Well with my partner and I, we use the pull out method cause 1. We've tried so many times with a condom and everytime I put it on, he is never able to stay hard long enough for us to have sex. 2. I'm not on birth control and never will be. 3. We both want kids together someday so If I do get pregnant by accident, it won't be a big problem. And I also have the support of my mom. 4. For some reason, he doesn't seem to have any precum so makes it less scary for me to have sex without a condom with him
But, everyone has different reasons for doing the pull out method and I wouldn't recommend it if you seriously aren't ready for kids and you aren't in a long term relationship. Cause if an accident happens... 🤷🏽
I honestly think that some think it might work (if he pulls out quick enough, there's less risk of pregnancy). It's still a high risk. Actually, that might be why some do it: simply BECAUSE of the risk.
I used the pull out method a lot before my girlfriend got on birth control pills. Guys can do it easily because we have something called "the point of no return" which is a few seconds before we ejaculate but nothings going to stop it. So, when we reach the point of no return, pull out and squirt wherever. I used to squirt on her tummy.
Do u have to be experienced to pull out?
No. Every guy who ever had an ogasm knows what the point of no return is. BUT, it takes discipline and enough presence of mind during intercourse to realize that you need to pull out at the point of no return. Since we instinctively have sex to make babies and, well, pussy feels good, we want to stay in (and never want to leave) and squirt. And that's how babies get made! This can be a problem too because many women want us to stay in her during our ejaculation for both instinctive reasons and the sensation of his cumming in her. So, a guy needs discipline. It's not a good method of birth control. It is best if she is on the pill.
Why use the pull-out method? Because condoms suck and fucking feels much much better au naturel.
Wearing a condom, while necessary in some situations, is AWFUL. Try to imagine how much you'd enjoy a nice dinner while wearing a condom on your tongue, and you have a good idea of what having sex is like when wearing one. So, most of the time, it's done to avoid having to wear a condom.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!My husband will often pull out if he is really close and doesn't want to cum. I have a Mirena hormonal IUD so no worries.
Either the guy is very good at seducing or the girl is very stupid.
Occam's razor applies here. If you're doing something you shouldn't that's likely to cause pregnancy, the obvious explanation is that you actually do want the pregnancy.
Maybe even because everyone around you has been warning you for years about how badly it's going to screw up your life. However many years later, here you are terrified of grownup sex, and here you are without a family, while all the education and money and life experiences you were offered instead never seemed to materialize.
The thing is that it's mostly guys unfortunately, that come up with the excuse that a condom reduces the feeling, that it is not the same, that condoms are a sex killer and all those other excuses that are unfounded.
Fact is that the pull out method is the one presenting the least safety to women and should be avoided at all costs.
Even though, guys will tell that they will pull out on time and "don't you worry honey", they cannot control and feel when precum oozes out of the urethra, once the penis is in the firm grip of the vagina muscles.
The likelihood that precum contains live sperm is relatively small but definitely a risk not to underestimate.
Yes, most guys will pull out a second or 2 before they feel the ejaculation coming but that is usually too late because precum has already found its way into your vagina. You don't need a deep penetration and a drop, on the vulva, at the entrance of the vagina is potentially enough to get you pregnant.
There is an estimated 60 million sperms per milliliter of ejaculate. Do the math. In theory, enough sperms to populate an entire country and that for each milliliter of ejaculate. Knowing that the average ejaculation can contain up to 600 million individual sperms, you tell me what the risk is that you are taking with the pull out method.
Because guys seen it in porn and think that's what your supposed to do
There are various reasons.
1) people are uneducated and don’t know they can get pregnant even if they pull out in time (very common, I’ve seen it a lot)
2) people know that but think that will never happen to them
3) maybe a couple is not trying to have kids but wouldn’t mind having one
To prevent pregancy. I love using the pull out method
Raw feels better to be honest 💙😇
Easy: they wanna be mommies and daddies
I don't know anyone who uses it as a genuine method of stopping pregnancy
various reasons, the most common is cos of latex allergies/irritation... also condoms can seem to lessen the sensation too...
some even have a fetish of the risk of becoming pregnant...
I had this with my last girlfriend, and she became highly irritated by the latex... plus at teh time and even now the availability of non-latex condoms were/are not as readily available as latex ones... also the cost is much higher..
and there were negative side effects where the pill was concerned and complications with the injection she wasn't able to have either
Maybe bc it feels so much better without wearing a glove? And trying to pull out is impossible by myself- if she helps push my cock out, it’s possible.. but otherwise I will end up pushing IN even more and harder... hehe
How comes my boyfriend can do it perfectly now? He is defo a virgin. However we do have sex a lot never used a Condom or never got pregnant
How is he a virgin?
No I mean I’m the first person he had sex with so I thought he’ll be inexperienced
They don't want babies
When you inseminate a lady there is a high chance she will get pregnant
When you put semen on a lady there is a low chance she will get pregnant
Did your mom not teach you sex ed? Because mine didn't
No. I know why not to get pregnant obviously. Didn’t u read what I wrote? I said why would they use it can it be cause it’s in a heat of the moment
You asked that, didn't state it Well now this information is here for everyone else to appreciate since u obviously didn't
Yes exaactly
Wearing a condom sucks if you have a trusted partner. For me it is a strategy. As long as you are in tune with you body then you really shouldn't worry much about pregnancy. Believe it or not its a lot harder to get pregnant even for couples cumming deep inside. I have had a lot of sex and the pull out method has worked great for me.
Now why do we do it? Because the skin on skin contact with a pussy is the most amazing pleasure you can feel on this earth. Thats why.
The only time I wear a condom when I have a longer term partner is when I want to cum deep inside her. That is fantastic too. For me I can just cum hard deep into her tight abyss. But there's nothing like an actually pussy and its wetness around your penis.
God bless women who take the pill. I worship them.
Well I use birth control pills, so, I don't need to worry about it
Yeah, it's the whole "Anti-insemination" trick... Which sometimes doesn't work! (Precum can include spermatozoa sometimes) I think it's also they'd rather use that method rather than using a Condom.
The 3 w's lol it feels better with no contraception and they dont want a pregnancy
To prevent unwanted pregnancy.
It feels better without condom and men are obligated to pull out unless a pregnancy is desired.
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