Did you (or did you not) wait until marriage to have sex, & are you sexually satisfied or not?

[mistixs]

Also please answer: You're in love with someone to the point you'd be willing to marry them. What are the chances you'll be able to work out a satisfying sex life?

[Anonymous]

I discussed this with my dad of all people and he urged me to leave that crap with marriage and "the right guy" etc.
He said it would be better to have experiences before settling down to 1 person. This way I'd know what to look for and there wouldn't be anything another man could give me that I hadn't known before.
And he was right.
The first time I had sex it was a disappointment. I enjoyed it later and when I had more experience. Learned to tell apart what I like and what I don't. And each guy I've been with had something else to give... I had my one night stands - without cheating on anyone. I had sex with with more then 1 guy at the same time. I nearly ended up having sex in public. Those are experiences not everyone would be up to. But I had them, and I am glad I did.
So when I settle down, my sexual curiosities will be fed.

[24brownish]

I had totally different views.. like if u have multiple partners in life.. it gets more unrealistic to be satisfied and settle on one

[Lliam]

@24brownish , Not true at all. Where did you get that notion?

[ThinkerShell]

Are you married now? Or still single? It might be one of the most important parts of this matter cos some of the things will change after marriage

[Opinion Owner]

@ThinkerShell Such as?

[Luluu1024]

I am not married nor planning to marry anytime soon, but I did not wait. While it wasn't great ( broke up shortly after my first time so didn't really get a chance to see it improve lol), I don't regret it and I would not have waited for marriage.
I just feel like some people are compatbile sexually and some are not and it's fine to "test" that before getting into a potentially life-long commitment. Sure, sex gets better by practice and communication, but there still needs to be a sexual chemistry and compatibility (preferences wise) there.

[lucas262]

I chose in my teens to wait till marriage, iv gotten LOT of crap from other guys for it but if you don't stand for something under fire you won't stand at all.

So while everyone got on the hook up culture train to heartbreakville i can Definetly see benefits from avoiding it,

I don't have to worry about pregnancy,
I don't spend time chasing women for sex which actually makes it harder to find people
No stds for me

And I believe somewhere out there is a girl that respects herself and me enough to wait.
I want gods blessing on my marriage and i want both of us to have that extra emotional security.

[AustinMan]

The odds depend entirely on the couple and the circumstances. I did not wait and I'm so glad I didn't. I discovered that I'm really pretty damn kinky and discovering that after might well have been a disaster.

Giving up your V card: Avoiding a lifetime of misery ↗

[katiesmuff]

I did not wait and I have pretty much always been sexually satisfied

[Iwant2kno]

I would like to wait until marriage, I think it will be much more satisfying exploring sex with someone you are emotionally connected with. Overall I am satisfied being a virgin and waiting to have sex until marriage.

(Btw, I didn’t find an options for me to vote on 🤔)

[sachinHunk]

I agree with you..

[sachinHunk]

It's great thing to have patience.

[Iwant2kno]

Yes it is! 😊

[sachinHunk]

I just admire you..

[sachinHunk]

Follow me if you agree .

[Iwant2kno]

Thank you!🙂

[sachinHunk]

Welcome anytime...

[ThinkerShell]

I waited until marriage and am so satisfied now Feeling the pleasure of having it for your one

[Lliam]

I think waiting for marriage to have sex is extremely naive.

[StingRayxoxo]

I didn't wait until marriage to have sex, & I'm very sexually satisfied.

[CrystalStarling]

Hell no. lol

[Secret6620]

I didn't wait. But I am sexually fulfilled 😇👍

[EmmaMary]

Absolutely not. You don't buy a new car without test driving it first.

[StaceyClark]

Waiting is a huge mistake.

[EmmaMary]

@StaceyClark Absolutely right it is.

[specops]

No its not but good luck guys

[EmmaMary]

@specops Having done the test driving, I chose to get married last years

[JoyISok3]

Half of those options are kind of irrelevant. I didn’t wait and I’m like whatever about it. It is what it is. I don’t think it’s a big deal...

[Shields0509]

Lost my v card in college and now well when we do fuck i love it but we just dont fuck enough anymore

[ThinkerShell]

What? How these things are even related?

