I've still never been on a date and it's only getting more frustrating for me because no matter how much effort I put in to make myself better, I make no progress with women. I've had 14 girls say yes, but not a single one showed up. I've struggled with severe clinical depression. I've tried literally everything besides dating (because I can't have success there) to help it, but nothing has helped at all. I've hired two escorts in the past, I saw one twice and the other once. I saw the first one right around the start to my depression which was a year ago and it's only gotten much stronger due to my constant failure, but I did enjoy my time with her, however, I had to stop seeing her as she has taken a different route in life. I saw the second one to ease sexual frustration as my anger issues and psychopathic behavior I've suffered from a few years ago began to appear again and I feared that I'd take out my frustration on someone, so I thought it would fix the problem, which it did despite very mediocre service from her. I've tried every single online dating site you can think of for years and got literally nothing, I even boosted on Tinder and upgraded Bumble, but only one person left a like despite tons of views, and I wasn't into that person. My depression is getting worse and worse and I don't think I have a chance with women at all, should I hire another escort?
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dantetheexplorerEditor
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Why not? As long as you view hiring an escort as a purely transactional relationship. It's YOUR money - you are free to spend it however you wish.
However, hiring an escort will NOT solve your issues with finding a woman for a life-long relationship, if the latter is your aim.
As long as you know where the line is drawn, how you spend your money is your business.
"Should" doesn't come into the picture.
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Drumlin2001Guru
+1 y
An escort may differ some things another few months, but it'll be back. Are you seeing a counsellor? Have you discussed all this with them? What do they say?
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Asker
+1 y
I'm not seeing one anymore because they didn't help and the insurance won't cover them
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morimeme1Explorer
+1 y
You can but you yourself know that it is only a temporary relief, dating really isn't something that cures depression either. Do you get therapy? Do you excercise? Do you have any hobbies to which you can distract you attention? Those are all vital in getting better, other people or an escort won't.
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Asker
+1 y
Yes, but they don't help at all
morimeme1
+1 y
Are you letting them help? If you keep youself in a hopeless mindset nothing will help, change starts on the inside.
Asker
+1 y
Anything you can think of aside from a relationship, I guarantee I've tried it vigorously
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morimeme1
+1 y
Keto dieting? People have reported it helping
Asker
+1 y
Ketogenic diet, and it made me lose weight, but that's all it did.
mistixsInfluencer
+1 y
No because you don't know if they've been trafficked/forced into the industry. I would suggest focusing on working and making money.
Yes hire another escorts. The beauty of an escorts is no strings attach. Best of all they always try 2 please u. In all honesty u come out cheaper by hiring an escort. A regular will cost u a lot more in the long run. Worst of all u might not even get laid.
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FunkyFoxXper 5
+1 y
Absolutely not. It won't help your depression.
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DarkAngekXper 5
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I am in the same boat as you, at 23 dealing with severe social anxiety and I am very ugly. I never had aaaany sexual expierience but still... I would not go with an escort. Maybe I like the tag of the "looser", dunno...
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blondfrogMaster
+1 y
Good luck even finding one. It's not like they just come out and tell you if they are cause they dont wanna go to jai lol.
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Asker
+1 y
Lmao, I can tell you've never heard of escort sites. All you have to do is search "escorts in (city where you are)" and you're in.
blondfrog
+1 y
Lots of those are fake buddy.
Asker
+1 y
So just skip the ones that are fake, undercover cops are nothing more than stupid snitches, only naive people fall for them. But I'm not naive like that, if they're talking explicitly or asking for payment in advance, I know they're not legit.
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blondfrog
+1 y
IT's too hard to tells the real one from fake ones.
WhoDatGuyYoda
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Read how to be a 3% man. You need the help
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Anonymous
+1 y
I say go for it man
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Anonymous
+1 y
I'd be careful about escorts, sometime the police will set up "ads" on websites, trick you into buying an escort, and lure you in.
I'm just trying to warn you to make sure you're careful if you're going to get one.
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Anonymous
+1 y
Lower your standards or if possible improve yourself.
Sure you can hire a prostitute, but wouldn't you rather a loving relationship with someone physically less attractive but who would actually care for you?
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Asker
+1 y
I've done both and neither have helped anything, and I think we both know the answer to that question.
Opinion Owner
+1 y
Well if you did so sufficiently, you could get a girlfriend. Either make yourself fit and confident, or date a fatty. What can I say. It's how life is.
Anonymous
+1 y
The only problem is if you don't live in a big city it's going to be hard to find anyone of quality without getting severely ripped off as well.
If you do live in a city will lot of this going on it actually becomes cheaper than trying to date women and you get to be with very attractive women usually Koreans or Chinese
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