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Craving my boyfriends dick, scared to annoy him with me being so damn thirsty?

My sex drive is probably bugger than my boyfriend’s and often it is me initiating. We have been together for 2 years. I also sometimes text him naughty texts, invite him over to have just to have sex etc. I am probably the dirty one, he likes it, but sometimes he is also the sensible one saying not now, not here etc. I am afraid that I am over the top, especially the last few days I am just so horny and craving his dick but I am scared he will get bored if I keep telling him and feel overwhelmed, but these days in particular I just can’t get enough and I am just so horny all the time like I am serious, not just saying this.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I've kinda been there. It is kind of annoying when your chick won't stop saying she's horny. We usually like to joke that guys are always "on" for sex, but it's not true. Sometimes we just wanna chill. Honestly, my first impulse was to say "That will never happen," but yeah, it can.

    That said, I'm going to assume that you're in your follicular phase in your menstrual cycle? I know, weird. Stay with me here. Female humans *do* have a sort of "heat", like other animals. It's just a lot more subdued. It's possible that this will pass after a week or two.

    There's been a lot of research, specifically by Martie Hasselton, on the female cycle and sexual behavior during it. You might find it interesting and relevant to your behavior.

    The fact that you've been together for 2 years, and you're still that nervous with him shows that you must really think he's a 9 or a 10 on the 1-10 scale, yeah? Chill. If he's put up with you for 2 years, he'll probably continue to do so. :P

    • Thank you for the reply. It makes sense that women are more horny during their fertile phase when we are ovulating? Yes I do think that 😄

    • Yep, exactly. Wanting to "feel sexy" and defend your guy from other women and such. And crave more supporting and comforting behaviors during the luteal phase, after ovulation. Well, I'm glad you managed to find a good one. Women often have a tough time finding a guy they view like that, I feel. You're a lucky lady. ^-^

  • When in doubt, put it in your mouth. I don't think it's possible for a guy to get bored of a blowjob. Even if he's busy - you can still suck it for recreation, with no real concern for whether he gets off, or how many times. It's just a cock massage with your mouth. It would be ideal for me to find a girl when waited patiently for me to get settled playing a video game or whatever, then unobtrusively crawled under my desk to spend some quality time with my cock.

Most Helpful Girls

  • 😑 this is the worst I know exactly how you feel. I hate to stress you out but it gets much worse as you get older. I had a talk with my SO and told him I need it at least every other day and a couple of times over the weekend or I had to reevaluate the relationship. He quickly adjusted for me. The days I can’t have it I use my toys etc. Good luck!

    • I will help you with toys if you DM me

    • Thank you, nice to know somebody can relate. I hope he can keep up, he is some years older than me.

    • I know I can long ride for You and a great experience

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  • masturbate i guess? communicate about how you feel. know that you can't force him or guilt him into sex if he doesn't want it.

    • Can we DM

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  • He won't annoyed.

  • Most guys would kill to have a woman like you that's focused on sex

    • sad thing is that its true. I would 100 kill too. Why are we like this?

  • I'm willing to bet he won't ever get bored. You said it yourself, he likes it when you're like that. In fact, when guys complain about their sex life, a lot of times, the woman is doing the OPPOSITE of what you're doing and not initiating or giving ANY sex at all. If it bugs you that much, then talk to him about it and get his thoughts.

  • You would meet your match if you ran up on me. I’d lick and suck places you never imagined a man licking and sucking. After multiple orgasms from my mouth, finger, and a dildo while you were sucking the fuck outta my dick at the same time, I’d proceed to wear that ass out till your little pussy couldn’t take any more of my big ole cock wearing it out.

  • i dont think thats a big problem... xD

  • Maybe you should get a fuckbuddy on the side lol

    • No never ever. I love my man.

  • So just suck him, don't tell him.

  • That’s why communication is so important.
    Tell him exactly what you said in this post.
    You are not “over the top”, that’s normal.
    If he says not now, not here, you say yes, right here, right now.

  • I wouldn't complain if I was him

  • You buy a nice toy and we will have a good time with each other

  • Same. Literally same.

  • has he ever turned u down?

    • Yes he has. Or rainchecked me to be more precise, so not something bad haha

    • lol is it always sex or do u suck his dick sometimes too?

    • Sometimes sex, sometimes blowjobs

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  • He is a lucky guy and doesn’t know it so don’t you worry

  • Well i say go for it and if he is annoyed it is his fault.

    If you want to let some steam off then for some fun we can get naughty and sext on kik. Only sex no relationship but my cock and your wet pussy as we kiss.

  • Are you two exclusive?

    • Yes we are exclusive, we have been that through our entire relationship.

    • In that case, I'm not sure what you can do. I guess you can just get some toys. But some guys don't even like that.

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