Broken Condom = end of relationship? He flipped like a light switch?
I met a guy off tinder and we really hit it off. The first time we met we talked for hours and we had amazing sex. And each time after that we always spent a lot of time getting to know each other. We spent the night together, he made me breakfast. He asked me about my thoughts on things. We seemed to have a lot of chemistry. He would talk about doing stuff in the future. He gave me like 5 books to borrow. He would kiss me randomly like on the cheek and forehead and he always always went in for a long goodbye kiss when we got to the door. told me i was the coolest girl he’s ever met and i was really fun to be around last time i saw him. He would text me everyday to ask how i was, and he asked hang out every time. I played it real cool and let him do the work, because i didn’t want to come off needy or anything. Last time he came over, when we finished the first round of having sex, (i was on top) my vag like gripped the condom. It was really really wet so i took it to the bathroom and saw there was a rip in the side of it. We went and bought plan b and i told him i wasn’t on birth control. I said if all else fails there’s abortion and he agreed. He stayed for like an hour and we just talked and laughed. He texted me the next day and asked how i was and if i wanted to hang out on Thursday. I agreed. Wednesday night he asked if i wanted to come over. I couldn’t so he said okay cool you can just come over Thursday.
Thursdays here and I’m getting ready to head to his place and he texts me saying “Sorry, I don’t wanna hang out tonight. Just wanted to let you know so you could make other plans” and i texted back saying “oh okay, are you alright or do you not want to hang out anymore” he texted back “Idk really, the other night freaked me out. I don’t want to have a kid right now and don’t want to do that stuff for a while. Sorry I’m just being honest”
Do you think he will come back and try again? Or was this probably just an excuse because he didn’t like me? Im lost
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