship with her, if she's willing,

  • When it comes to sexual history, don't ask, don't tell.

  • That would be tough 2 marry a woman. Who had over a 100 sexual partners. I had rather just live together. Reason being marriage is suppose 2 be special. You and your partner take the vows. One of them is 2 love, honor, cherish. Along with being faithful. If u live together then you don't have 2 except as much from the other person. 2 me marriage is a higher stander of living. Meaning you are suppose 2 work harder 2 do the right thing.

  • If another man wants to then I don't care. But I wouldn't want to. That's just because I wouldn't be able to stop thinking about how many other men have been inside my woman. Sex wouldn't feel special to me. If it was a few then I could overlook it. But 150 is a bit much for my liking... 👌

  • Once a hoe always a hoe, I don't believe that he would be able to tame you.

  • Not to be rude but it says much about how tut value your body

    • Why does the body have value? She is not being forced to do it. She didn’t lose anything doing it. Its like saying your hand loses value when you shake someone’s hand or when you hug them. At the end of the day we are all adults and people loving each other

    • I no it doesn't matter, but to share bed with so many people that way, seems like her body isn't even valued by her. Her emotions and conscience doesn't even work anymore.

  • Nope. She would be delegated to the sex only category and would never be taken seriously if it were me.

  • More than 3 is too many

  • I think it's a turn on, so yeah. I would marry her. And I would be fine if she fucked another hundred.

  • I think it's hot. I prefer slutty women. I even dated an active prostitute and loved knowing she was fucking lots of other guys. In fact, I would prefer my wife have sex with any man she likes, without needing to hide it

  • Do you really have to put you husband in those situations? Did you sleep with everyone or did you limit it to one per group of friends?

  • Not for me but I’ve never been with a girl so it’s not something I’d do

  • i dont think much of it

    • we are all human beings at the end of the day. i dont count the number of people i shook hands with or hugged i look at sex pretty much the same way. there is nothing wrong with loving sex or being with other people

    • Thanks! I fell better reading this.

    • Np beautiful just being honest! ❤️

  • Not a chance in hell.

  • No body talks about history of sex

  • i don't understand this question : if i am to marry you, it means i love you. As such i don't care how many partners came before me if i love you, your sexual past shouldn't fucking matter in the slightest

    • Exactly! I just want to know what different guys think about this. Because the attitude that I mentioned above is really annoying and I feel like it starts weighing on my fiancé.

  • no issues, amazing experience.

  • Hoe. I would never marry such a woman or put my dick in that disease riddled pussy.

    • I don't have a disease riddled pussy. And for your interest, with a face and an attitude like that, even an actual hoe would make you pay extra. Bye now!

  • Yeah, I'm not buying this at all. I don't believe for a second that a woman sleeps with 150 guys and then gets caught off guard when she is judged for it. This story doesn't add up on multiple levels. Good luck with your agenda.

  • Hoe.

    • coward

    • @FrenchyRomain white knight

    • You are being rude for no reason and you are hiding under anon so yes you are an asshole and a coward

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