Does holding hands during sex mean anything?

So i’m not very experienced. I've only ever slept with 2 guys before this one. I've never actually dated anyone, mostly just hookups. (not that im against dating, i actually want to be in a relationship. i just haven't found anyone that I completely trust.)
Anyways, I met this guy. Before we ever hooked up, he told me that he's looking for more of a friends with benefits thing. And he's not looking for a relationship but if he gets into one, it has to happen naturally.
The first time I met up with him, it was just regular sex. The second time, he held my hand but only a little bit. Then last night, he held my hand practically the whole time while on top.
Does this mean anything or is it normal to do during hookups? The reason I’m asking is because the other 2 guys I've been with never held my hand. This guy also uses a lot more tongue than the other 2 lol
so im not sure if this guy is just more into it or if he’s actually starting to feel something more.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Rofl I know what direction your mind is going in, and just fucking forget it.

    This random hookup is not going to turn into anything, no matter how much he likes you, no matter how much he tongues you and holds your hand, you are still a slut to be used. You've sold yourself as such.

  • It sounds like he is interested in the intimacy aspect of your relationship as well as the sex. Be sure you are well covered with birth control of course.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Least it's your hand. When he wants to hold his mother's hand while you do him you know you got a problem.

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  • If I were to make Love to a girl, I would LOVE to hold hands!

  • He's being passionate.

  • Well the guy is very passionate for starters and also maybe he is starting to develop feelings for you

  • I think you are putting to much importance on something that doesn’t mean anything.
    That’s just something that guy does, don’t read anything into that.
    Instead concentrate on the sex...

  • He is very passionate