Do you prefer a dominant or a submissive partner in bed?

[Anonymous]

Recently I've gotten into the act of a switch, so
Im curious to know what others prefer.

[007-Tarzan]

My ideal partner would definitely be submissive... but not the typical kind of sub...

I would prefer it if it was more like a "brat sub"... someone who is more playful and antagonising... doesn't give up too easily and I have to work hard to break her down and make her mine...

The best way of visualizing it is to like think of like a magnificent illustrious bird who flies around the world freely but come supper time, she would fly back home and eagerly peck right out of my hand ahahah 😉...

In terms of switch play.. I'm actually open to it... but more for fun... like having a laugh or so... I don't necessarily find it arousing. I think it's because I'm really wired up in the head to be a dom.. to be honest with you... I can't even imagine or visualise myself being a sub let alone actually doing it lol...

I used to have this weird fantasy... where I wanted to trick and seduce this dominatrix chick and break her down in to being a my sub 😂🤷‍♂️... it's sort of like how Hiccup caught the Nightfury in how to train a dragon... but extreme adult edition ahahaha

[katita]

Sounds great!😊👠👠

[007-Tarzan]

Ahahahaa... you and those high heels again 🤦‍♂️

[katita]

Just admit that u like them! 😏😉👠👠

[AustinMan]

I'm a pure Dom with a bit of sexual sadism in it.

[Asker]

Yesss🎉🎉

[AustinMan]

So I'm guessing you're a subbie masochist? How about a follow?

[Asker]

Im a switch, i even wrote it in the description.

[AustinMan]

You did. My oversight. What's your preferred role?

[MissKittyz]

I'm extremely submissive in bed while my boyfriend is very dominant. I gotta do what my master tells me to do ☺️

[Anonymous]

I am so happy my boyfriend turned out to be a dom. We fit together perfectly.

[Asker]

Wait, he's an actual dom? Or he's just dominant in general? If you found an actual dom im soo jelous! Those are hard to find

[Opinion Owner]

In the bedroom, he is dom and I am sub. In life outside, we are both equal.

[Asker]

Exactly the way it should be👍👍

[Asker]

How fun!

[DizzyDesii]

I like that we're both mostly dominant with occasional submissive sides

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho

[Clowr]

Prefer a switch light that do fall more on the submissive side, but do take full control from time to time.

[Asker]

Id say thats more so my postion👍

[Clowr]

That's good. It is more of a sudden surprise for the man then. And it is fun :p

[Asker]

Yeah because typically im dominant in everyday life but was always submissive sexually, definatly makes things more fun when you change it up:)

[Clowr]

Haha. I'm the other way xD not dominant in life. Only if needed and I se things go to hell with what the leader is doing. To laid back otherwise. But in bed I am dominant and know what I want or want to do.

[dressed2kell]

Is "switch" an answer? Because I'm all about that!

[Theft]

I’m fairly submissive but like to get dominant once in a while... and so I would enjoy having a girl who was submissive most of the time as well. And occasionally dominant.

[JackSmy]

So as a switch, sometimes you let him/her decide or be on top? If you are the dominant, what does that mean, and what do you do? does he let you love him anally? special play?
Not judging in any way, and just curious, because I am so bored with women that just don't seem to have any preferences, desires or anything!
Tell me, PLEASE, that someone, is doing something fun and erotic, so I don't lose my trust, and become celebate!! :):)

[Asker]

Guys get ontop a lot, thats basic missionary,? I wouldn't say thats submissive. And yes and like using strap ons and sometimes like verbally degrading there manlihood, its not the easiest to explain lol Dont go celebate! Why would you do such a thing,?

[JackSmy]

Never really liked the 'missionary' position, and some I have been with have really loved 'doggie' because I tease their nipples and clit, and they seem to love it. Not much experience with strap-on play, but I would like to hear more, but maybe private chat? Not WANTING celibacy, but after the last break-up, just. . . Tired of the same old thing, with the same woman, different name. Sounds like you know some fun, new things!

[Secret6620]

Dominant partner 🖤

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

My girlfriend is very dominant in bed and I admit I like it.
Very few times I want to be dominant, and when I do I have to keep a tight charge because if she feels a hint of hesitation on my part she immediately turns the situation around.

[Cammy137]

A Dominant who can switch when the mood strikes

[rebelsunshine]

I'm more submissive but I switch so I generally prefer a dominant partner in bed.
My craziest ex was an Aries girl who got me to dominate her by doing something outragous to provoke anger or jealousy in me which i'd then take out on her. Risky strategy to say the least.

[Finchie40]

I Love switch as well

[Grobmate]

Dominant most of the time.

[Asker]

Submissive man, domt hear that often🤷‍♀️

[Grobmate]

Hey for somethings I like to do as I'm told. Plus her getting exactly what she wants is imortant! I can be dom if required but prefer her to be.

[BornFree]

I am more dominant but can be submissive

[Agape93]

Submissive partner.

[Dargil]

Mostly subordinate. I want to lead but I want her to go along enthusiastically.

[EroticArab]

I'm dominant, so I like a submissive woman in bed. But there is one aspect of female domination I like, so maybe the right switch would be great.

[Asker]

Pegging?😂

[EroticArab]

Hahaha. No, no! But that's funny!

[EroticArab]

Turns out I couldn't send messages yet to tell you what it is. Haha

[Greegreen22]

Switching it all up

[Junior42]

I like both

[JosyJosy]

a switch but sub is also fine

[YesIm4Foot9]

I'm 4ft6 so if I'm dominant...

[Asker]

Anyone can be dominant, even at that height girl💪

[AndrewMG]

Depends on the mood, I like a compatible partner lol

[Danny_dan92]

Sub. All day. Forever. Till my heart stops beating

[Asker]

Lmfao callmmm downnn🙈😂