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Why do people see Strippers and Strip Club adversely?

Why do people see Strippers and Strip Club adversely when almost every single advert uses girls as main tool of marketing i mean everywhere we see we showcase girls but when the same girls become strippers to showcase themselves people enjoy them yet see them as some lower or negative objects.
All girls working in a strip club as strippers or hookers or both really put hard work in to it (its not as easy as it may seem) i know it personally coz i work in one.
We entertain guys and please them when they are worried, we come with no strings attached and hear their problems sometimes for quite a while but still people see such girls adversely eventhough they are sort of doing social work i would say.
Please choose and comment your opinions.
Every opinion positive or negative is respectable to me so please dont be rude if you dont like it and thanks for your valued opinions.
Why do people see Strippers and Strip Club adversely?
(A) I see stripping/lap dancing as fun and i don't care about anything else
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Why do people see Strippers and Strip Club adversely?
(B) I am not ok with seeing girls naked around people
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Why do people see Strippers and Strip Club adversely?
(C) I like semi nude dancing only
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Why do people see Strippers and Strip Club adversely?
(D) They charge money for showing their body thatswhy i dont like them
Vote D
Why do people see Strippers and Strip Club adversely?
(E) I am ok with strippers but not with hookers/whores/prostitutes
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Why do people see Strippers and Strip Club adversely?
(F) I dont like table dancing and close looks
Vote F
Why do people see Strippers and Strip Club adversely?
(G) Such girls are social workers i agree and i don't mind them
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  • I've been friends with strippers and I've heard a thousand stripper stories, so I'm pretty well aware of all of the various things that can go on, including "behind the scenes."

    Some of those stories were hilarious, but quite a few of them were pretty sad.

    Anyway, I've always seen strippers as pure entertainment. The mistake guys make is thinking that going to the strip club means a girl will get him off, or even worse, that he's going to end up taking home or even dating a stripper. Guys have spent fortunes only to get nowhere.

    If you just see it as a laugh and to see some pretty girls, and you aren't running up hundreds or thousands of dollars, then it's all good.

    • Wow i think you summed it up pretty nicely and yes you are right the confusions and misunderstandings start to create problems for club goers and yea otherwise its just loads of fun hehe and whats your take on hookers and whores lol those behind the scenes stuff hehe

    • But many at many strip clubs the girls will get you off . I have been offered sex from many strippers at clubs. It does happen.

    • @Texaskid1 yup you are right honey

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  • I love strippers... the world needs more hot naked girls... Is it so far of a stretch to think id like it when hot girls get naked, tell me how funny and cute i am and how big my dick feels...

    • lol you really are sooo cute i like you already

    • Why thank you... to bad you didn't work in sf... id go right now and tell you my problems all night ;)

    • hehe i am sure you would try to do something else than telling me problems lol

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  • If that is what she wants t do why is it a problem? It is only a problem if she is forced to.

    • I agree completely and i am also not in favour of anything forceful whatsoever

  • Pretty much D

    • so if they were doing it for free or maybe at some fundraiser or something would you be ok then?

    • I guess.

    • alright then it means money going in their pockets is the issue but if i may ask that if you are ok with them showing their bodies for a fundraiser then why not for themselves i mean as a profession coz they are skilled at it and have to get money too, isn't it?

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  • If the people working as a stripper want to do it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. I consider them as working for the entertainment industry, and have a lot of respect for them.

    • yeah thats how it should be i guess and how about those strippers who do more than stripping

    • If they want to sell sex, no problem with that. I wouldn't be the first to pay for sex, but as long as both consent to it, it is okay.

    • hehe alright thanks for the opinion honey

  • It's simple, I believe our bodies are special & sacred. Sexual things are meant between 2 people who love each other. When men go to strip clubs to see naked women, they are not respecting the female body and objectify women. The women who freely choose to share their special body with random men who don't love them, care for them and only view them as sexual objects, is also part of the problem for me. Strip clubs make a mockery of something that should be special. My body is sacred and I only want to share it with someone who truly values me for who I am as a person, not just for my tits and ass. Plus you are literally okay with men paying money to see your body. I think this is cheap and just shows that the person has no respect for their body.

    • Well i understand what you are saying darling but what if someone sees sexual activities separate from their relationships etc and who are open to share their bodies with others maybe coz they are confidant about it or don't mind showing as its just natural and care or love only comes when you are in a relationship with someone and if others pay to see your body i think it is complementary too that you have a body which people are ok to see and pay for coz not everyone can earn money just by showing their bodies... isn't it? I love my body and i do have so much respect for it and for myself and i think if nature has given me something to show off and have given me skills for it then why not and i have so much respect for any of relation in my life, i just keep and think that sex is something separate from our relationships

    • I am very much confident in my body. So confident that I don't need to flaunt it to men who don't even love me or care for me. I want my body to be viewed by my a man who thinks it is special. Sexual activities for me belongs with someone who loves me. Not a man who sees me as a piece of meat and a quick shag. I think it cheapens what love is, and how special sex and intimacy is. I could never be happy knowing I am sharing my body with a man who literally sees me as a sex object. I don't believe you can have self respect for your body but literally be okay with having your body viewed as a sex object by men who think sex and the female body is cheap.

