Most Helpful Guys

  • Doing anything the same way every time is going to be boring so it’s fun to mix it up.

    Female and male need for oral sex is not the same, and, beyond that, it also depends on the individual and her or his desires. Personally, I don’t get much about out of getting head. I’m appreciative, but it’s not the ultimate and it’s difficult to cum from it. So I like it as foreplay more than anything.

    My partner has an orgasm from just penetration maybe once in 50 times we have sex. Performing oral is one of a few ways she gets off reliably. I love doing it and doing it right, and I’m happy to make it the main event. The “take your time with me” lyric from your song comes to mind.

  • The line between foreplay and sex has always been very blurred to me. I have often thought about what I consider sex and what is foreplay, but to me, it seems that they are both sex.
    People often argue that sex starts a the moment that the genitals are touched, and some even say that there has to be penetration, but that just does not resonate with me.

    But kissing, licking, biting, giving a massage and having a playful fight are some actions that can be initial parts of sex (and also occur later on in the act).

    In my opinion, oral sex is sex, and so is fingering and hand jobs.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Actually, I don't like to think of any of it as foreplay. That's a particularly phalocentric way of seeing sex, as if only the act of coitus and the man's orgasm count as "the sex".

    It's ALL the sex. If I am with a man, I prefer to orgasm first so he can crash after his orgasm.

    Like many women, it is much more likely that I will orgasm from oral and digital stimulation than coitus.

  • Playing with my boobs, stroking him, kissing, making out, petting, then oral. But yes, oral for me is the main course of the appetizer lol

    • True that Oral is definitely required

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  • I never counted oral as foreplay. Its basically just another form of sex to me. I like making out, being fingered, cuddling, eating things off eachothers body and so on

  • Kissing, letting him play with and kiss/suck my breasts, touching each other

  • Kissing, touching each other, him caressing my body, especially my boobs.

    • Same!

  • Oral is foreplay yes, and its a mandatory thing :) lol

  • i like to believe that foreplay never stops

  • Touching things

  • Lots of diddling ana touching. I think of oral as a higher form is foreplay

  • what ever works for you both

  • Usually we go straight for oral. We don't always go for sex after oral though

  • I kiss her entire body except between her legs, then after a while i eat her out and leave her spasming on the floor.

    And after she recovers we have sex.

    • Why would you leave her on the floor? 😂😂😂😂😂

    • Lol, i gotta wait a couple minutes for her to stop spasming and recover a bit.

  • Nothing

  • Personally, I like to start down at your ankles, alternately licking either side while slowly moving up to your knees, the continue up your thighs, and finally arriving at your clit. You better be holding on to something.

  • I like to brush and braid her hair... to hold her in my arms and kiss her in a long sensual way

  • I like to start kissing the neck then work my way down

  • Making out while I finger her and she grabs me, and yeah I consider oral foreplay too

  • kissing, fingering, nipple sucking hj

  • I would go it all