How do I stop comparing myself to porn stars?
Before anyone says yes i know ALL porn is faked and that the moans and groans are faked and over exaggerated but i feel like that because i don't seem to require sex as much as pretty much anyone i know (not due to low sex drive but due to a problem with trust and by extension intimacy) i feel like when i do eventually have it with my girlfriend that i have to be Mr porn star
Now me and my girlfriend are inexperienced (i'd only had sex 4 times before i met her and she was a virgin before me) so as strange as it sounds to me pleasing a virgin/someone who is inexperienced isn't exactly hard to do anything i do will be fireworks. Plus all it takes is some quick googling to find out tips for how to please a women, it really isn't rocket science. But i still feel like i should the the guy that is able to go for hours at a time and be really rough and dominating
Don't get me wrong i do get a kick for being dominating but somehow i don't think a girl would take to kindly to being called a 'slut' or 'my personal whore' even in the bedroom unless it was for porn. Also yes in case you're wondering i did watch a lot of porn starting at 18, at the time (and even now) that's been the way i've dealt with my urges
For me i'm happy with just foreplay but part of me feels like i'm not a 'man' if i don't enjoy intercourse (which i really don't; it doesn't do anything for me, but i compromise for my girlfriend)
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