    • i totally respect that honey But letterally trust me i dont ever feel like that i lost my self respect or something You are confidant and think you dont need to show it to others to be admired etc i am sure but i and many other girls just have a different perspective that i am not shy and confidant that i can show my body to others and i feel happy that i have such body which stimulates others and again i dont mind sex and being sexual coz i just keep love and sex apart and i never expect those men to care or love me but you will be surprised to know that many really do love my body and want to see it and play with it again and again and they are not like those who think girls are just sexual objects or they are cheap, they are decent people and just admire what they like and honey all men dont see girls as cheap or sexual objects i get a lot of females too who ask to see me and play with me etc to me if i can give some joy and pleasure to someone in whichever way it is something good not bad

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  • "Strippers" are sexual social workers who provide a well needed service.

    • Yup absolutely right And also they are brave enough and confident enough to provide these services

  • I’ve known some strippers at decent joints who were super cool and entrepreneurs/entertainers but then heard guys tell stories of general degeneracy and rampant prostitution where any guy could get laid while being a total dirtbag loser tool - almost like that environment rewarded social ineptitude in the worst way.

    So I think the kind of places open in the area matter - like people’s opinion on buffets.

    • The idea that men are encouraged to buy ego boosts, and sexual validation instead of having to earn it by social and physical improvement seems fake and belligerent.

    • I agree with you on that but also i would say that those sort of places attract the same kind of crowd tbh And thank goodness where i work is a top notch and one of the best in town and we usually dont get that kind of clients tbh

    • Well yea in a way you are right But honey sometimes such people get to change themselves, i have known a few tbh

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  • I guess my only problem with strippers is that they are not available for sex. I know that sounds a bit piggish, but I'm just saying if I was trying to get laid, the very last place I would go is a strip club. And I'm usually trying to get laid..

    • Lol many of them are always available for sex too (behind the scenes stuff lol) I myself get engaged in sex quite more than stripping or lap dancing lol

    • Oh? Just random hookups with random guys? It seems like if there is any "sexual availability" going on, strippers are allowed to be extremely picky. And I couldn't begin to guess their criteria..

    • Well yea they are picky thats true Well just approach them and see if they are interested lol

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  • I actually was friend with a stripper she was really nice. Most strippers I meet been nice I think maybe 5 was jerks. I got no problem with strippers

    • Great then What about hookers and whores

    • I only know like 1 hooker she nice. The only issue I have with them is that the sex is boring with them LOL

    • Boring? How? Nobody ever complained about me that i was boring and instead i always got very good compliments like i was the best etc

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  • Most of my interactions with strippers haven’t left me feeling good. They don’t seem authentic and they have lied a few times.

    • oh i am sorry to know that and yea you are right there are some who would lie and would try to manipulate and benefit from you but there are many who are not like that and who are just genuinely in love with what they do and are sincere with it... i personally have never ever done something like that

    • No worries, I understand everyone is unique and in any industry there will be good and bad apples. Just answering honestly and maybe the next time I go it will be different. That makes sense that some enjoy the job and seems like a fun environment to work in as you get to be creative and feel like you help people.

    • Yea you are absolutely right darling and i really really hope that it works out better for you next time and thanks for the opinion

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  • i respect strippers

    • 😘😘😘💃

  • E. With no physical contact (except to the garter), it is only incrementally different from choreography or ballet.

    • Alright i get you, thanks for opinion honey

  • I like strippers np with them

    • What's np?

    • Never payed

    • @skeetskeetskeet oh ok but then how did you have them dance for you hehe

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  • I don't judge girls being naked or earning their money that way. But too many of others do. So if you take a job like that, you should know what it comes with. It should be in the job description: people will fucking judge you. It is the part of the business if you still wanna do it, do it. But should be considered as one whose doing the job has chosen to be judged.

    And I really think women should not be judged for showing their body, but for complaining about being judged is not consequential or rational.

    • yup absolutely right honey i completely agree that it comes with certain stings attached and strippers or sex workers can't complain about being judged, neither do i ever i just wish that all of us could think the way you said in second part that no one should be judged for it coz its just their choice if someone liked it they can watch them or have sex with them and if they dont like it then just mind their own business

    • wouldn't it be great if people minded their own business...

