Threesome with his friend, now he’s mad. It was his idea. What do I do now?

[Anonymous]

I used to have a crush on my bfs best friend before we started dating. He’s the hot charming type of guy which is my type. Then I fell in love with my boyfriend. It’s been six months since we started dating. I’ve been nothing but friendly to his best friend since our relationship started. I’m still attracted to him but I don’t like him. My boyfriend was saying that he had on his bucket list having a threesome involving another guy. He asked me to do it with him. I didn’t want to at first. I was really not into that. He asked if his best friend was the other guy would i want to. I said yes. It took some time but his best friend came around. When we had the threesome my boyfriend wanted his friend to fuck me but not him. His friend said he was straight and wouldn’t have wanted to have sex with him anyway. After I had missionary sex with my boyfriend his best friend ate me out. After that he fucked me doggystyle while I sucked my boyfriend off. I came a few times and it was the best dick I ever had, even better than my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend so much so it meant nothing. While his friend was fucking me it started feeling so good that focusing on sucking him off was hard for me. My boyfriend told me that it was okay. He watched his best friend fuck me for a while as he master aged. He was pulling my hair and stopping to make out with me at times. When I start riding his friend and announce that I’m cumming my boyfriend tells his best friend to get the fuck out. He asks me why I’m being such a slut once the other guy left. Since then he’s barely talked to his best friend and doesn’t want us to see each other even when he’s there. Now he only wants to have sex with me in doggystyle or riding him and sometimes I want I do other things. I just don’t know what to do. Did I do something wrong in our threesome? Is this my fault?

[Love2Jackit]

No it's not ur fault. What the problem is ur boyfriend seen how much u enjoyed having sex with his friend. He got jealous as hell. Reason being he's not been able 2 make u the orgasmic fun u desire. Best I can tell you. It's time 2 ended and go out with the one. Who gave u the orgasmic fun u desire. Reason I say that and know it. Cause once u taste the orgasmic fun u desire. U will never look at ur boyfriend the same. The problem isn't u it's him. By him pushing 2 do something u didn't want 2 do. Then it's not ur fault u enjoy it. If he was the better guy. Then he would love u no matter what happen. Instead all he wants 2 do is throw up in ur face. Just ask ur self what the future would hold with him in ur life. Next will be rage and jealous.

[OlderAndWiser]

Most people really aren't capable of adding a third person to an existing relationship without someone developing some jealousy. What you did wrong was giving and agreeing to it and, yes, I know that it is what he requested. Your boyfriend is much more at fault here.

This relationship probably won't survive. Learn a lesson and then move on.

[Anonymous]

You didn't do anything wrong, this is just something that happens in threesomes. One of the guys is bound to be a better fuck, and than can be a problem for the other guy. I think it's good to talk a lot before having the threesome. Ask your boyfriend what will happen if the other guy has a bigger cock or is better at using it. He might be OK with that, or he might call the whole thing off.

[Anonymous]

He should’ve known better inviting his friend that he knew you used to like to fuck you but it sounds like he’s jealous.

[Mark_C]

It's not your fault. It sounds like something just got to him and is now bothering him. But no, you didn't do anything wrong.

[Junior42]

You didn't do anything wrong he just got jealous he felt like you weren't giving him enough attention that's all that happened

[strawberryjammer]

You didn't do anything wrong.

This is something I've been discussing with my girlfriend, about any potential threesomes.
The other guy may have a bigger dick, be younger, in better shape, more handsome and maybe can fuck my girlfriend just like she's always wanted to be fucked.
I'm OK with this, because we use toys that are bigger than me. I like to see her get off.
I know there are other more attractive guys out there, there always are... but she would never leave me for them. We have a bond way beyond just sex.

I told her your story just now. Her eyes got big and she flushed a little when I told her about your crush on the best friend and then how it happened that you were all together and you had felt so great with him fucking you.

She then said "SEE this is why I don't want to, what if you get jealous... and when we invite my friend, what if she's hotter than me?"

I reminded her, that it was just sex, and I was with her, had the bond with her. I wouldn't leave her just for sex w someone else. And especially moreso if we can include other people from time to time.

[Mowaseemkhan]

Ohh no so sorry dear. don't worry

[Sabretooth]

this is why you don't have threesomes.

[masterkamasutra]

just kick the boyfriend out, he is coward, its his plan and now feel like failed.

[Anonymous]

You went from a threesome to just fucking the other guy and ignoring him, dumbass. What did you expect?

[Anonymous]

threesomes are immoral, and should be ILLEGAL

[Anonymous]

It sounds l

[Opinion Owner]

like you didn't pay enough attention to your boyfriend. Maybe next time you should let them both take turns fucking you, instead of sucking cock at the same time. Girls love threesomes with two guys, but they're not good at dividing up their attention.

[Asker]

Thank you for explaining. I never thought about it like that. How can I make him stop being mad at us?

[Twalli]

You probably can't. He's being completely unreasonable.

[Opinion Owner]

I would just tell him what I just said. Tell him that in those type of situations, women have a hard time focusing on more than one thing. I've have had girls tell me that they can't orgasm while being in a 69, because of the focus thing. Tell him that you love that he wanted to offer you a threesome, but that you didn't think you were good at it. Tell him you're sorry for letting him down. He will let you off the hook.

[complicatedthoughts]

Not trying to be malicious but I believe id like an update with the results being he broke up with you. Sorry, no offense intended. Regardless of how good it was you didn't have to go ballistic while doing the other guy. What is wrong with you? I would break up with you because it would be in the back of my mind throughout the relationship and make it miserable for the both of us

[Anonymous]

I guess he made a mistake.
You liked fucking his friend more and now he feels jealous.
It just is what it is.
He shouldn't have asked you to do that.
Now, it seems like it's a mess.
It's not your fault that you liked his friends dick more.
I guess your boyfriend fucked up.

[Anonymous]

No, threesomes are not for everyone. I guess seeing you get pleasure bothered him. In most threesome with two men the women gets all the pleasure so I guess he could not handle it. But you did NOTHING wrong.

[Anonymous]

He is just jealous lmao

[jason222]

exactly lol! have u ever done this?