How and why do guys masturbate?

[Anonymous]

When guys who are in a happy relationship masturbate, do you imagine yourself with the person you’re masturbating too? Or do you just like the idea of sex? And do you decide to masturbate when you see a hot girl that turns you on, or is it just on a whim?

[Dargil]

"When guys who are in a happy relationship masturbate, do you imagine yourself with the person you’re masturbating to?"
*I create a composite. She has no name. I only do this if I need a push.
"And do you decide to masturbate when you see a hot girl that turns you on?""
*I've done that a few times. Mostly it's a sleep aid. Every once in a while, I have a gourmet session involving internet AV and devices.

[Sambelfast34]

Lots of guys do. We do it when we're single and also when we're with someone. It's natural and healthy

[Asker]

But do you imagine yourself having sex with that person?

[Sambelfast34]

Yes if I was single. Sometimes if I'm with someone. I think it's ok as long as I don't touch her.

[Asker]

Would it be fair for a girl to have her feelings hurt by her boyfriend imagining he was with another girl while getting off?

[Sambelfast34]

Yes the girl would have every right to be pissed. If with someone all thoughts and attention should be on them.

[Asker]

But if my boyfriend is reassuring me he’s not imagining actually being with the girl then it’s normal and I should believe it?

[Sambelfast34]

How do you know he's thinking about other girls when getting kinky with you? Did he tell you or have you just got a feeling.

[Sambelfast34]

Does he find you sexually attractive?

[Asker]

I meant to ask, when he’s telling me he’s not actually imagining having sex with them when he’s masturbating, should I believe him or is that just bs?

[Asker]

Yes he finds me very attractive but I don’t look like these models or porn stars obviously

[Sambelfast34]

I guess you have to take his word for it. As long as his attention is on you and he's doing what sexual things you like.

[Asker]

Fair enough. I suppose I’m just being self conscious.

[Sambelfast34]

As long as he finds your body attractive. Looks isn't everything to me. I don't care about body size of boob size. I think I'm in heaven if her nipples are big lol.

[Sambelfast34]

You have every right to want to know if your boyfriend is thinking of someone else when getting kinky with you. I've only done that once.

[Asker]

Haha he does find me attractive. But it makes me self conscious cause I’m a size 3 not 00. And B cup not DD. And not the flattest/ fit tummy but also not fat.

[Asker]

I’m just hoping he’s not like picturing himself having sex with other women when he’s masturbating.

[Sambelfast34]

Your body sounds perfect and I would like your shape and size better than a super slim dd girl. I personally like smaller boobs.

[Asker]

Thanks. This has actually been helpful

[Sambelfast34]

Does he pay plenty of attention to your boobs and nipples lol. That's the first place I go.

[Asker]

Yea he loves them

[Sambelfast34]

Your welcome. Always remember not all guys like super slim and big boobs. Same as not every girl likes a guy with a big cock. Trust me I know lol.

[Asker]

But the girls he chooses to get off too are super slim with big boobs

[Sambelfast34]

That's good he loves them and you like them played with. Nipples is one of my biggest turn ons lol.

[Asker]

Haha yea it keeps him happy

[Sambelfast34]

Sounds like you both have fun when getting kinky. Before I go on a date I have to tell my size as it has got me dumped before lol.

[Sambelfast34]

Does your boyfriend tell you your nipples are big. My ex was very big

[Asker]

No mine are regular size

[Sambelfast34]

Regular size is nice to. I think all sizes of nipples is very sexy.

[Sambelfast34]

The girls he's playing to are him just wishing. Deep down he's happy with a regular girl.

[Sambelfast34]

Yes definitely do imagine having sex with her. Think that is what gets me so horny.

[PrudentGuy]

Not all guys masturbate habitually.

I am one such who masturbated less than once a week.

And if I DO need to masturbate (I hated wet dreams, so I masturbate to avoid it), I'll just think of having sex with my ex, usually doggy style.

[Marcuslrh]

Unless you want to start having wet dreams and making a mess in your sleep then you have no choice to be honest

[EroticArab]

I masturbate to different ideas and people. It's very rare for me to masturbate thinking about people I know, though. And mostly on a whim.

[ColHathi]

Boredom mostly.

[bill_towers]

Out of mental weakness. Its just waste of time and energy.

[hansukota]

I just do it fr porn. I believe imagining people is a bit weird

[Haffodulla]

With my hand and a good video
And usually masturbate coz I'm so horny and can't get sex at that moment

[Valnac]

I generally don’t masturbate when I’m in a relationship.
When I’m not, I masturbate.

Why do girls masturbate when you are in a relationship.

[John1217]

PM me and I'll talk you through it

[theonlyonebig]

I just like the idea of sex... And how we masturbate?
I sit in a comfortable position and make sure that I'm dressed and get naked for the best position and then hold my cock and move it to and fro until I cum