[Shields0509]

@ThinkerShell it was 2 part question cuz i wasn't married when i first had sex and then when we do have sex im very satisfied with her but we just dont fuck as much as we use to

[StaceyClark]

I ain't waiting for shit. And besides, for ten bucks you can get a virginity certificate on the dark web.

[Grond21]

I totally disagree with not waiting, but I had no idea you can get a virginity certificate. That is hilarious! 😂😂

[StaceyClark]

@Grond21 You can also get a "born again virgin" certificate or T shirt, and I think the certificate is honored in most states. (check your local laws)

[Grond21]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 what does it even mean to be honored in most States?

[sachinHunk]

Really you get Virginity Certificate?

[StaceyClark]

@Grond21 It just mean the virginity certificate isn't valid in a few states. So if you live in those states you have to just remain celibate.

[StaceyClark]

@sachinHunk Yes, but you can opt for the T shirt instead if you want.

[Grond21]

I'm feeling trolled... 😂😂

[StaceyClark]

@Grond21 https://www. google. com/search? q=born+again+virgin+t-shirt&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjzm6SjiZTiAhUBqZ4KHVY0ASAQ_AUIDigB&biw=1300&bih=605#imgrc=8fQwQeo5GYQzCM:

[StaceyClark]

Sorry, I can't make links. I'll try again https://www. google. com/search? q=born+again+virgin+t-shirt&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjzm6SjiZTiAhUBqZ4KHVY0ASAQ_AUIDigB&biw=1300&bih=605#imgrc=8fQwQeo5GYQzCM:

[StaceyClark]

Nope. It won't work. You just have to Google born again virgin t shirts

[Grond21]

HAHAHAHA!!

[StaceyClark]

@Grond21 Find it?

[Grond21]

Your link didn't work, but I did find it. It's pretty ridiculous

[StaceyClark]

@Grond21 I told you the link wouldn't work. But if people believe it, who cares if it's ridiculous?

[Grond21]

People believe a lot of ridiculous things, and I still care

[humanearth]

I had sex before marriage and she opened the door to me about sexual fetishes. I never forget what she taught me.

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

I should have waited. Biggest mistake people can make is not waiting until marriage to have sex.

[Reach500]

In what way is it a huge mistake? I'm not disagreeing, just curious.

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

@Reach500 I didn't plan on marrying this girl. At the time I was just so obsessed about losing my virginity to be "cool" I basically used her for sex, eventually I did fall in love with her, but I think it would have been healthier if I would have fell in love with her first. It cheapened sex for us and led to us breaking up. I made a vow, to not use women for sex anymore, even if they want to use me for that purpose. I won't do it. Its just wrong and evil and destroys the soul.

[ThinkerShell]

You're a good person mate...

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

@ThinkerShell I appreciate it man

[elizamichale1]

well i get to have sex few times every night hehe but i am not married and neither do i have any plans hehe

[Exterminatore]

Did not and am satisfied.

[Grond21]

I am a virgin and I am waiting till marriage.

I also find the statistics around this very interesting. While most people think it makes logical sense to test drive someone before you get married to them, if you live together before marriage it increases your likelihood of divorce by over 50%. So clearly that's not always true.
Also, the most sexually satisfied people, based on polling results, were monogamous women who went to church. Make of that whatever you will

[Arielbubble]

Marriage is lovely but bloody hell it takes forever to find your forever person to start with lol! So fuck that shit, I'm gonna fuck whenever I feel like it lololol

[clampfan101]

I’m unmarried, but going to wait until I am.

[skittles2017]

My opinion is that you don't have to wait until marriage to have sex. Because sex is very important in a relationship and it can break people apart if it is not working.
Therefore you have to have sex with the person you love to see how it's working and what you like each other.

Let's have an example... you love BDSM and your partner is very very vanilla. What do you do?
1. End up cheating?
2. Break up your marriage?
3. Suffering in silence?

And that's just 1 example.
It can be millions of reasons to why some people won't connect sexually.

[motownplayer2000]

Didn't wait. But once two people get into a relationship and get comfortable. They begin to get lazy... and that's the complaint I hear from so many married couples

[lovedejj_xo]

I didn’t wait that would be torture for me if I’m being honest and I’ve been pretty sexually satisfied.