I just found out my boyfriend is bi, and I found out by seeing femboy porn on his pornhub history. Help?

[brokion]

I should preface this by saying my boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship and we met online playing video games together.

I don’t really know what my question is. But I’m just gonna explain what happened. The other day I was horny and looked at my boyfriend’s pornhub account (we shared it with each other, it’s not like I was snooping around) because I was curious as to what he had recently watched. On his “recently viewed” section, I saw femboy/trap porn videos on there. I was extremely shocked, as this entire time I thought he was straight. Never in a million years would I have guessed he was bi. Anyways, I confronted him and asked him if he was bi or something, and he said “yeah, I guess I am, a little bit”. This honestly broke my heart. I’m not homophobic, I don’t hate LGBT members, I just never in my life have been able to imagine me dating a bi person. Now at this point I’m not really concerned about him being bi anymore. I love him. But what I am concerned about is the femboy porn. He said he doesn’t like regular gay porn, just the femboy stuff. I’m probably an asshole for saying this but it weirds me out so much that he watches it. Femboy porn and other porn like that is the or one of the weirdest types of porn to me. It genuinely makes me cringe, weirded out, and instantly turns me off. I’m sorry if any of you reading this are into that type of stuff, but I really just can’t stand it.
I’m also just very shocked that this has all happened. Again, never in a million years would I have guessed he liked that stuff.

I guess my question is what should I do? I really can’t handle too much stress and I have a lot going on in school right now. I don’t want to break up with him because I love him, but I seriously don’t know how or if I can accept the fact that he’s bi and watches femboy porn (which is the much worse part for me). Please help, I’m under a lot of stress right now.

[AnimeMan205]

I understand! It's backwards, upside-down, and COMPLETELY contrary to your beliefs and thoughts about him! If you love him, (and he loves you) don't give up! Work it out, by perhaps easily asking him if this type of Porn is his Primary Interest, or just a kink... Ask him if he thinks YOU are his favorite, or if he's into other LGBT people... I hope it all works!

[brokion]

Thank you. This is probably the most useful answer on here. I’m trying my best to just accept it and move on just because of how much I love him. We’ve talked about porn plenty of times (and have even watched it together, ha) and he’s pretty into straight porn as well. I’d say he’s mainly into straight porn, actually.

[AnimeMan205]

That's good! That shows that his femboy junk is just a kink, not a PRIMARY concern! Good luck to the future, and to you!

[ering987]

My advice is don't stress, there s nothing wrong with dating a bi guy they face way more in today's wolrd than anyone because people have false ideas about them. Talk to him but my question is why were you looking at his history?

[Anonymous]

He’s probably more gay than anything else. But most men are, and most men love dick. They’re just usually in the closet. U shouldn’t be shocked.

[Spongeboblol]

I am honestly only sexually attracted to femboys because they are pretty and make me proud

[Socal99]

Pm me please

[Spongeboblol]

@Socal99 lol sorry im not attracted to old men

[Socal99]

Old men ! Excuse you. I'm young. Oh your just a baby. Still have a pacifier in your mouth. Yea don't pm me. I don't talk to babies.

[Spongeboblol]

@Socal99 yes im sorry 🙏 why is it written that your age is 46 years old?

[Kante33]

@Socal99 bro your 48 your not young your generation is starting to become grandfathers

[someginger]

Ok so he's BI doesn't make him a different person, also femboy is one of the weirdest you've seen? What part of the internet have you been on? I would say get your own pornhub account and just tell him if he's watching stuff like that not to tell you

[brokion]

I do have my own PH account, and of course I’ve seen worse stuff. But in the realm of the more common fetishes/interests, that’s what weirds me out the most. I’ve accepted he’s bi, it’s just the femboy stuff.

[someginger]

Well maybe just think of it as a difference in taste, you might like a move he might not. also does he have PornHub premium or something?

[brokion]

That’s something I’ll consider, thank you. And no, we both have free accounts.

