How can I experience sexual pleasure if nothing mentally arouses me?

I know a lot of sexual pleasure comes from being turned in your mind but is there a way I can still experience it without being turned on in the mind?

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  • Are you at all turned on by lesbian sex? It could be that you're attracted in that direction. I think I felt desire long before I figured out a way to satiate - at least w/ another person present but util you have had an orgasm it's hard to envision what they feel like.

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    • 9 d ago

      it doesn't do anything for me

  • Do you mean nothing arouses you like guys talking sexually or swing guys like that? Or do you mean you have never experienced anything there for nothing arouses you?

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    • 9 d ago

      i mean, i can make myself wet if i hit the right spot, but i don't feel any pleasure, so that makes me feel like i would need to be mentally aroused in order for it to feel good.

    • 9 d ago

      So it sounds like you have some sort of nerve or mental block... I would recommend seeing a massage therapist or specifically a sexual massage therapist or a Tantric massage therapist... they tend to cost a lot... but they will help!

    • 9 d ago

      How would that help me in the long run

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    • 9 d ago

      that stuff doesn't do anything for me

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    • 9 d ago

      No omg you need to speak to a therapist to sort this sort of thing out

    • 9 d ago

      um, ok then

  • Buy a vibrator and sit on it. Eventually, something will happen!

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  • yes. lets say you have sex with a guy whos unattractive, but he's a god in the bedroom. Your still going to be sexually aroused, because this guy knows what he's doing, and this goes both ways.

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  • I believe sexual pleasure is almost entirely mental. I don't think it's possible to be sexually gratified without the mental aspect.

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  • Yes, just masturbate. Learn what feels good, what turns you on.

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    • 8 d ago

      I've been trying but I'm not turned on by anything

  • Hypnotism.

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  • Watch porn lol

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    • 9 d ago

      it's not that easy for me

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    • 9 d ago

      i guess i'll just have to count this as a loss then

    • 9 d ago

      I'm sorry

  • How come nothing mentally arouses you?

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    • 9 d ago

      I really don't know

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    • 9 d ago

      ugh, i guess i'll just never know then. this sucks.

    • 9 d ago

      Guess not

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  • Have you tried sexting, or role playing yet? Have you tried just massaging yourself as you study?

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    • 9 d ago

      i'm not into sexting and roleplaying

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    • 9 d ago

      my ex did that. She did not buy a dildo till she was 23.

    • 9 d ago

      Oooookkkkkk?

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