    • @skeetskeetskeet would be so great

  • I think it would be fun to try not sure about doing it as a job

    • Oh doing it as a job is much more fun honey I can say this from my experience

  • Yes, I think most do.

    • Most do what? Sorry i couldn't get what you are saying honey

    • Do you mean to say that yes most people see it all adversely?

  • I’ve gone into several strip clubs in my life.

    When I was a young buck

    I’d go in and make it rain.
    Pay for private dances.

    Etc.

    The last few times I went as an older more wiser man.

    I’d go in, pay for maybe a drink or two along with a cover fee if applicable

    Then sit and chill and watch the girls dance on the pool.

    The usual girl eye fucking me from the corner then coming up to me to try to get me to dance with her would come up to me and I’d chat it up with her. But I would never ever accept a request of paying them to grind on my dick.

    As a result of doing this.

    I have had some strippers scoff at me and got mad for wasting their time.

    And there were two that actually liked my company and loved talking to me, that they gave me their number and next thing I knew.

    They gave me a private dance in their own respective residence and I was then slamming my cock deep in their pussies after that.

    Good times

    • lol yup that happens a lot i hope you enjoyed their pussies lol they can even get you a free bj right there in the club lol i have done so many times if i liked someone hehe

    • One of them she wasn’t all that great. But the other one changed the way I saw sex forever. She sucked dick so damn good and her pussy was perfect. I mean.. yeah, but I wouldn’t really be down for that. Better to take her back to her place so I could man handle her

    • Can’t do some of the shit in the club that I can do at her place

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  • Whatever it takes to make money, some people have the assets to use their body for cash so why not use it before it dries up like a grape in the sun. Hooking is different though, it's a lot more dangerous and potentially fatal, much better ways of making money.

    • you are right but i do have different thoughts on hooking though hehe thanks for your opinion though

  • It's usually some women and uptight men that have an issue with it. Most people see it as harmless fun if its an occasional thing.

    • Yup i agree And what about sex workers honey

    • Legalize everything as far as I care.

    • Great and amazing hehe

  • I don’t see a problem with any of it. The reason people got to strip clubs is to forget the day to day and have fun. The only reason prostitution is illegal is the government can’t get their “fair share of taxes”. It’s not called the world’s oldest profession for nothing. Personally, I’ve never been to a strip club though. Never saw the point of spending money when I could see the same at home. Been thinking about going more recently though now that I’m single again.

    • Yup thats true, people forget their worries and have fun there And its not always possible to get the same fun at home honey

    • Definitely not possible now. No luck dating around here, that’s for sure. There’s just not many attractive single women around.

    • Ohhh i hope you find one somehow

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  • It's a very unhealthy way for people who are in a bad emotional state to cope. The more unhealthy ways of dealing with a problem, the less likely those problems are going to get resolved. If you actually cared about any of them going through horrible things, you'd talk to them, listen to them, show them around, invite them to hangout with someone, and be there for them. Sex workers don't do any of those things, they give them a false sense of hope at a high price and I don't support that at all.

    • Not really honey no body gives as any hopes except telling them that they should remain positive and things will shape up nicely for them And sex workers help them exhausting all the negative energy honey

    • If their wife, best friend, family member, or pet died, dancing on them isn't going to help them move on. Their world fell apart and sex workers aren't going to help them there, friends will, but when horrible things like that happen, they sometimes feel like they can't talk to their friends, or their friends leave them all together. Not in a healthy way, ask anyone who's been in a depression and went for adult entertainment if it helped at all, I guarantee they're going to say no. And I'm not naive, I know there's not a sex worker in history that started and said to themselves "you know what, I'm here because I want to keep emotionally crushed men company". And again, anyone who really cares about them would help them in a healthy manner and wouldn't ask for $400 for it.

    • Well at least it takes their mind off of those stressful and sad incidents for a while and that is helping ofcourse even doctors would approve that taking your mind off from a stressful event helps you in holding yourself together What about counselling services or therapists dont they charge for helping others by taking their mind off of something

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  • Personally I see nothing wrong with stripping a few of my friends are strippers and they enjoy it since it helps them pay for college. They are all wearing lingerie and only go topless when you go upstairs for a private dance.

    They have told me funny and messed up stories.

    • Great then and yea it happens that sometimes you get to be in messed up situations and sometimes really funny but better the club the lesser the chance to be in messed up situation tbh

    • Very true.

  • Some women decide to enter this world duo the lack of options on the work market, choosing this only to survive, with a few exceptions

    • yup you are right but even then it doesn't make any sense to look upon them adversely if they didn't find a chance somewhere else... and i think they should be respected more because at least they chose to work instead of relying on the state benifits and being burdon or fellow tax payers and yes many do it by choice and not because they are compelled to do it like myself

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