Does fingering yourself feel the same as being fingered by someone else?

Does fingering yourself feel the same as being fingered by someone else?
It feels the same, & equally or even more pleasurable
Vote A
It feels the same, but it is more pleasurable to be fingered by somebody else
Vote B
It feels the same, but it is much more pleasurable to be fingered by somebody else
Vote C
It doesn't feel the same, but it still feels pleasurable
Vote D
It doesn't feel the same, & it's not pleasurable to finger myself
Vote E
I don't find it pleasurable to be fingered by myself or anybody else
Vote F
I don't have the experience to answer this question
Vote G
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Most Helpful Guys

  • A suggestion for guys to try. Sit behind your girl, legs on either side of her. With one hand finger her clit. With the other stimulate her nipples.

    This will mimic the same position she is used to if she masturbates.

    She can even help move your hands into the best positions for her pleasure.

    Now, something she can't do is nibble, kiss, and nozzle he neck and ears while doing this. So you get to mimic what she does for herself and add a your own contribution to the mix.

  • As a guy it always feels better when getting a handjob then when I masturbate so from a guys perspective a hand (or finger) other then yours feels better. Your thoughts?

    • I don't know I've never been stimulated by somebody else, which is why I asked the question

    • When the time comes do not be afraid to hell him (or her) what feels good and what does not. Guys sometimes need some coaching. Maybe show him how you do it or teach him how you use your toys...

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nope. My boyfriend can reach certain parts of my pussy that I can't reach myself so it actually feels better when he fingers me than when I finger myself. Also, just having someone's finger inside me just naturally feels better as well. It is like a different feeling. Makes it easier for me to focus on the pleasure as well

  • No, the angle and depth is a lot different. We have limited reach and control, unless you're some kind of contortionist.

    • I chose C.

    • Ofc you did, as did I. That analogy of the contortionist trying to get that finger up the way a cock, conjures up some wild images... too funny! Thanks for those images... 😎. 😜

    • Lmao What fun to be a contortionist!

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  • When I hold my dick with my own hands and strokes it, does it feel the same to me than being strokes by a soft hands of a girl. NEVER. Plus who would take place of her face and other assets which is before my eyes to see and enjoy (and if naked - that's a lot of BONUS).

    So, it does never feel the same, and never as pleasant. It is just a compensation you can give to your pussy or dick, when you can not arrange one for yourself to finger and fuck you.

  • None of the above... (at least in terms of masturbation for me).
    1. It doesn't feel the same
    2. It doesn't feel as good
    I've learned what does and doesn't feel good well enough to the point where anyone else trying to do it just feels a little pathetic =/

  • Use your non dominant hand and it feels like someone else is doing it🤘

  • I voted B.

  • I still don't understand how it can be pleasurable to be fingered.

    • Do you also get an urge to pee when you try to finger yourself?

    • No, I don't

    • Oh. Does it not feel like anything?

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  • I voted with the majority so far. Although I’ve never been fingered, I assume it’s like having my cock sucked, or stroked. So of course while it feels great when I stroke it, it always feels better when she’s stroking me. Pretty common belief, and I expect most others to agree.😎

    • @Asker- by the way I Love that graphic>>😂🥰🤣

  • It’s okay... they usually do to damn much. I prefer to do it myself.

  • Wouldn’t know 😐

  • No! I get myself off better by rubbing my clit but someone else doing it feels so much better! I don't know why lol just does! I don’t like fingering myself but him doing it feels great!

    • Finger nails

  • No. I want my guy to finger me.

  • G. I'm a guy. Yes, there's around back but it is awkward and distracting to reach.
    I wonder sometimes if you have been recruited by GAG to "stir the pot". They should do that. Most girls don't want to "get into it" like you do. Maybe your lead will "loosen them up" in a manner of speaking.

  • You should know

    • I haven't been fingered by anyone yet. That's why I'm asking

    • Tell your best male friend to do it

    • I'm sure she'll find no shortage of guys willing to oblige her with this. nice pussy by the way

  • This wording is strange though doesn’t surprise me given your other questions.

    It will almost inevitably feel worse but be more arousing - a trade off most people make willingly.

    • Why would it be more arousing?

    • I guess I should be specific. It’s more arousing of the idea of them doing it is arousing and that depends entirely on your sexual interest in that person. If unclear here I’m talking about mental arousal and excitement NOT a different level of physical arousal. I suspect to a large extent when people say it’s more pleasurable they mean the overall experience is more pleasant - not that the physical sensation is better. Though I may be wrong especially for the women. Some seem to note that the angle and finger size is different. It’s sort of a known joke for men that most women aren’t actually very good at giving hj, but that they are still, to most guys, fun anyway.

  • When i fingered my last girlfriend she said, it felt real good
    when i concentrated on her clitoris. So i don't know?

  • Definitely better when a man does it.

  • I’ve never had that experience because I’m a guy. I would love to finger my girlfriend.

  • I never tried

  • Men don't finger themselves.

    • * real men

  • It feels better with a man for me.

  • Men have strong and thicker fingers. Feels better than when I do it myself

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