What's most important during sex pleasuring your partner or pleasing yourself?

What's most important during sex pleasuring your partner or pleasing yourself?
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I'm on the fence I feel both kinda. Depends If it's a relationship or a one hit wonder
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Most Helpful Girls

  • That's an interesting question. For me, I want to please my partner as much as I can during sex. But after sex, if I'm still very horny and since I can only cum From foreplay, I want him to focus on my pleasure afterwards. But Sometimes sex itself is satisfying enough even if I don't cum from it. So I'd say, pleasuring my partner is more important.

  • I think both are important, but mostly pleasuring your partner.

    • Thank you for the MHO! 😊👍🏼

    • 👍👍👍👍

Most Helpful Guys

  • Her. Obviously a balance is best, but if I had to choose, I'd rather leave her feeling completely satisfied and mind-blown and leave myself feeling sexually frustrated.

  • HOLY FUCKING SHIT!
    You fuck in a sex swing?
    I can't believe GAG let you post that
    HOLY FUCK!

    • Shut up dude

    • Is that really you, Wow?

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  • I should pleasure the person and the person should pleasure me, then both would be pleasured and happy.

  • My partner's pleasure. I can get off super easily.

  • I enjoy pleasuring him.

  • Pleasuring my partner. I like hearing and seeing his face when my guys has an orgasm.

  • Definitely pleasing my partner. But I won't lie if he doesn't pleasure me back I wouldn't be happy. 👍😇

  • Pleasing my partner.

  • Pleasuring my partner, I can honestly do without and be fine with it.

  • I would say paying attention to their needs

  • My job is to pleasure her, her job is to pleasure me. If we both do our jobs everyone wins.

    • Plus if the camera operator does their job they earn a paycheck.

  • always been making sure my partner was satisfied
    when they are I know they are happy :)

  • Ideally it's a win-win kind of thing where both partners get pleasure from giving the other pleasure.

  • Yeah pleasuring her is the most important!

    I think if both concentrate only on pleasing the other than that's just gold.

  • I think i like going slow and make sure she tells me
    what spots is making her feel good and what i need
    to do, to make her feel better.

  • Either's a bonus to be fair!

  • OBVIOUSLY pleasing my Partner!

  • Pleasuring your partner. If you both have this attitude, both will be satisfied.

    Is that you?

    • No it's not

    • Okay. Sorry for asking

    • If it's a relationship what do you think a good standard is?

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  • Pleasuring her. I take a while so first I take care of her and I get closer in the meantime. Then we can focus on me or give her another one.

    • Good plan😃

  • Pleasing my boyfriend is more important 😍

  • Pleasuring my partner is the DEFINITION of pleasuring myself.

  • Both are valid, although is important to know what pleasure you more.

    If you don't know what you like sexually, you will have no clue what the other like, since you will be focusing on your doubts and fears. Doubt and fears your partner will be guessing.

    That's why no more virgins for me😅

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