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If a girlfriend lost her virginity to her co-worker just after a short separation of 6 days with her ex even though she made her ex wait for 2.5yrs then?

So here the girlfriend is in relationship with her boyfriend who is a very good person according to her and both she and her boyfriend was a virgin and she made him (bf) waith for the past 3 years for sex, which the boyfriend has been accepting happily but after 2.5 years he could'nt feel comfortable with her as she has made him for 3 long years and so he decided to separate with her as being frustrated but he also said that he still loves her but he thinks they are not compatible so he wants to separate for for time and see where he can go from here on and finally they got separated. Now only after 2 days this girlfriend had sex with her co-worker who according to her made her feel better after the she got hurt by the separation with her boyfriend and as virginity n sex was the reason why her ex separated from her for making him waith and thus slept with the co-worker and gave him (co-worker) her virginity in a public park in his car. But the came when the boyfriend calked him that night for a patch up and he said he is ready to wait for sex till she ready and he will also lose his virginity with her only as he loves her very very much and requested her to accept him and again she felt very happy that her love of her life has returned and happily accepted him, but at the same time now she feels guilty that she lost her virginity to her co-worker that day itself even though she made her love of her life to wait for 3 years and finally confessed it to him that she needs to get tested to which tmher boyfriend said she does'nt need to as he knows she is clean and he too has not even kissed anyone till now so she does'nt need to worry about STD's but then she tells him that she actually slept with her co-worker on the 2nd day of their separation as she was depressed and hurt for the separation and the co-worker made her feel better.
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After hearing this the bf's heart broke up into pieces and he felt very emasculated that she made him wait for 3 longs years n he did wait without complaining or pressuring her but she on slept with this co-worker just in 2days of their separation
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n Now he feels like he is now worthy nor is attractive in her eyes as she made him wait for 3 years but let her co-worker have sex with her on just 2-days and he did'nt have to wait for a week even to get laid with her. So is hejustified to feel like
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  • This guy should treat this woman as a arch enemy. He should do his absolute best to never think of her again, to practice teaching himself and his mind to immediately think of something else anytime the thought of her pops into his head, he should move on and date lots of girls meet other women and find another girl.

    He should never talk to her again and he should despise and look at her as a tramp now. She slept with a guy after 2 days, he should slap himself in the face and cuss himself out if he EVER even entertains the thought of getting back together with her or even thinks about calling her.

    There are 3.5. BILLION women on this planet. Knowing this one has made him miserable. You can do better than that. Tons of ladies would make him feel loved and feel desirable and good about himself and he'd be willing to do anything for them. Grieve and then move on. Find a better partner. This girl sounds awful.

    Move on, don't give this girl the honor of even thinking about her. Let her memory die. She isn't worth it.

    • But will some people call him loser and insecired if he leavrs her for this issue, as many may she she does'nt owe him anything and she is allowed to lose her virginty to whomever she wants. And also some may say she did it during their separation so she is not guilty for it. Is it true

    • None of this negates how he should feel about her and move on. She should be dead to him and he should despise her. Don't try and make me agree with anyone sleeping with someone 2-days after a break up.

    • Yes I agree with it. So, there is no way for the girlfriend to resolve this?

  • It seems clear to me that the only reason that she had sex with her coworker was out of spite, she felt terrible that you would leave her after 2 years because of sex and she wanted to make you feel just as terrible as she did. It seems like she did just that. With that being said i think you have a right to be mad and should take some time to really think about yourself and your values and what’s important to you. With that being said you two were broken up at the time that she had sex with her coworker so technically she did nothing wrong, if you love this girl i would consider this a learning experience, if you decide that this is to much for your relationship to recovery from i would also take this as a lesson and start fresh with another girl.

    • Yes its sound justified and its her life she can do whatever she does with it n she does'nt owe her virginity or sex to anyone. But considering the emotions of the boyfriend after this relavations , is he not right to feel like he is not attractive in her eyes and is a loser as he was not able to impress or win her heart in 3 long years which this co-worker did it in only mere 3 days. Will she repeat it again in future?

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  • He might had a part in triggering her foolish behavior when he left her, but she still acted like a slut, for given herself so easily to some random guy.

  • Humans don't always think logically

  • well that would be a girl i'd get out of my life asap. like not even hesitating for a second, cause i can't waste my time on people like that and i already wasted more than enough with her at that point.

  • This reminds of a similar experience, under a very different context. My advice, cut any form of communication with her, not before telling her all she needs to hear.

  • Only a super dumbass waits.

  • He is justified to feel hurt.

  • He's lucky to find out now he wasted years waiting for a girl who really just isn't very sexually into him. He might have married her first.

    He should move on, and work on himself.

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