Why are men obsessed with anal?

I really don't understand the appeal tbh...
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  • A lot of people don't understand the appeal, and most of those people probably never will because they have a mental aversion to the very idea. But I can tell you a lot of people, both men and women, enjoy it a lot. I have dated women who loved anal and weren't happy if they didn't get it on a regular basis. All of them said they had their most intense and enjoyable orgasms during anal because it adds another dimensions and intensity to them.

    For me, I enjoy it because because of they way it feels so tight around the opening, it's silky smooth inside, I an go deeper in her ass because there is no cervix to bump into, there is no risk of pregnancy, and there is just something really hot about seeing the waves of orgasm wash over her faces while I'm fucking her in the ass.

    • LOL @ the downvote. Was that you, QA?

    • "Some" enjoy it not all. it's not the majority at all

    • Is that why you down voted me? Please go back and reread what I wrote. I never said all or a majority.

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  • I wouldn't say "men" like all of us... but if i were to be honest... vagina dont mean shit no more (part of the reason why i despise for marriage virgins)... women will take anything up the vagina, for any reason... but she's gotta really love/want you, to take it up the ass... and if done right, I've found some women that can't orgasm with vaginal penetration, but cum out of their fucking minds with anal penetration.
    So... dont blame some men that just want to make her have an orgasm...

    • Just like men put their dicks anywhere...

    • yea.. I've never understood that... i dont put mine just anywhere... including sketchy looking females... thats why he is still pristine and disease free.

    • «He»?

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  • Mostly they like it cause all people have one and men are conditioned to spread their seed to anyone and everyone.

    • We like it Beacuse butt hole feels comfortable and tight

    • @theonlyonebig Comfortable for who lol?

    • For us... Why aren't you comfortable?

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  • Guys are obsessed with any hole a girl has, if his dick fits and it causes friction is all it takes.

    • They're still sparing women's nose and ears 😂

    • Yeah. If it fit there, they wouldn't, tho...

    • @normalice - I hate to say it 😂 but you're right. I'm sure someone would do it if it fit

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  • TBH, although I'm a butt guy, I never penile penetrated my girlfriend before. I got the "dirty" stigma in me.

    However, I enjoy using a dildo on her and she on me.

    Prostate orgasm is very satisfying.

    • This is healthier this way i guess as long as you clean it up very well before

    • LOL! We bathe before sex. And i always wonder why guys here only talk about penetrating her anal, but not she penetrating his (with toy or finger). I can testify, prostate orgasm is another great pleasure to guys.

  • Are you really just disgusted or actually curious? If you're actually curious, I'll try to explain my interest.

    • Both

    • I can't do much to clarify on the disgust angle but as for why I love anal sex, it boils down to three reasons, all of which are part of me being pretty damn kinky so if that puts you off, stop reading here. If not... 1) Dominance. I'm a 100% Dom and a very assertive one at that. I want to see her happily submit to me sexually, knowing that that's her favorite, maybe only way to really enjoy sex. In real life, I work to be the perfect gentleman. When the clothes start cumming off, her ass is mine! 2) S&M. I'm a have a bit of a sadistic side sexually. I want to know that she's happily suffering at my hand. Nothing extreme, just healthy erotic pain. For my ladies, they like anal sex to hurt good and I am all about making that happen. 3) It just feels so damn good, what with how tight things are and how amazing it feels when she clamps down on my like a vise with her sphincter. Questions?

    • Nope, this is pretty clear why I would never be part of this shit based on what you've explained. All of these are plain degrading, humiliating and disgusting to me. I would never ever agree to any of these shits. I respect myself way too much for this ha ha!

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  • Guys love to do experiment in bed. Anal sex is not come porn. Its way more when the human existence starts. Anal sex is completely normal and healthy if both are enjoying the pleasure.

    And as per the obsession with Anal sex, i think guys are also obsessed with vaginal sex too. In all together, guys are obsessed with anything related to sex coz they love it and girls also should actively take part in sex and experimenting.

