When is the "right" time to have sex with someone new?

So I know that it depends on the people involved. But, how long would you like the girl to hold out for you to not think that she's a slut for giving it up so fast? Also, would you say it's sooner if you've been friends before you started hooking up/dating?

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  • When the two of you feel comfortable enough with each other to have sex. To worry about what he will think if it is too soon is nonsense as he would have already shown he is wanting to move on to a sexual relationship with you.

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  • My girlfriend and I had sex on the first date and it didn't remotely impact how I view her. Granted, we started off as friends with benefits though and always had that intention going in.

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  • LOL! If you need to ask a public forum, then it's not time yet.

    Otherwise go ahead. Just be safe.

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    • 1 d ago

      It's more of a general question. There's no guy in my life right now :)

    • 1 d ago

      I see. Then when the day comes, a lot of what you do will probably be (surprisingly) instinctively.

  • Whenever I'm horny and know she doesn't have anything

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  • I wait at least 3 months regardless of previous situations

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  • I dont think anyone should be holding out. If it feels right, then just do it. Its not a big deal 😊

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  • when you're horny and you trust them that they will stop if you say stop.

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  • There is no right time. Just when you feel comfortable with the idea of it

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  • After STD reports have been exchanged.🖤

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  • ask jesus

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