[someginger]

Fair well if you don't want to see that stuff I would say make a new free account and add me I need porn friends 😂😂 jk

[Cammy137]

Just ask him about it and go from there. You'd be better to hear his open and honest views on the matter.

[CapnHawk]

My only advice is if you two are sexually active, get tested ASAP. You don't know what he has been doing when you're not there.

[brokion]

We’ve never had sex, it’s a long-distance relationship and we’re both virgins. He said he’s not so proud of the femboy stuff and he’s never told anyone else.

[someginger]

Are you trolling or something?

[brokion]

@someginger No. We’ve both always been really shy in real life and pretty sheltered by our parents.

[CapnHawk]

Focus on your studies and put this issue on the back burner. When school is over, it's time to have a heart-to-heart talk with your b/f in order to get your relationship squared away.

[Horsefabio]

Cut the bigotry out.

[Phanta]

Don't do anything hasty. That does mean don't break up with him. But also, don't make any serious commitment with him before you can be assured that he would live a straight lifestyle with you.

[brokion]

We’ve talked about starting lives with each other and making serious commitments, but that was before all of this.

[Horsefabio]

Stop being biphobic.

[marriecarlson]

HELP LMAO 😭😭

[MannySimms]

He's not gay. He likes pretty (and probably skinny) and he likes dicks. Me too, I consider myself a bit queer but that's all.

Show this to him. What's not to like?

[MannMitAntworten]

What the heck is femboy/trap porn?

[brokion]

Males who dress up as girls, wear makeup, but masturbate like guys “normally” do. The guys also act very feminine.

[MannMitAntworten]

Aren't those transexuals or whatever? I jokingly call them, "Transformers"... because they are more than meets they eye. Your guy is into chicks with "crowded pants", huh. Break up or get used to the idea of him stealing your panties. Nutty

[GlarthirFist]

That ain't how it works lmao

[bangyourhead]

You need to break up with him. You're uncomfortable with him being bi - and rightly so. But he won't change.

[brokion]

Honestly I know he can’t change. I’m a little bummed out from it but I’ve accepted that he can’t change. What I haven’t accepted is that he watches that type of stuff. I’m still in a bit of shock I guess.

[bangyourhead]

I can imagine.

[Horsefabio]

Jesus Christ the homo/biphobia on this page is alarming.

[Valnac]

If it bothers you that much, you are never going to make it work. He isn’t going to change.
Instead of dragging it out, just nip it in the bud.

[brokion]

I’m going to try to make it work. It bothers me but hopefully with time I’ll learn to accept it more.

[skeetskeetskeet]

Here's the best analogy I can describe your dude with... you can drink a beer and not be an alcoholic... you can drink 10 beers and not be an alcoholic... you can drink 100 beers and not be an alcoholic... But if you suck 1 dick your gay... i dont make the rules, i just make sure they dont get broken...

[brokion]

? I’m having trouble following. He’s bi, not gay.

[QuietRunner]

leave him

bi guys are gay

[Horsefabio]

You need to either get over this on your own or break up with to spare him *your* biphobia.

I am a bisexual man. We exist. It's not a phase. We are not more likely to cheat than others. We are also not more likely to be carrying an std than others. Anyone telling you otherwise is spreading hateful misinformation.

[Anonymous]

Wooo ima sorta a femboy cause i do it in my room

[Anonymous]

Try to get him off these stuff by dominating him, use strap on to fuck his ass and make him suck, u may finger his ass as well every now and then and give him rimjob.

[TomGarand]

Sexuality doesn't work that way, nigga.

[Anonymous]

Ya most likely more gay than bi right now. If he was older, he would be bi. He still has not admitted it to himself yet. I would move on.

[Horsefabio]

Stop being biphobic

[Anonymous]

www.pinknews.co.uk/.../

He isn't very smart: he should look in private or hidden surfing: there would be no history.

[brokion]

It’s on his pornhub account, not his actual browser history. It’s kind of hard to navigate the settings and I doubt he thought I was gonna be looking through his recently watched section.