    • Saying anal is «normal sex» is hilarious

    • I clearly specify !! """"IF BOTH ARE ENJOYING THE PLEASURE"""". Thanks 🤞

    • Saying "normal" implies some judgement about what's common vs uncommon

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  • There is the bottom line that as a few have already said if a guy can fit his dick in it he will is it... but for me I like it because then it is also getting to admire her ass. I don’t know about any other guys... but I LOVE a good strong ass!!!
    Give me a girl who loves her body and and who keeps her booty tight and I will pump her all full all damn day and love on her SO much!!!

  • Have you ever explored that joy, alone, with a toy, or with a friend, or a guy? Just curious! :) :)

  • It's more an obsession with girls who like anal. Such girls have placed their dignity on the back burner as a means to achieve greater thrills from cock. We like it when a girl likes cock that much.

    Plus it's slightly tighter.

    • So this is about girls humiliating themselves?

    • Not at all. Humiliation is ultimately relative. Is it humiliating to be in the military? Some would think of it as low class, peasant work, while others actually take pride in it. Anal is the same sort of thing - it doesn't have to be humiliating, but we all know that most girls seem to have decided that it is. The excitement of showing someone that by making the common decision they also made the wrong decision is the main allure of teaching anyone anything. Add it to the fact that it also involves ejaculating into a nice ass and the obsession is kind of a no brainer.

    • "Such girls have placed their dignity on the back burner as a means to achieve greater thrills from cock" : this is humiliating themselves lol

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  • Don't knock it til u try it!

    • What about guys trying to get it in the butt then?

    • From what I have read, anal sex (a guy taking a penis in his butt) feels really good too because It can stimulate the prostate gland.

    • Women don't have a prostate gland

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  • Mostly just porn really.. It looks great on porn, and so they wanna try it.. Me personally am not obsessed wit it.. I'll be good wit the vagina.. Lol.. 8)

  • It's a condom-free ride.
    I think it plays into an appetite for forceable rape or at least abuse and humiliation. Never done it, never will.

    • Oh no lol... It should never be condom-free

    • Agreed but I think it's done anyway.

    • I would never put my best friend inside someones ass hole without a condom. Thats uber disqusting. But i see what you mean.

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  • I don't care for it at all, I would never do it unless the girl was extremely insistent.

    I've heard there are women who enjoy it or even prefer it, but it absolutely does not appeal to me in any way.

    Why is it that you think ALL men are the same?

    • Most men have a hell lot in common and yeah... You're pretty much the same

    • Fuck right off, it goes to show that you travel in very few male circles. If you think we're all the same, then most of us must be invisible to you, lol.

    • Not true... I just see a hell lot of similarities among male-gender specimens

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  • It's taboo, and we see it in porn.

  • Trendz.😂😂

    Porn mainly! They leant many things from there...

  • " I really don't understand the appeal tbh. " ... Neither do I !! NOT for me... not ALL men are obsessed with anal !!

    • Most are

  • It's tight and fucking a girls ass is a privilege so it's both physically and mentally stimulating.

    • If she's one of the rare girls who like it, it's not a privilege and you're likely not the first one lol

    • But it still feels good

    • So your argument wasn't accurate... All right lol

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  • Never tried it.

    • But are you into it?

    • Not really... maybe because I don't know what I'm missing.

    • Some have never try but still want to... I guess you're an exception :)

  • There are several reasons many guys like anal. Aside from the physical pleasure, giving anal is a very dominant activity. There's also the taboo nature of anal which makes it seem more satisfying. Some women actually enjoy it which makes it pleasurable from a pleasing your partner standpoint too. I'm sure others can think of other reasons too, but those are the ones that immediately come to my mind

  • I am totally against it.

    • Good 👍

  • because of porn

  • i dislike anal with a girl, a pussy is wet warm smells good and anal just smells like shit

  • The devil's onion ring is tight

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